The secret word I try to say more often in my marriage. (One of the best pieces of relationship advice I got years ago when I was single.) It applies to parenting, friendship, and work. This is a different kind of 80/20 rule, y’all.  To more joy and less overwhelm… P.S. Join the conversation after any episode! Either in the comments of my latest post, whatever it is, @HilaryRushford (I read them all). Or submitting a topic or Q with an email or voice memo I might play on the air at HilaryRushford.com/podvip.