Just Show Up: How Small Acts of Faithfulness Change Everything (A Guide for Exhausted Christians)
By Drew Dyck
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If someone puts one more thing on my shoulders, I might collapse.
Bestselling self-help book titles tell you that you’re brilliant, awesome, powerful—usually with an expletive thrown in, just to pound home the point. Do these affirmations feel accurate? Instead of blasting through projects and conquering the world, most of us feel like we’re crawling uphill.
But Christians are still called to live a life that glorifies God and blesses others. How do we do that when we’re stretched to capacity? Just Show Up answers that question with a liberating message: God doesn’t expect you to do everything. And He certainly doesn’t expect you to do it all overnight. Simply showing up is often the most important thing.
This book looks at present-day examples and also stories from Scripture of imperfect people used by God. Moses, by his own admission, wasn’t very eloquent, but he showed up and God used him to liberate and lead His people. We name churches and children after the disciples. But originally, they were just a bunch of uneducated nobodies with one thing in common: when Jesus said, “Follow me,” they showed up.
With humor and candor, Dyck reflects on his own faltering progress while recounting inspiring stories of how God rewards the persistent presence of ordinary people. Just Show Up challenges readers to show up for God, family, community, and themselves.
We tend to think it’s the big, bold moments that matter. In reality, it’s the steady accumulation of small acts of obedience to God that add up to a life of meaning and impact. –Dyck
Drew Dyck
Drew Nathan Dyck is managing editor of Leadership Journal, a publication of Christianity Today. His work has been featured in USA Today, The Huffington Post, and The Washington Times. He is a frequent speaker at pastor conferences and on TV and radio programs in the US and Canada. He holds an M.A. in Theology from Fuller Theological Seminary. He lives with his wife, Grace, and son, Athanasius, in the Chicago area.
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Just Show Up - Drew Dyck
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You Don’t Have to Move Fast. You Just Have to Keep Moving.
My dad struggled in school. So much so that his academic woes became part of our family lore. Thankfully, he had a sense of humor about it.
My sixth grade teacher liked me so much,
he’d say, that she decided to keep me for an extra year!
To be fair, my dad’s early life wasn’t exactly easy. For years, his eleven-member Mennonite family lived in a one-bedroom farmhouse on the Canadian prairies. It had no electricity, no running water. The children took a bath once a week … using the same bathwater. The biggest kid would go first, then the second biggest, right down to the smallest child. As the youngest in my family, hearing that story always made my skin crawl—and thank God for indoor plumbing.
They spoke low German at home, which meant when my dad started school, he had to learn a new language: English. After rising early to do farm chores, he walked to school (uphill both ways, of course) with a temporary limp he’d gotten from contracting polio as a toddler. Exhausted, he’d often drift off during class.
He eked through elementary school, passing on probation until he encountered that teacher who kept him for an extra year. In high school he found refuge in basketball and track, but his academic struggles continued. His lackluster performance in the classroom wasn’t a concern, however. His parents assumed he would follow his father into carpentry or join his brother in the sheet metal business, neither of which would require him to attend college. But as a teenager, he felt called to the ministry. And after high school he enrolled in Bible college.
Unfortunately, his academic challenges followed him. He picked up Cs and Ds, despite studying for hours each night. After the first year, he received a letter from the administration department of the college. It advised him not to return.
He was devastated. I fell on my bed and sobbed,
he recalls. I didn’t know what to do.
His parents had supported his decision to pursue his calling but even they started to waver. On a trip home, his dad suggested that maybe it was time for him to come home and work carpentry instead. But my dad couldn’t shake the feeling that he was called to ministry. His denomination required that he get a degree from Bible school to get ordained. He had to graduate.
The next fall he walked onto campus determined to turn things around. Yet he still struggled to make good grades. That summer he experienced a strong sense of déjà vu when he found himself opening another letter from the college, saying the same thing. Don’t come back.
Finally, in the last year, his grades improved. The change was in part thanks to the young American student that he’d married that summer (hi, Mom!). She took charge of his schedule, breaking each assignment into manageable parts and assigning it to a specific week on the calendar. She also taught him to study smart. He was trying to memorize everything,
she recalled. But it helped him to focus on learning what was going to be on the tests.
He was also spurred along by a professor who believed in him. Art, you’re going to be a wonderful pastor because you love people so much,
the professor told him. Slowly things turned around. He started doing better on tests. Essays came back with less red ink and more positive comments. He finished the year with an A- average, which lifted his cumulative GPA above the required 2.0.
He graduated.
As he walked down the aisle to receive his diploma, one of his professors shook his hand and confessed, I honestly didn’t think you’d make it.
A POWERFUL PRINCIPLE
I heard that story many times growing up. To be honest, it was always hard to square with the man my dad had become: a powerful preacher with an encyclopedic knowledge of the Bible. One thing that was easy to see is that the prediction of that encouraging professor had come true. My dad was a wonderful pastor. He loved people, and they loved him. Every church he led—from the tiny rural congregation to a large, prestigious church in the city—flourished. The guy who barely made it through Bible school ended up planting two churches, leading four, and starting a soup kitchen that feeds thousands of people to this day. Along the way, he prayed with hundreds of people to accept Jesus. There are many people who trace the beginning of their spiritual journey to the influence of my dad. I’m one of them.
When I reflect on my dad’s story, I’m grateful that he didn’t give up on his calling. I think of all the people who wouldn’t have heard about Jesus, wouldn’t have been counseled, visited, or encouraged. I think of the thousands who wouldn’t have been fed spiritually (and physically) had he not become a pastor. The world would have been worse