How to carefully balance your texting exchanges with a woman to turn her on instead of turning her off when you wonder if you should text her or let her text you next.  

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who has been with his girlfriend for about five months. He has come to realize that he was smothering her and turning her off which led to her treating him more like a friend than a lover lately. Recently he was texting with her after his car broke down stranding him at work, but instead of showing concern, she seemed to fade away and stop replying as the evening wore on. The next day she reached out and he ignored three of her text messages until she became concerned. He’s wondering if he should text her next. He’s struggling between texting and pursuing too much, vs. coming off as being a cold dick to her. He asks my opinion of his next moves and how to find the texting sweet spot so she stays attracted, respectful and interested.