Trigger Warning: rape and assault. We want you to enjoy our content, but please make sure to take care of yourself; some of the following material can be sensitive to some listeners.  During this emotional, inspiring, (and still incredibly funny) episode, the incomparable Fran Drescher (The Nanny!) opens up about how she turns pain into purpose: surviving uterine cancer and the struggle of attempting to convince doctors of the pain she was feeling; managing herself and her emotions through two divorces, having a gay ex-husband, and living through the trauma of the sexual assault and violence she suffered throughout her life. We discuss how she has recently started/ and is crushing stand up comedy, the comedians who inspire her, and the extremely important work she is doing with CancerSchmancer.org.  Fran shares her thoughts about sex toys, finding fantasies to get your mojo running, her mother catching her with her hands "down there" as a child and how much she loves penises, now and forever. We discuss how "Women of a Certain Age" DO still love sex, why it may be beneficial to have "a man for every chapter," and Fran gives us a life altering tip from her Shaman on self care.  Also, Remy smokes a joint in Fran’s house!   --- Follow us @RemyKassimir @Howcumpodcast @charkasstic @officialfrandrescher We are so excited to partner with Helix this season! Get up to $125 off the best mattress you'll ever sleep on at HelixSleep.com/HowCum Thank you for all the love over the past year, we LOVE YOU and couldn't do it without you. If you want to support the show, please oh please consider helping us in the following ways: 1) Donate on our Patreon page at www.patreon.com/howcum. You will receive awesome extras, BONUS EPISODES, photos, etc. and all proceeds go to creating this podcast! 2) Subscribe, share, and leave us a rating/review on iTunes. It helps us get in touch with great new podcast guests and listeners! 3) Stay close with us by following us and reaching out on social: Instagram/Twitter- @HowCumPodcast Website - www.RemyKassimir.com