Perfectionism (Block #3)

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Perfectionism (Block #3)

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May 19, 2016

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Is your tendency towards perfectionism blocking your creative confidence? Writer and coach Maria Molfino reveals the root of perfectionism's dark side and shares how you can decrease its power over your life.

Show Notes:
-Download the free Creative Confidence Playbook at mariamolfino.com/free-playbook

References:
-The Gap by Ira Glass
-Big Magic by Liz Gilbert

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-Lucia Lilikoi lucia.bandcamp.com

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May 19, 2016

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