How to Process an Argument

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How to Process an Argument

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Mar 22, 2021

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You and your partner just had an argument… now what? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll guide you through 3 steps to process the argument so you can repair it and move forward together. Visit gottman.com/afterafight for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Doctors John and Julie Gottman.

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Mar 22, 2021

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