Advice For... Newlyweds

By Amelia Wise

Every marriage begins with hope and promise, but the early years can bring unexpected challenges. In this invaluable guidebook, renowned psychologist Dr. Amelia Wise draws from over two decades of counseling experience to offer newly married couples practical wisdom and tools to build a strong foundation. 

• Language: English
• Publisher: Authentic Advice Publishing
• Release date: Aug 31, 2023
• ISBN: 9781088290361

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Advice for... Newlyweds

Dr. Amelia Wise

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Authentic Advice Publishing

Copyright © 2023 by Dr. Amelia Wise

All rights reserved.

No portion of this book may be reproduced in any form without written permission from the publisher or author except as permitted by U.S. copyright law.

This publication is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information regarding the subject matter covered. It is sold with the understanding that neither the author nor the publisher is engaged in rendering legal, investment, accounting, or other professional services. While the publisher and author have used their best efforts in preparing this book, they make no representations or warranties concerning the accuracy or completeness of the book's contents and specifically disclaim any implied warranties of merchantability or fitness for a particular purpose. No warranty may be created or extended by sales representatives or written sales materials. The advice and strategies contained herein may not be suitable for your situation. You should consult with a professional when appropriate. Neither the publisher nor the author shall be liable for any loss of profit or any other commercial damages, including but not limited to special, incidental, consequential, personal, or other damages.

1st edition 2023

Contents

Dedication

Introduction

1.Building a Strong Foundation

2.Maintaining Open Communication

3.Managing Expectations and Disappointment

4.Resolving Conflicts Constructively

5.Keeping Intimacy Alive

6.Managing Finances

7.Blending Families

8.Establishing Healthy Habits and Boundaries

9.Dealing with Change and Hard Times

10.Keeping Your Marriage a Priority

Conclusion

About the Author

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Dedication

Dedicated to my husband, Mark.

Your endless love and support have uplifted me daily from our newlywed beginnings to now. Thank you for embarking on this journey by my side. I cherish the memories we’ve built, the challenges we’ve overcome, and the partnership we’ve forged. You helped turn our house into a home. This book would not have been possible without you, my love. You’re my constant champion.

All my love, Amelia

Introduction

Congratulations on your recent nuptials! This is an exciting new chapter in your life, and I am here to support you as much as I can through the ups and downs of this wonderful journey. Marriage is like a garden that needs constant care and attention to flourish. This book offers insights and tools needed to build a strong and lasting partnership that will withstand the test of time.

As an experienced relationship therapist and advisor, I am honored to be your guide as you navigate the complexities of married life. I am here to listen, support, and encourage you every step of the way. You can call me Amelia, and I have spent over two decades working with couples just like you. I specialize in relationship education and have helped thousands of newlyweds find empathy, perspective, and reassurance during this exciting transition. Everything I have learned from those countless hours spent on my cozy office couch is at your disposal.

I am here for you, and I want you to know that I will do everything in my power to help you build a strong and lasting marriage. Let’s embark on this journey together!

I understand firsthand that building a strong and loving marriage can be a challenging journey, which is why I have created this handbook specifically for you. I have carefully selected the most important insights and practices that I have shared with many couples over the years. These are the same valuable lessons that I have given my own daughters to help them nurture and protect their own relationships.

Please know that this book is not a guaranteed formula for marital bliss. However, the principles, tools, and wisdom contained within have helped many couples overcome common hurdles and grow in intimacy during the early years of marriage. My hope is that this resource will provide you with steady support, perspective, and encouragement as you navigate this exciting yet demanding season in your lives.

Whenever you need validation, comfort, insight, or practical solutions, turn to this handbook as a valuable resource. Take your time reading each chapter together and discuss the anecdotes and guidance provided. Highlight passages that resonate with your own experiences and refer back regularly to gain perspective. I am confident that the principles outlined here will continue to serve you well for many years to come.

Marriage is a unique journey that brings different experiences for each couple. It can be exciting yet daunting, especially when you’re still getting to know each other and figuring out how to combine your independent lives into a harmonious partnership. You may feel a mix of emotions as you navigate through this new chapter in your life; it’s normal, and many of us had the same experience.

As your trusted guide, I want to offer you practical advice, communication strategies, and flexible principles that can help you build a strong foundation for your marriage. I’m not here to give you strict rules or unrealistic expectations but rather to provide the tools you need to tailor your journey to your specific needs.

Again, it’s normal to experience emotional ups and downs during the early years of marriage. You may feel euphoric one moment and anxious the next as you encounter unfamiliar aspects of your partner. As you navigate through the challenges of merging your expectations, priorities, roles, and responsibilities, it’s natural to experience frustration, confusion, and even arguments.