31 Ways to Show Him What Love Is: One Month to a More Lifegiving Relationship

By Jefferson Bethke and Alyssa Bethke

In Alyssa Bethke's newly revised edition of 31 Ways to Show Him What Love Is, readers will discover practical and inspiring tips for bringing more romance, joy, and vibrancy to their marriages.

In 31 Ways to Show Him What Love Is,Alyssa Bethke gives wives thirty-one specific tips for strengthening and deepening their relationship. Each day readers find a new suggestion for encouraging and loving their husbands. Topics include serving each other, offering forgiveness, laughing together, praying for one another, affirming each other through words, and even making a favorite snack. From serious to lighthearted, each tip challenges readers to make their marriage a priority and reminds them of the importance of a healthy, vibrant relationship. Designed with new covers and revised content, these books take readers on a one-month journey that will bring them closer to their husbands than ever before. 

• Language: English
• Publisher: Thomas Nelson
• Release date: Jan 25, 2022
• ISBN: 9781400228713

Jefferson Bethke

Jefferson Bethke is the New York Times bestselling author of Jesus > Religion and It's Not What You Think. He and his wife, Alyssa, host The Real Life Podcast and run FamilyTeams.com, an online initiative equipping families to live as a multi-generational team on mission. They live in Maui with their daughters, Kinsley and Lucy, and son, Kannon. To say hi or to learn more, go to jeffandalyssa.com.

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DAY 1

SUPPORT HIM WITH PRAYER

To this end we always pray for you, that our God may make you worthy of his calling and may fulfill every resolve for good and every work of faith by his power.

–2 THESSALONIANS 1:11

Hands down, the best thing you can do for your man is pray for him. I’m often tempted to do something else, something better or more noticeable. And doing other things is great and totally part of pursuing him—hence this book! But prayer needs to be the foundation. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve prayed for Jeff and then have been amazed at how God has moved in his heart. But even more important, I think prayer is what moves my heart to love and pursue him. I’ve found that when I’m consistently praying for Jeff, I’m way more patient, kind, and gentle with him; I find myself cheering him on, being intentional, and putting him