100 Places in Italy Every Woman Should Go - 10th Anniversary Edition
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Susan is your fun-loving, savvy-traveler girlfriend whispering in your ear, inspiring you to make your Italian dream vacation come true. Go along with her as she leads you up and down the boot to discover this extraordinary country where Venus (Vixen Goddess of Love and Beauty) and The Madonna (Nurturing Mother of Compassion) reign side-by-side. These pages, curated with passion, humor, and expert female tips, are guaranteed to lift you out of the flood of online information and make your travel planning easy and pleasurable.
Discover masterpieces of art that glorify womanly curves, join a cooking class taught by revered grandmas, shop for artisan treasures, ski the Dolomites, or paint a Tuscan landscape. Make your trip a string of Golden Days by pairing your experience with the very best restaurant nearby, so sensual delights harmonize and you simply bask in the glow of bell’Italia.
Whatever your mood or budget, whether it’s your first or twenty-first visit, this brand new edition of 100 Places in Italy Every Woman Should Go is a straight shot to the heart and soul of one of the world’s most beloved destinations.
Susan Van Allen
Susan Van Allen lives in Los Angeles.
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- Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5So much potential lostGreat idea; poor platformWould have been great as, perhaps, a wiki, a websiteWhy recommend places where women cannot travel without a male companion?? NO advice on how safe a locale is for women, in particular.Sometimes a chapter is a place, sometimes it's a "genre" -- confusingSometimes the "woman" connection is totally missing. It's just a recommended place to travel.And the index is useless on the e-book. A list of words. No page numbers, no links.OTOH, I DO think this would be a great wiki.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The one place that I want to see before I die, is Italy. I've always been fascinated with the beauty of Italy. It's such a gorgeous place and I adore Italian food. I know for a fact that the first place I would visit would have to be Rome. I want to see the Pieta at Saint Peter's Basilica. Then I would move on to Florence to see the Costume Gallery. Of course I would have to visit Florence. After reading this book, I want to go more than I ever imagined possible. The details included brought Italy to life for me. I hope I get to take a trip soon.
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100 Places in Italy Every Woman Should Go - 10th Anniversary Edition - Susan Van Allen
Praise for 100 Places in Italy Every Woman Should Go
This book makes me want to pack my bag with the lightest of clothing and follow Susan Van Allen’s alluring suggestions for traveling in Italy. Her knowledge reveals an intimacy with the country and a honed sense of adventure. Andiamo!
—Frances Mayes, author of Under the Tuscan Sun
"Written with cheeky playfulness, this ode to the Italian motherland is a treasure trove of female-centered delights. From the good luck gained by patting the buttocks of Venus to sleuthing through lush gardens that once courted Papal trysts, from spree-shopping at La Perla lingerie to witnessing centuries-old female saints’ day processions, this companion guide invites a rich kaleidoscope of adventures, wherein no woman traveler takes a back seat. Brava!"
—Anne Calcagno, editor of Travelers’ Tales Italy
"No country welcomes women travelers like Italy, and Susan Van Allen’s compendium is a delectable fritto misto of places and experiences that makes its readers be counted among the cognescenti."
—Carla Gambescia, author of La Dolce Vita University:
An Unconventional Guide to Italian Culture from A to Z
Susan Van Allen might be the best girlfriend you never met…a virtual passport to a girl-friendly ride up and down the boot.
—Pittsburgh Tribune
A wonderful gift for any woman traveling to Italy. With Susan’s advice you won’t be overwhelmed and you’ll discover how nurturing it is to travel in a country that has honored us since we all descended from Venus.
—Marybeth Bond, author, Gutsy Women and
Best Girlfriend Getaways Worldwide
"One of the most innovative and fascinating travel guides dedicated to Italy...It fills a gap on the shelves at the right time. No ordinary directory of addresses, 100 Places in Italy Every Woman Should Go is an authentic portrait of Italy from the charmed perspective of a woman, a writer and an experienced traveler."
—Select Italy
"I knew that Italy was the land of la dolce vita and far niente, but this is the first book to present an organized way to find your way through her earthly and soulful wonders. I want all my girlfriends to have a copy of 100 Places."
—Camille Cusumano, editor of Italy, a Love Story
Susan Van Allen’s writing makes the magic of Italy jump off the page. She has a knack for capturing the charms, quirks and authenticity of this magnificent land. Don’t go to Italy without reading this!
—Kathy McCabe, editor and publisher,
Dream of Italy Travel Newsletter
No matter how many times you’ve been to Italy and think you know it, reading Susan Van Allen’s book almost guarantees a return trip…a delightful book you’ll only put down long enough to check the flights to that fascinating country.
—Carol Coviello-Malzone, author of
Flavors of Rome: How, What & Where to Eat in the Eternal City
Part guidebook, part history, and part manual to the good life in the land of La Dolce Vita, Susan Van Allen’s magnum opus on all things Italian is essential reading for women (and men) who either want to get the most out of their next trip or want to be spirited back to their last.
—David Farley, author of An Irreverent Curiosity
That old Freudian chestnut–‘What do women really want?!’ has been answered once again. Susan Van Allen has romped through Italy and picked the very best, mixing dreamy delights with drops of dainty decadence. She suggests readers:
treat this book like a cookbook…and make a full meal of it. …you could—and you should.
—David Yeadon, author of Seasons in Basilicata
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Tenth Anniversary Edition
Printed in the United States
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To my mother
who opened the door to Italy
and always told me:
Do what you love!
Whenever I go anywhere but Italy for a vacation,
I always feel as if I have made a mistake.
—ERICA JONG
Table of ContentsIntroduction to the Tenth Anniversary Edition
Preface
SECTION I
THE DIVINE: GODDESSES, SAINTS, AND THE BLESSED VIRGIN MARY
1. The Campidoglio, Roman Forum, and Palatine Hill
2. The Pietà, Saint Peter’s Basilica–Rome
3. Santa Maria Churches–Rome
4. Churches Dedicated to Female Saints–Rome
5. Bernini’s Beautiful Broads and the Galleria Borghese–Rome
6. Venuses, Madonnas, and Judith at the Uffizi–Florence
7. Santa Maria Novella—Florence
8. Annunciations–Florence
9. Mary’s Sacred Girdle and Salome Dancing–Prato, Tuscany
10. Museum of the Madonna del Parto–Monterchi, Tuscany
11. City of Saint Catherine–Siena, Tuscany
12. Town of Saint Margaret–Cortona, Tuscany
13. Santa Maria Churches–Venice
14. Madonnas by Titian, Bellini, and Tintoretto–Venice
15. The Scrovegni Chapel–Padua, Veneto
16. Venus of the Beautiful Buttocks and Other Museo Archeologico Nazionale Treasures–Naples
17. Cloister of Santa Chiara–Naples
18. Cave of the Cumaean Sibyl–Cumae, Campania
19. Goddesses and Madonnas–Palermo
20. Nymphs, Goddesses, and Santa Lucias–Ortygia, Sicily
21. Temple of Segesta–Sicily
SECTION II
VILLE, PALAZZI, AND AN APARTMENT
22. Palazzo Barberini–Rome
23. Villa Farnesina–Rome
24. The Costume Gallery at the Pitti Palace–Florence
25. Casa Guidi–Florence
26. The Peggy Guggenheim Collection–Venice
27. Palazzo Fortuny–Venice
28. Villa Valmarana Ai Nani–Vicenza, Veneto
29. Palazzo Ducale–Mantua, Lombardy
30. The Royal Apartments in Palazzo Reale–Turin, Piedmont
31. Oplontis–Torre Annunziata, Campania
32. Villa Romana del Casale–Sicily
SECTION III
GARDENS
33. Villa d’Este–Tivoli, Lazio
34. The Park of the Monsters–Bomarzo, Lazio
35. Gardens Outside Florence–Tuscany
36. The Tarot Garden–Capalbio, Tuscany
37. Villa Cimbrone–Ravello, Campania
38. Parchi di Nervi–Liguria
39. Gardens of the Isole Borromee–Piedmont
40. Giardino della Minerva—Salerno, Campania
SECTION IV
BEACHES
41. Sperlonga, Lazio
42. Forte dei Marmi–Tuscany
43. Sirolo–Marche
44. Positano–Amalfi Coast
45. Parghelia–Calabria
46. Santa Teresa di Gallura–Sardinia
47. Scopello–Sicily
SECTION V
BEAUTY TREATMENTS AND SPAS
48. Hair Salons and Spas
49. Spas—Tuscany
50. Spas—Sirmione
51. Grand Hotel Abano Terme–Veneto
52. Spas—Ischia, Campania
53. Masseria Torre Maizza–Puglia
54. Hammam–Palermo, Sicily
SECTION VI
INDULGE YOUR TASTEBUDS
55. Caffès
56. Gelato
57. Chocolate
58. Wine Bars
59. Women-Owned Wineries
SECTION VII
SHOPPING
60. Shoes
61. Leather
62. Ceramics
63. Jewelry
64. Fragrances
65. Lingerie
66. Embroidery and Lace
67. Paper
68. Milan
69. Antique Markets
SECTION VIII
ACTIVE ADVENTURES
70. Biking
71. Hiking
72. Skiing
73. Boating
74. Yoga
SECTION IX
COOKING CLASSES
75. Cooking in Rome
76. Morning at the Market–Florence
77. Cooking with Chef Patrizia—Venice
78. Cook in Milano
79. Tuscan Women Cook–Montefollonico, Tuscany
80. Mamma Agata Cooking School–Ravello
81. Cooking in Tropea–Calabria
SECTION X
LEARN ITALIAN CRAFTS AND CULTURE
82. Mosaics at Cassio Workshop—Rome
83. Florentine Crafts
84. Maskmaking at Tragicomica–Venice
85. International School of Ceramic Art–Deruta, Umbria
86. Landscape Painting–Buonconvento, Tuscany
87. Giuditta Brozzetti Weaving and Embroidery Workshop–Perugia, Umbria
88. Art Restoration Workshop—Puglia
89. Italian Language Classes
SECTION XI
BE ENTERTAINED
90. Opera
91. Classical Music
92. Jazz
93. Puppet Shows
SECTION XII
ADVICE FROM WRITERS
94. Frances Mayes
95. Sarah Dunant
96. Marcella Hazan
97. Mary Taylor Simeti
SECTION XIII
LA FAMIGLIA EXPERIENCES
98. Places for Children
99. An Italian Wedding
100. Go Find Your Mammas
Tips for Italian Travel
Budget Travel Tips
Packing
Favorite Restaurants
More Favorites
Calendar of Madonna Holidays and Female Saints’ Feast Days
Online Resources
Acknowledgments
About the Author
A decade ago, when this book first hit the shelves, I couldn’t imagine the joys that would follow. I’m so grateful for the many travelers who’ve reached out to tell me that my advice added happiness to their Italian vacations, with new discoveries and enriching experiences. It’s been thrilling to open emails to find photos of women waving to me from a winery in Tuscany, enjoying chocolate at my favorite shop in Venice, or biking Rome’s Appian Way.
All this enthusiasm inspired me to see my words in action and create Golden Weeks in Italy: For Women Only tours. It’s been wonderful to share My Italy
with women and for all of us to fall under that magic spell the country has on us females, which is what inspired me to write this book in the first place.
It’s been a pleasure to refresh and expand this book, adding new places I’ve grown to love over the years—from charming small towns to artisan shops, restaurants, and spas. As the beautiful journey continues, let’s keep in touch through www.susanvanallen.com and the ever-expanding channels our world of social media brings us.
With heartfelt gratitude to all you readers and travelers, I send you all my best wishes for your adventures in Italy.
—SUSAN VAN ALLEN
I fell in love with Italy at a dining room table in Newark, New Jersey. It was Nana and Papa’s dining room, my maternal grandparents—immigrants from Southern Italy. The walls were painted in a pale-rose stenciled pattern, the table spread with an ivory-colored lace cloth. On the mahogany sideboard sat a soccer-ball-sized jar of wild cherries marinating in syrup, next to a Capodimonte lamp, with porcelain figures of fancy ladies in flouncy dresses fanning themselves under the shade. A soprano on the hi-fi sang "Un Bel Di Vedremo—
One Beautiful Day We’ll See Each Other."
Nana, with her apron tied up under her marshmallow-baggie arms, lit the candles. My mother and aunts carried in platters heavy with mozzarella, roasted peppers, shiny black olives, steaming bowls of macaroni. I sat propped up on a telephone book, clinking my tumbler of half-red wine/half-water along with the grown-ups toasting, "Salute!" By the time the feasts were finished, the candles had burnt to their bottoms, dripping onto the lace cloth. Papa poured Strega, a golden liqueur, into curvy glasses, and sliced a dome-shaped, slathered-with-whipped-cream rum cake.
This was my first Italy: a big, delicious, loving heart.
Every August Papa would get on a ship to visit his sisters who still lived near Naples. He’d send back postcards of statues and churches. He’d return after Labor Day with beads from Venice, rosaries blessed by the Pope, rocks from Mount Vesuvius.
Italy became magical and mysterious, beckoning me—a billowy cartoon finger wafting out of a pot of bubbling tomato sauce.
When I got there for the first time in 1976, I arrived in Roma Termini with a pack on my back and a bursting anticipation. The trip was a sweltering August blur of standing awestruck in the Sistine Chapel, tasting my first gelato, getting my bottom pinched. Naturally there was romance: on the train I’d met a bel ragazzo named Luciano who’d sat across from me in the compartment. We fell madly in love for forty-eight hours and rendezvoused in the Forum: moonlight, a Chianti bottle with a straw-covered bottom, two nineteen-year-olds singing Beatles songs to each other.
Feeling transformed into a woman of the world, I headed to my Roman cousins where I was embraced with smothering-lovering and seated at their dining room table, coming full circle to my childhood Italy.
The spell was cast. Italy grabbed hold of my heart forever. Over these many years it’s drawn me back, again and again.
Tonight as I’m sitting here in an apartment on Rome’s Piazza Paradiso, way past bedtime, even for Italy, I’m realizing there’s been absolutely no logic to my times here. The trips started off with visits to the major sights in the big cities, but then out went the plans, and instinct flung me to such spots as a classroom near Rome’s Colosseum where I struggled to tackle the subjunctive, a quiet farm road in Puglia surrounded by old olive trees, dancing at the Excelsior in Florence with my husband one New Year’s Eve.
I became the girlfriend with the lists
—scribbling down places I’d loved visiting and passing them along to my traveling pals. If I was back in the States counting the days till my next trip, I lived in Italy vicariously—knowing that Babs was in Rome seeing all those provocative Bernini sculptures with my notes in hand, Sheila at a glove shop in Florence, Louise drinking wine at my favorite bacaro in Venice.
When the opportunity to write this book came along, so did elation, gratitude, and then a freezing panic. How could I choose 100 out of the infinite pleasures I’d experienced in Bell’Italia? So let’s just get the most obvious fact out of the way: there are more places than any one book could hold. I’ve even left out some of the most obvious—such as the Sistine Chapel, Pisa, and Michelangelo’s David—things well covered in other guidebooks.
In these pages, I’m sharing with you some places from my list of favorites, along with those my savvy Italian and American friends have raved to me about. I’ve put a spotlight on goddesses, the Madonna, female saints, beauties who’ve inspired masterpieces, women who’ve taken power. After all, isn’t the fact that women have been worshipped here for thousands of years one of the reasons we love Italy so much? Though in modern times females haven’t yet triumphed as far as business and political realms go, as Luigi Barzini in The Italians says: Men run the country, but women run men.
Here where la famiglia is the power source, women are at the core of it.
What about your male traveling partners? They’re likely to enjoy a lot of these places, too, whether it’s a museum, beach, or spots for adventure and learning. Okay, the guys probably won’t be into buying lace in Rapallo, but they’ll certainly enjoy Venus of the Beautiful Buttocks in Naples!
Italy seduces both sexes, with irresistibly feminine appeals. Shaped like a boot we’d love to strut around in, she transforms herself as she transforms travelers. She’s the nurturing mama, the drop-dead-gorgeous vixen, the compassionate spirit. She’s even the unreliable girlfriend who exasperates you with travel snafus, but you forgive her because she’s so darn charming. She’s constantly coaxing, Come on, lighten up and enjoy my beauties and flavors.
Treat this book like a cookbook. What do you want a taste of? Botticelli’s Birth of Venus? The best chocolate in Rome? A ceramic painting class in Deruta? A wine therapy spa treatment in the Veneto? Allow your mood to be your guide, savoring the experience Italian style, letting it unfold with an unhurried Old World pace.
To make a full meal of it, I’ve included suggestions for Golden Days
—matching a place to a nearby restaurant, just like I do when I send out lists to girlfriends. These are only suggestions, because each of us has our own deeply personal experience of encountering Italy.
But as unique as each encounter is, I’m amazed at always hearing, even from travelers without a drop of Italian blood in them, the same words: It felt like home.
Home, in the sweeping sense of a place that brings peace and comfort, a place that stirs the soul.
For me, Italy brings back that childhood dining room table feeling. It sneaks up on me now, looking out the window of this apartment in late-night Rome. There’s a light shining on a little Madonna altar across the way, her robe the same rose as those dining room walls. Out of the shadows, from a nearby restaurant, comes a dark-haired signorina, walking as if she absolutely knows she’s a descendant of Venus, with her Adonis—a bel ragazzo in a leather jacket—linked to her side. They stop for a smooch under the Madonna, pressing up against each other as if this was their last night on earth.
Italy, once again, playing an endless beautiful song.
My wish for you is to enjoy her many places of pleasure, wherever your desires lead you to go.
—SUSAN VAN ALLEN
ROME
The Divine: Goddesses, Saints, and the Blessed Virgin MaryItaly begins with Venus—Goddess of Love, Beauty, Fertility, and Sexual Healing . She’s that gorgeous divine gal you’ll see posed naked all over the country.
The Ancient Romans believed they were her chosen descendants. It was Venus who seduced a Greek mortal and thus became the great grandmother of Romulus and Remus, those twins suckled by a she-wolf on Rome’s Palatine Hill who founded the Eternal City.
Her presence is eternal. If you have doubts, watch Italian women striding down the via, knowing that spark of Venus lives inside them.
Moving from Pagan to Christian times, churches honoring the Blessed Virgin Mary (aka the BVM) were built smack over Venus’s temples. Mary is everywhere: dangling off taxicab mirrors, popping out of alleyway altars, wowing you in masterpieces.
Madonna Mia! Two divine females embody the essential spirit of Italy.
Italy is Venus: Country of beauty, freedom, mercurial passions, surprising possibilities.
Italy is Mary: Country of motherly love, compassion, serenity.
With those two adored beauties and many more goddesses and saints surrounding you, go and have a divine time exploring…
Mythology 101
You’ll be seeing goddesses all over Italy, so here are clues to identify Who’s Who.
Venus (Goddess of Love and Beauty), is easiest to recognize, as she’s usually nude or scantily draped.
Other goddesses that made up Ancient Rome’s Big Six (Worshipped equally alongside six major gods) are:
Juno (Jupiter’s Queen and Goddess of Marriage) dressed like a soldier for her job of protecting the finances of the Romans.
Minerva (Virgin Goddess of Rome, Wisdom, and War) with her helmet and spear.
Ceres (Goddess of Agriculture, Motherhood, and Patron of Sicily) holding a cornucopia of wheat.
Diana (Virgin Goddess of the Hunt and the Moon) carrying bows and arrows, with a moon crowning her.
Vesta (Goddess of Hearth and Home) veiled, surrounded by her perpetual flame.
Mary’s Rites of Passage 101
Italian artists wore down paintbrushes and chisels to express the divine human nature of the Blessed Virgin Mary (BVM). In their masterpieces, they created scenes from this heroine’s journey to show experiences that could mirror our life experiences. Some scenes are familiar, others may be less so:
Presentation in The Temple: She accepts her fate. Three-year-old Mary, brought to the temple by her parents, dances up the steps.
Annunciation: She receives the announcement that the Divine is within her. Angel Gabriel swoops in to tell the virgin she’s pregnant with the Son of God.
Visitation: She shares the miraculous news. Pregnant Mary visits her cousin Elizabeth, who was way beyond childbearing years, but pregnant with John the Baptist.
Nativity: She becomes the loving mother.
Assumption: She triumphs. Mary dies and rises body and soul to be crowned queen of heaven.
The Campidoglio, Roman Forum, and Palatine HillYOU’LL NEVER FORGET YOUR FIRST TIME. You’ll be walking along or speeding in a cab from the airport and then will appear…the Colosseum…the Arco di Tito…the whole glorious spread of jaw-dropping triumph and ruin.
It’s a place to let your imagination run wild. Picture women rattling tambourines in torch-lit processions, chariots carrying tanned muscular men in togas to the baths.
Goddesses’ temples, Empresses’ tombs, and churches dedicated to the Virgin Mary are all to be discovered in the thousand-plus years of history that surrounds you. It’s impossible to absorb it all in one shot. Hiring a good guide is best since hardly any of the sculptures and ruins are marked. Or just stroll around and surrender to your fantasies.
Here are some places where women take center stage:
The Campidoglio
The Michelangelo-designed piazza is a perfect place to begin, where Minerva (just behind Marcus Aurelius) sits on a throne holding her mighty spear. To either side of her are the Capitoline Museums, packed with sculptures of characters who once roamed the area surrounding you.
In the Palazzo Nuovo (museum to the left of Minerva) head to the first-floor hallway to see The Capitoline Venus. She’s featured in a sunlit niche, posed as Venus Pudica (modest Venus), with one hand over her breast, the other covering her Cupid’s cloister. Yes, she’s modest, but also teasing, as if to say: Look what I’m hiding...
Venus was the deity who flitted from passion to passion. She was married to Vulcan, God of Fire, but even the best couple’s counselor couldn’t have kept this beauty tied to that angry, crippled god. Venus had hot affairs with Mars (God of War), the devastatingly handsome Adonis, and disguised herself as a mortal for trysts with men she found attractive. Every year she bathed herself in the sea from which she was born to renew her virginity.
In the same hallway, you’ll see a statue of a Roman Woman Dressed As Venus (hardly dressed), proving how closely Romans associated themselves with the Goddess. The Roman woman breaks out of the Modest Venus pose, standing proud and naked with one hand on her hip. For a laugh further down the hall, check out the Drunken Old Woman, who’s crouched, laughing, and guzzling a jug of wine.
The Roman Forum
Here in the ongoing archaeological excavation, is the Temple of the Vestal Virgins, now rows of pillars with remains of female statues.
The Cult of Vesta, Goddess of Hearth and Home, was the oldest of the ancient world. Some say this cult still exists in modern Italy, where la famiglia remains the country’s core.
The Vestals were young girls, chosen when they were between the ages of six and ten, who were put in charge of guarding and leading the worship at Vesta’s temple for a 30-year term. The upside for the virgins, in a time when women didn’t have that much freedom, was that they could come and go as they pleased and got perks all over town, like special seats at games and festivals. The downside was gruesome: if they let Vesta’s flame go out they’d be flogged and if they had sex with anyone they’d be buried alive.
The Palatine Hill
Walking up from the Forum, you come to this pretty and serene place, where Romulus (great grandson of Venus) chose to begin the city. It went on to become the Beverly Hills of Ancient Rome, where noble palaces were built. In the sixteenth century the Farnese family created gardens here, so you can wander through rows of boxwood shrubs, cypress trees, laurel and rose bushes, and enjoy lovely views of the sights below.
As for the palaces, the House of Augustus and Casa di Livia (Livia’s House) are open to the public with special reservations. In Livia’s house, you’ll be treated to a vast arched space with frescos of vibrant garlands, symbols of Augustus’s victories. The Palatine is a great place to fantasize about the grand days of Livia and Augustus, who ruled Rome for forty-five years, bringing the city into its Golden Age.
Back in 39 B.C., just after Julius Caesar’s assassination, Livia was a beautiful nineteen-year-old, married to the much older Tiberius Claudius Nero, and pregnant with their second child. Along came Octavius, a rising star on the military scene, married with a pregnant wife. Octavius fell in love with Livia, divorced his wife the day she gave birth, and married the pregnant Livia. Livia’s old husband gave her away at the ceremony, even throwing in a dowry. It turned out to be a good political move for all involved and in those days the citizenry didn’t even blink over it.
Octavius became Emperor Caesar Augustus and ruled Rome with his perfect mate Livia, who took charge of all the biz at home when he set off to conquer distant lands. Livia was an exemplary Roman wife. She was famously chaste, worked wool
(made her husband’s togas), and never showed off with fancy jewelry or dress. The couple lived simply here throughout their fifty-one years of marriage, with Livia putting up with philandering Augustus, who was known for his S&M exploits. Together they revived Rome, restoring monuments in the Forum and building new ones throughout the city.
Livia’s become famous in fiction, particularly through Robert Graves’ I Claudius, where she’s portrayed as a conniving woman who poisoned potential heirs to make sure her family line would inherit the throne. Whatever version of the story you believe; Livia’s descendants did end up ruling Rome. She died at the ripe old age of eighty-six and was honored as Diva Augusta. Her image was revered in the streets that surround you, carried in celebrations by elephant-drawn carriages.
To get a more vivid experience of Livia’s lifestyle, head to the Palazzo Massimo alle Terme, near the Termini station. The entire garden room of her suburban villa has been moved to the top floor of this museum, so you can stand in the midst of amazing frescos that feature a harmonious, abundant landscape of trees, flowers, and birds.
TIPS: Don’t go to the Forum between 10 A.M. and 2 P.M., the heaviest tourist times. The museums, on the other hand, are rarely crowded, and in addition to the Palazzo Nuovo, the Palatine Museum, with its mosaics and sculptures, is a good choice. To avoid lines, you can make reservations in advance and also get tickets for the House of Augustus and Casa di Livia at www.coopculture.it
Capitoline Museums: Tuesday through Sunday. 9:30-7:30 (www.museicapitolini.org). Roman Forum and Palatine Hill: Daily 8:30 until one hour before sunset. Check the website (www.coopculture.it) for opening times of House of Augustus and Casa di Livia. Palazzo Massimo alle Terme: Largo di Villa Peretti 1 (near Termini), Tuesday-Sunday 9-7:30, www.coopculture.it.
Golden Day: Time your visit so you’ll be on the Palatine Hill at sunset, then head to Terre e Domus Enoteca della Provincia for an aperitivo. This is an excellent, modern-styled restaurant and wine bar that features products of the Lazio region, facing Trajan’s Column. (Via Foro Traiano 82, 066 994 0273, lunch and dinner reservations essential, open daily 7:30 A.M.-midnight).
TOURS
For the best guided small group tours, contact Context Travel at www.contexttravel.com.
RECOMMENDED READING
A Traveler in Rome by H. V. Morton
SPQR, A History of Ancient Rome by Mary Beard
The Pietà, Saint Peter’s Basilica–RomeYOU’LL FEEL THE PULL OF THE greatest sculpture ever made as soon as you enter the doors of Saint Peter’s. It’s over there, to your right. Where the cameras are flashing. Where tourists are posing. Where among the crowd there is at least one nun. Get close: the Pietà. Pietà means pity. And compassion.
Has compassion ever looked more beautiful? How did Michelangelo make marble flow? How did he capture such grace and serenity in Mary’s face?
Michelangelo modeled the face of Mary after his mother: his mother who died