You Can Make It!: Breaking the Cycle of Abuse
By C W Sistrunk
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As a woman, you wouldn't go to a pawn shop for a clerk to haggle some demeaning price for your priceless body parts; so, why trade your worth for a fist in the face, bruises on your body, abusive words in your ears, or even a rent check. We as women were meant for so much more!
You can make it! Breaking the Cycle of Abuse, helps women recognize the real enemy behind the violence they suffer and drives home the point that we're nobody's punching bag. It is a testimony to how faith in God's design for your life trumps anyone else's summation of who you are. You only need to believe it!
It is our hope that this book will spark a revolution in your life to live an abuse-free life! You can make it out of this abusive cycle that has controlled your life for far too long! Let this tiny book inspire big changes to break that cycle once and for all!
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You Can Make It! - C W Sistrunk
You Can Make It!
Breaking the Cycle of Abuse
By
C.W. Sistrunk
Copyright © 2023 by C.W. Sistrunk
ISBN digital copy: 978-1-960224-33-0
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Table of Contents
Chapter 1 ..................................................... 1
Fighting’s Without, Fears Within ................ 1
Chapter 2 ..................................................... 7
The Beginning of Sorrows ........................... 7
Chapter 3 ................................................... 23
Why Trim Your Way To Seek Love? .......... 23
Chapter 4 ................................................... 45
The Broken-Hearted.................................. 45
Chapter 5 ................................................... 58
God Turns Rough Roads into .................... 58
Beautiful Destinations ............................... 58
Fix Your Dress ........................................ 60
Womanhood as a Commodity .............. 63
Know Your Worth.................................. 66
Dedication
This year, 2022, marks 40 years since witnessing the loss of my mother,
Margaret Thomas Woods, to the epidemic of domestic violence.
Mom, in celebration of your courageous act in barring violence from our lives. I dedicate this book to you. You paid the price with your
own life to keep us safe. You will forever be
my example to never be afraid to walk away from violence, no matter what.
Preface
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the
ruler of the darkness of this world, against spiritual
wickedness in high places. - Ephesians 6:12, (KJV)
Growing up, I enjoyed watching the theatrics of World Wrestling Federation (WWF) wrestlers like the entertaining Hulk Hogan. I quaked at the intimidating presence of Andre the Giant, mimicked the raspy voice of Randy ‘Macho Man’ Savage, and dreaded the death toll as The Undertaker took to the ring. I watched anticipating that takedown moment when these wrestlers performed their signature moves to finish their opponents! I loved wrestling so much as a kid that I tried to imitate their moves. It was all staged of course, but it was still exhilarating to watch. Although I was a fan of the spectator sport, it was an entirely different experience as a child with a front-row seat to real-life, violent wrestling bouts in the raised ring of our home. In my youth, I silently watched as my stepfather drew actual blood from my mother and instilled a perplexing mix of fear and love in my heart.
While my stepfather never abused me, I watched my mom endure violent blows from his fist, belt buckles, or whatever he could find at the time to express his anger and frustration. Although hateful to my mother, my stepfather treated me kindly. I felt a kind of bizarre favoritism from him as I suppose my other siblings might have experienced as well. I don’t remember a time when he disciplined me with his voice or his belt. He took me places, played with me, and made me feel accepted. This was puzzling to me receiving such tenderness from him after witnessing him exhibit such harmful behavior towards the woman who birthed me. Perhaps I felt that all men walked in such contradiction - loving one minute and harming the next. The reason for this dichotomy within my stepfather would later be revealed.
It was by way of his death certificate that I learned the reason for his dual personality and the cause of my stepfather’s death. It was a
self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head due to or as a consequence of schizophrenia paranoid type, deceased at the age of 32.
After so many years, I realized that my stepdad wasn’t a monster at all. He was a man split in two unable to navigate the rough road he was dealt.
Many years after I witnessed him lift that gun to his head and pull the trigger, I found myself raising my own children and experiencing one abusive relationship after the other. One night, after praying to know why I was going through the abuse I suffered, I dreamt my children and I were being chased by my stepfather who at this time had been dead many years.
To find safety in the dream, I hurried my children down something that appeared to be a pier. It was night and one of