Happy Virgo Season! In this special episode, Olivia & I are wracking our brains once again to give you some good, sound, bisexual advice for all of your bilemmas. Can you believe it we’ve made it to episode 20?! Thank you for listening love you forever x

Send your bilemmas to:
https://www.instagram.com/thebisexualagendapod/

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https://www.instagram.com/oliviasnapsthings/

Resources mentioned:

The Vagina Dispatches:
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/video/2016/sep/23/vagina-dispatches-part-one-what-vulvas-look-like

How I learned to cast off shame and love my vulva:
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2018/oct/23/how-i-learned-cast-off-shame-to-love-my-vulva-body-positivity

I can’t find the exact Stoya quote I mentioned but she has a sex advice column you can read on Refinery 29:
https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2014/06/70142/labia-insecurity-sexting

Fucks Given Podcast:
https://www.instagram.com/comecurious/?hl=en
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/f-ks-given/id1444176549

Queer Sex Therapy Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/queersextherapy/?hl=en

Content Warnings/Trigger Warnings:

Bilemma 1: Threesomes, non monogamy, jealousy, sex, and open relationships.
Bilemma 2: Being “straight passing”, misgendering, biphobia, and exclusion in the queer community.
Bilemma 3: Dating/asking out a friend.
Bilemma 4: Having sex while drunk, regretting a sexual experience, virginity, consent, and sex.
Bilemma 5: Discussions of genitals/vulvas/vaginas, sexual health, transphobia, body shaming and sex, HRT, transitioning, body image issues, dysmorphia, bottom surgery, medical interventions, racism, and transphobia in the NHS.

This last question was sent in by a woman about her own relationship to her body/vagina/vulva and the bodies of other women, so there was a focus on women and body image but I definitely want to use more gender neutral language when talking about these issues, and I hope that the discussion was inclusive although we did focus on women.

(Please message me on IG if there’s something missing from this list).

Music: PremiumWave