Get ready for this amazing episode with Dr. Ian Kerner, psychotherapist and author of the best-selling book, and cunnilingus how-to guide, “She Comes First.” You’ll learn SO much and laugh along the way. We talk about everything: mismatched libidos, the distinction between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how privileging intercourse over outercourse can be problematic. We ask a bunch of listener questions, get to real solutions and make lots of sound effects in the process.   Want more?  Visit Dr. Kerner's Website and check out his books   Follow us @RemyKassimir @Charkasstic @HowCumPodcast And HEY!! This episode has REAL fun extras. Are you a new Cumpanion? Old Cumpanion? Love us? Like us even a LITTLE bit? Show us! Like, review, 5-star rate and visit our Patreon for extra content and to donate!  Want to see Remy do stand up? Visit remykassimir.com for show dates and live podcast recordings! SO excited to be partnering with Sweet Vibrations* again this season! Go to SweetVibes.Toys & use promocode: "HOW CUM" for 15% ALL PRODUCTS, ALL SEASON LONG!