Suffer Well: Poems for the Grieving

By Korie Griggs

Suffer Well: Poems for the Grieving is a look inside the grieving process from Korie Griggs' perspective. Each poem was written inside the epicenter of her grief. These pages are a survival story

• Language: English
• Publisher: VK Press
• Release date: Dec 9, 2022
• ISBN: 9798218082628

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Copyright © 2022 by Korie Griggs

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Editor: Manòn Voice

Interior Design: ess mckee

Cover Design: Nathasa Rae

Library of Congress Control Number: 2022910805

First edition published October 25, 2022

in the United States by VK Press, LLC

E-Book ISBN 979-8-218-08262-8

Paperback ISBN 978-0-9982754-9-9

Dedication

I continue to be reminded that I do not only carry my story within me. I carry the stories of those who have gone on before me. This book is for them. This book is for the ones who raised me and the ones who have loved me well. It is for the ones who made it possible for this love to persevere. To my brother, Konnor, for teaching me tenderness and compassion without ever speaking a word. To my Ma, for teaching me the belief in endless possibilities and for meeting me in my own eyes. To Mommom, for choosing me anyway. To Paw, for being the best man and father I’ve ever known. To Vince, for praying over my words. To Tylin, for challenging my creativity. I miss you all. May this love flowing from me meet you wherever you are.

Epigraph

It hurts to know I couldn’t save you; that I couldn’t love you into remission or love you out of depression

from What Hurts?

Table of Contents

INTRODUCTION

IN REMEMBRANCE

I’ve Never Felt a Grief So Enormous

Grief Creeps

Peace Prayers

15

The Woman Who Has Everything

Overall Paw

Phone Calls from Heaven

Epitaphs

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A Letter to Those Who Love Me

Seasons

Shooting Stars

Past Tense

An Ode to an Indiana Fall Night

My Grandpa’s Hands

Aftershock

A Letter to My Unborn Child

THIS CAN’T BE REAL!

The Lies We Tell

Mourning in the Evening

Grieving Three

The Stillness of This Night

Aging

FULL OF FURY

Panic

Preparing for Deployment

That Night

Blinded Layers

Dead Sea

RUMBLE

BREONNA

Equal Parts

Sentence Breathing

How Long is a Sentence

Aries

Irritation

Staring at the Color Wheel

BACK AND FORTH

Cemetery Weather

Grief Pools

Ghost Kingdom

Talking to the Moon

Tangled Roots

The Shortest Love Story

Perseverance

Quarantine

Vaccinated

Mirror Mirror

Reentry

Don’t Can’t Worry

REDUCED TO TEARS

Operation

What Hurts?

A Not So Funny Story

When it Catches Up with You

Dive

Where’d You Go?

Fight Off Your Demons

Depression

Case of the Mondays

ROLLING WITH THE PUNCHES

A First Conscious Moment of Strength

A Memory

The Thing About Death

This Home is Now a House

UNTITLED (LOVE)

Miscarry

Showtime

Emotional Olympics

Clockwork Resignation

Enneagram Status

Hometown Glory

Breaking Point

Road Less Traveled

Handling

Mindfulness Exercise

Something About Letting Go

Bodywork

TOGETHER, BUT APART

One Day I’m Gonna Wake Up and Be Older Than My Mother Ever Was

Perpetually Homeless

Rising Thoughts

Praying

Men of Sand

Pour Me Out

Forgiveness

Jonah

A Poem that Became a Prayer

Battles

Standing in the Gap

A Love I Prayed For

Hope

I Shall Not Want

REST

Reclamation of Joy

Oceanic Tendencies

Suffer Well

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

INTRODUCTION

I’ve said a time or two that if I were to list out my life, it would look like a series of unfortunate events. I began my intimate relationship with grief and death at eight years old. I quickly understood that the only constant in life was dying, and there was no way for my innocence to be protected from it. Survival became a daily goal in my life, and writing became the key component of my survival toolbox.

I wrote my way through my brother’s death at only eight years old and six years later at my mother’s deathbed. So many moments that I didn’t know how I would possibly survive were survivable because of the liberating power of words. I disappeared into books and writing all