Why Men Don't Show Emotion (And How To Help Us Out)

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Why Men Don't Show Emotion (And How To Help Us Out)

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Why do some men seem like completely emotionless creatures? Why does it seem like men go out of their way to bury and hide their feelings? Why do men avoid vulnerability so vehemently?

In today's episode I'm sharing the truth that all men have feelings and emotions, and I'm discussing why so many of us choose not to show them.

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Nov 27, 2018

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