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MORE MUSINGS
BLOGS AND TWEETS
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Contents
Articles Filtered with Poems Book Reviews
October 2019
September 2019
Dear Angry Birds!
Resilience
A Wider Lens!
August 2019
Meeting Paule Marshall
Trek On!
Peace in the Storm!
Catching Fireflies: A Book Review
July 2019
Rocketman: A Movie Review
Creative Expression!
My Staycation!
June 2019
Great Choice!
Simply Compare!
Of Baby Ochoa-Lopez: a poem
Playing Catch Up!
Phoenix!
Ah June!
May 2019
We Don’t Talk Anymore!
Britt-Marie Was Here by Fredrik Backman
Luxurious May
April 2019
Compromised!
Filling Up Space!
Mellow April
March 2019
Openness!
Understood!
March Sprouts!
Straight & Narrow!
Free Art!
March Sprouts!
February 2019
Awaiting Recognition!
On Track?
Truly Frozen!
February 2019: A Poem
January 2019
You Get What You Need!
Exit Stage Left!
Yeah!
January 2019
2018
Shush!
Good ’til the Last Drop!
Gently, Close the Door!
December Bells!
Green Book: A Movie Review
November 2018
Work in Progress!
Same Shoes!
Reflections!
November Gold
October 2018
Moving & Evolving!
The Cool Breezes of October!
A Star is Born. True Art!
Stylish October!
September 2018
Today is Cash!
September 2018
Through the Clouds!
Our Best!
August 2018
Fellowship
The Forgotten Road
August 2018
July 2018
Sparks Fly!
Regaining Balance!
An Artist’s Sacrifice: Whitney Houston
July, July!
June 2018
In the Stillness!
Staying in the Know!
Our Souls at Night: Book to Film
June Images!
Beam On!
May 2018
The Life of the Party: A Movie Review
In A Gilded Cage: A Book Review
Fresh May!
Soft Landings
April 2018
Rest!
Root-Bound No More
Happy April!
Chappaquiddick: A Movie Review
March 2018
Painting Poetry
In Due Time!
Breezy March!
Thank A Teacher!
February 2018
A Gift for Black History Month!
The Greatest Love!
Unfinished Business: Two Books
February Love Month
A Love Poem- February
January 2018
Rolling Forward!
Persevere!
An Unbeatable Combination!
Jolting January!
December 2017
Shining the Light!
Grow and Glow!
Our Journeys!
Prepare Ye!
December Joy!
November 2018
Shoot Your Best Shot!
Inside Joy!
Settings Set the Tone!
November Bounty!
October 2017
Marshall: A Movie Review
The Little Things
’Tis October
September 2017
The Patriarch
The Theater of Good Writing
Meandering Journeys
Our Own!!
September in Real Time
August 2017
Scraping off the Barnacles
Smoother Air!
Inspired to Write?
Awesome August
July 2017
How is Your Summer Going?
The Breakers
The Orchard House
The Marble House
Hemingway in Oak Park!
Where do you write?
The Public Garden
Sweltering July!
June 2017
The Plaza
The Library Courtyard
A Sunday Stroll
Phoenix’s Monday
Emerson’s Wisdom
Sultry June!
May 2017
Emily’s Crown
The Olive Branch!
Characters Choose!
The Thought!
May 2017
April 2017
April Flow!
Fruits of Our Labor
Digital Marketing
Stay Upon the Wall
Yellow April!
April Song
March 2017
Flashlight on the Good!
Gender Writing
Cruising!
March Luck
February 2017
A Writer’s Task
Moonlight’s Dreams Deferred.
Two More!
February Love!
Sweet February!
January 2017
The Women
Sun!
An Oscar Preparation!
Clearing Blocks
Green!
In January 2017!
December 2016
In Hushed Tones!
A Week before Christmas!
Heal by Facing It!
I Won’t Crank and Moan!
Ah, December!
November 2016
Loving: A Movie!
Those Old Love Songs!
Herb Kent: A Tribute
A November Thanks!
October 2016
Little Reprieves!
Golden Pebbles
How Well Do I Know Thee?
Small Comforts!
Oh October!
Reinventing Ourselves
Shared Stories
Cooler Heads!
Book to Film: A Writer’s Dream
Smooth September!
Southside With You: A Review
August 2016
Refreshed, Renewed & Ready to Move!
Mid-August: A Poem
It’s On!
A Saga is Born!
Hello August!
July 2016
Loving Yourself!
Music Transports!
Gifting!
Freedom!
Jubilant July!
June 2016
Getting Unblocked!
To Ali: From a Chicago Girl
Silence!
Restoration
June Imagery!
May 2016
Open Windows!
#Am Writing!
Good Reads!
Beautiful May!
April 2016
Yellow April!
Blooming April!
Speaking Truth to Literature
100 Quarters!
Writing Poetry!
Painting is Poetry!
March 2016
Listen!
Healing Pens!
Being Moved!
A Room of One’s Own
Clementine Churchill
March Greenery!
Breezin’ March!
February 2016
Gentle Breezes
Smiling Eyes!
Jogging that Memory!
Privacy Please!
Sweet February!
January 2016
Still Time!
Walking the Labyrinth
The Fresh Winds of Opportunity
Get Ready!
Hello January 2016!
Book Reviews
Home is This Way by Selena Haskins
The Mill on the Floss by George Eliot
The Fisher King by Paule Marshall
Painting the Darkness by Robert Goddard
A Tailor-Made Bride by Karen Witemeyer
Country of the Pointed Firs by Sarah Orne Jewett
Catching Fireflies by Tony Rocca
We Are the Ones We Have Been Waiting For- Alice Walker
Cushion in the Road by Alice Walker
Hard Times Require Furious Dancing by Alice Walker
Absolute Trust in the Goodness of the Earth by Alice Walker
Clock Dance by Anne Tyler
Constance by Franny Moyle
Lipstick by Peter Davey
Hope by Terry Tyler
The Bostonians by Henry James
Sister Carrie by Theodore Dreiser
Cranford by Elizabeth Gaskell
Louisiana Bigshot by Julia Smith
Britt-Marie Was Here by Fredrik Backman
Sixes and Sevens- by O. Henry
Evelina by Fanny Burney
Birds Sing Before Sunrise by Jan Smolders
Blythe of the Gates by Leah Erickson
Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass by Frederick Douglass
The Narrative of Sojourner Truth by Olive Gilbert
The Land of Little Rain by Mary Hunter Austin
In the Name of Salome’ by Julia Alvarez
Sam’s Letters to Jennifer by James Patterson
Swanson on Swanson by Gloria Swanson
The Dubliners by James Joyce
Individutopia by Joss Sheldon
A Summer in Europe by Marilyn Brant
2018
Centaur Rising by Jane Yolen
Wives and Daughters by Elizabeth Gaskell
The Paris Wedding by Charlotte Nash
The Forgotten Road by Richard Paul Evans
The Subway Girl by Susan Orman Schnall
One House Over by Mary Monroe
Poetry from the Colors of My Mind by Selena Haskins
Beneath A Prairie Moon by Kim Vogel Sawyer
Blessed Life by Kim Fields
The English Wife by Lauren Willig
Waiting for Godot by Samuel Beckett
Steal Away Home by Bill Coffey
Lamps of Doom by Stephanie Parker McKean
She Persisted Around the World by Chelsea Clinton
The Negro in the Making of America by Benjamin Quarles
African Ways Again: More Recollections of life in South Africa by Val Poore
Before the Mayflower by Lerone Bennett, Jr.
No Place I’d Rather Be by Cathy Lamb
Down the Hidden Path by Heather Burch
The Dressmaker’s Dowry by Meredith Jaeger
2017
Golden Harvest (How to Transform Your Life through Love) by White Eagle
Two Years Before the Mast by Richard Henry Dana
Midwinter Break by Bernard MacLaverty
Down City: A Daughter’s Story of Love, Memory and Murder by Leah Carroll
The Rumor by Elin Hilderbrand
Money, Power, Love by Joss Sheldon
Ghana Must Go by Taiye Selasi
Ordinary Grace by William Kent Krueger
Agnes Grey by Anne Bronte
The Diamond Master by Jacques Futrell
The River by Rumer Godden
Wednesday Daughters by Meg Waite Clayton
Flappers and Philosophers by F. Scott Fitzgerald
The Turn of the Screw by Henry James
Shadow Tag by Louise Erdrich
The Lady with the Dog and Other Stories by Anton Chekhov
Master and Commander by Patrick O’Brian
A Mount Vernon Love Story by Mary Higgins Clark
Distant Shores by Kirsten Hannah
Summer Island by Kirsten Hannah
Hillbilly Elegy by J.D. Vance
Bridge Back by Stephanie Parker McKean
Yesterday was a Long time Ago by Selena Haskins
Cloning Galinda by Jan Smolders
The Nightingale by Kirsten Hannah
Bridge Home by Stephanie Parker McKeon
Me: Stories of My Life by Katharine Hepburn
Faring to France on a Shoe- Val Poore
This Was a Man by Jeffrey Archer
Romeo, Juliet and Me by Melinda Matthews
Back to Bienville by Melinda Matthews
Saffire- Sigmund Brouwer
Harbour Ways- Val Poore
It Had to Be You- Delynn Royer
Postcards from the Edge by Carrie Fisher
The Artisan’s Wife by Judith Miller
Praisesong for the Widow by Paule Marshall
2016
The Little Voice by Joss Sheldon
Good Grief by Lolly Winston
Maybe You Never Cry by Bernie Mac
The Treachery of Beautiful Things by Ruth Frances Long
Bluesday by Adrienne Thompson
Zuleika Dobson by Max Beerbohm
A River Runs through It by Norman Maclean
Best of Friends by Connie Kiosee
Simple Matters: Living with Less and Ending Up with More by Erin Boyle
A Fine Imitation by Amber Brock
The Poet of Washington Heights by William Jiang
Prince of Sinners by E. Phillips Oppenheim
Little House on the Prairie by Laura Ingalls Wilder
Zandros in Love by Jeane Moore
Clementine: The Life of Mrs. Winston Churchill by Sonia Purcell
The Skipper’s Child by Val Poore
Women in Love by D.H. Lawrence
Harvest of War by Jan Smolders
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Book Reviews
October 2019
October Colorfest: A Poem
Autumn leaves flutter to the ground,
Racked piles are gathered in the round.
Those yards are full of autumn flairs,
Rich colors soothing us in pairs.
Cooler temps slow our thinking,
Calm, buoyant ideas, not sinking.
Pumpkins cut in all types of shapes,
Remind us to put on warm capes!
October 2, 2019
40654.pngSeptember 2019
Fair September: A Poem
Fair weather September often makes,
Fair friendships evolve for our sakes.
Back to school our children must go,
Digging in to learn and deeply sow.
The three R’s a good student still needs,
To accomplish great, wonderful deeds.
Rituals and routines keep them grounded,
Produces citizens- well-rounded.
September 28, 2019
40656.pngDear Angry Birds!
Do you walk around upset with your lip reaching for the floor? Perhaps you feel justified but how does it make others feel? Are they inside of your head? Do they know what is wrong? Have you considered how you impact others?
Everybody is struggling with something. It could be a broken heart, the loss of a parent, an addiction or any host of things. Do they deserve your rude and unhappy angst? Are you threatened by your perceived loss of power? Do you think that someone else can steal your thunder? Do you think they can take your place?
All these notions are only going on inside of your inner self because what’s for you is for you. Period. And guess what? The universe always delivers on time. If whatever you are waiting on hasn’t arrived either you are not quite ready for what you think you want, or it is not in the cards. Your anger will not make it happen.
So, lighten up. Give yourself a break. Smile a little. And please, give the world a break. Don’t be an angry bird that attacks the innocent bystanders. Read Desiderata by Max Ehrmann and see what really matters in life.
And after that, take the advice from the Bee Gees and remember, that You Should be Dancing through life. Push play and let loose. Dance and release those bottled up emotions. Get it all out of your system and try to become a pleasant bird!!
September 21, 2019
40658.pngResilience
What is resilience? Think of a time when you knew you were resilient. Did you fall apart and wonder if you could go on, yet later found yourself back in the game? A host of debaters was recently asked to share one of their resilient moments. Some answers were clear and profound while others became lost somewhere in the middle. Reliving crises can make you veer off course.
When the onslaughts of life have taken their tolls on your mind, body and soul, it is best to simply halt and retreat. If possible, take a self-prescribed reprieve from it all. You can announce your own time-out and step out of the path of the fiery darts.
You may have to hunker down and rest on your laurels for a while. The universe knows how to bring you back into alignment with the natural order of things. One sage said, It did not get that way overnight and it possibly will not straighten out overnight.
It is a process.
So, during your down time, become still and wait. Wait until you can think clearly. Remain calm by reading, walking, sitting in the silence, listening to inspiring music and pod casts of experts who offer you hope and encouragement.
Stay busy and let the sizzle of the fires of chastisement simmer down and give them time to completely fizzle out. Wait in secure spaces while the angry birds fly overhead searching for something to devour. Yes, wait. Wait until the coast is clear.
Do your own inner work by emptying your mental vessels of anguish, bitterness and disappointment. Wait inside your cozy cocoon until you have gathered your strength and your resolve to go forward. Here is a poetic suggestion for you:
"Stay down; until you feel sound."
Once your storm has passed over, peek out. You will see the sun sitting there waiting for you to come out and dance to those new, harmonious tunes. Now, that is being resilient!
September 14, 2019
40660.pngA Wider Lens!
I recently read The Mill on the Floss by George Eliot. I had thoroughly enjoyed Silas Marner years earlier and wanted to read another work by her. Mary Ann Evans used George Eliot as both a disguise and pen name. This gave her a better chance of being taken seriously as an author in the mid-1800’s.
The book is filled with shards of wisdom, but this one quote stuck with me. It was also highlighted in my Kindle version of the novel. It said, "He, like every one of us, was imprisoned within the limits of his own nature and his education had simply glided over him, leaving a slight deposit of polish; remember that the responsibility of tolerance lies with those who have a wider vision." When things go awry, someone needs to have enough insight to take responsibility and help make good choices.
They could choose from this list of uplifting reminders:
"You take the high road and I will take the low road." (Loch Lomond lyrics)
✓ Be the bigger person.
✓ Turn the other cheek.
✓ Give them your cloak also.
✓ Forgive seventy times seven.
✓ Hold your peace.
✓ The more you know, the more you are responsible for
✓ "You have to give a little, take a little. (Glory of Love lyrics)
These lyrics and aphorisms appeal to the mature ones who understand that age is just a number. The ‘mother wit’ of old souls is a gift that has been given to those with higher visions. They know how to move into the upper room of thinking when faced with grave decisions. They can exhibit more tolerance of others as they meet life’s demands
As wise eagles, they may perch for a while and observe the disorder taking place in the valley. After carefully assessing the situation, they can make their descent into the fray with plans in hand. With the aperture of the lens perfectly adjusted, they succeed in making a difference while using the lightest of touches!
September 7, 2019
40662.pngAugust 2019
The Fisher King: A Poetic Review
Oh! Ménage a’ trios,
In Gay Paree’.
A child’s prying eyes,
Combustion – but sees.
Ran away to be free.
Came back and left wanton baby.
Real family later shows up,
Stakes a claim on the pedigree.
Truths roll out about one who takes care,
Of Sonny’s grandson. She’s left with a stare.
No weapon to fight with; no plan in sight.
After that curtain tear, no escape in the night.
Sitting still in speechless shame.
Hattie won’t have a stake on Little Sonny’s name!
August 31, 2019
40664.pngMeeting Paule Marshall
Both Paule Marshall and Toni Morrison died within days of each other. What a great loss for the literary world! Both women burst onto the literary scene around the time that the curtain was being pulled back to reveal positive black images in printed books.
During the mid-1980’s, we had Alice Walker’s The Color Purple to appear along with her personal endeavors to brush the dust of the works of Zora Neale Hurston. Thus, there was the introduction of Their Eyes Were Watching God. Then, Toni Morrison eked onto the stage with Song of Solomon, Sula, Tar Baby and a host of other works. Maya Angelou joined the jambalaya stew with her I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings and a long trail of her autobiographical books dotted the horizon.
But, around that same time, I was working as a bookseller at Waldenbooks in Memphis. I was stocking books on the shelf one day and when I saw this one cover, I stood still. There was a sketch of this refined black woman holding her purse with pride. I picked up the book and read the title Praisesong for the Widow by Paule Marshall.
I immediately asked the store manager if I could take it out on loan. We could borrow books because the company understood that well-read booksellers could sell books. Simple! So, I rushed home that night with that book in my hand. That was my introduction to the Author Paule Marshall!
When I finished reading it, I passed it onto my mother. We always read the latest books together and had hearty discussions. That was one of our enjoyments and she often accompanied me whenever I went to authors’ book signings. We often joked and used one of the character’s lines from Praisesong for the Widow. We imitated Thomasina Moore when she said, "Don’t get my colors up!" That meant, don’t make her angry. Oh, that book left so many indelible marks!
About ten years later, I heard that Paule Marshall would be speaking at a venue in the Chicagoland area. We had returned to Chicago by then and my mother went with me to the event. I drove all the way from the South Suburbs to see her at ETA Creative Arts Theatre on the South Side.
When we reached the proper area, there sat Paule Marshall with that beautiful, effervescent smile. My mother stood to the side and said, I just want to stand here and look at her.
I laughed and got into the line for a book signing.
When I reached her, we had a brief talk. I told her that I had taught her book, Praisesong for the Widow to a racially mixed college class. Her eyes lit up. I was telling her about the good but heated discussions that it had evoked and then someone came up and interrupted our conversation. Poof! The moment was gone just like she is now gone from our view. But the moments were memorable.
She will always be with us because she followed a Biblical command. The Book of Habakkuk say, "Write the vision And make if plain on tablets, That he may run who reads it."(2:2) She left her footprints behind and I will always cherish both her books and being in her presence. I have also read her other works such as Brown Girl, Brownstones and Daughters.
After her passing last week, I went on You Tube and savored a couple of recorded interviews. I learned that Langston Hughes was her friend and mentor. Wow! She will forever be a mentor of mine. She is forever tangible, and her warm humor will be forever etched into my psyche. I am currently experiencing her one more time as I slowly digest one of her last books, The Fisher King.
August 24, 2019
40666.pngTrek On!
Those emotions running high,
Must take time to find a sigh!
Release bottled-up feelings,
Soar again to those ceilings.
Write, converse and talk it through,
Don’t sit and roast in the stew.
Find ways of letting it go,
Trek on. Continue to grow!
August 17, 2019
40668.pngPeace in the Storm!
Charles Dickens starts The Tale of Two Cities by saying, "It was the best of times, the worst of times..." It makes me think of these perilous times of major uncertainty and the importance of finding peace and centers of refuge.
Level-headedness is essential to maintaining a sense of balance as we navigate the abrupt storms on the high seas of life. We must weather these swift changes and the use of good sound mother-wit can serve as a great aid. I often think of Rudyard Kipling’s poem, If. He wrote:
If you can keep your head when all about you. Are losing theirs and blaming it on you.
When things seem to be spiraling out of control all around us, there is still that calm center waiting there in the midst. It would behoove us to hunker down and cleave to it with all of our might.
Most of us have a place in our homes where we can get quiet. We may have to minimize the use of social media and the news reports, so our clear thoughts allow our intuition to kick in and point the way. When there is no music, no television and no silly chatter, we can get in touch with our true selves. Our thinking crystallizes like a newly washed drinking glass and the old, muddled ways of thinking are flushed down the drain.
Life is like walking a tight rope, so we carefully place one foot in front of the other. We don’t have the luxury of looking too far down the road to see what is coming because we could lose our equilibrium. We must take slow, decided steps.
I read a lot because while reading, I must be still. I am not bouncing and flitting around and spinning my wheels. It may be an e-book or a regularly printed book, but I quiet my thoughts and gain new perspectives at the same time. I worry less and become like a lily of the field. "Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin." (Matthew 6:28)
Cooking also defuses my anxiety. As I chop each chip of an onion or a bell paper, clarity seeps in and answers to my concerns trickle onto the scene. More light is emitted, and I see things from other points of view. Einstein said, The problems we face today cannot be solved by the minds that created them.
Yes, it takes new mindsets to solve those old dilemmas.
Spirit is always nudging and guiding us, but if we are distracted, we miss the directions that can help us. When attuned, we can hear the warning signs that say, Don’t go that way today or don’t call that person today.
Later, we may discover that a disaster has indeed been averted because we adhered to that still, small voice.
Traveling on our personal paths is a methodical process and the Chinese proverb reminds us that, "A journey of thousand miles begins with a single step." Each single step can lead to more peace and greater understanding if we walk mindfully and take serene reprieves to gather our bearings and stay the course!
August 10, 2019
40670.pngCatching Fireflies: A Book Review
Tony Rocca and his wife Mira left their London jobs and moved to Tuscany, Italy. He was a journalist and she was a travel agent, but they agreed to leave city life behind, and venture into the quaint countryside of Italy. They purchased an old farm that was in sore need of repair and love with the intent of turning it into a small hotel.
Sounds easy enough right? Well, not really. The red tape, bureaucracy and mistrust of foreigners combined to make them think that they had made a huge mistake. They lived at another location while the repairs were being made and their landlady proved to be a thorn in their sides for many years to come. They moved into their hotel but whenever they felt that there had been some level of sabotage, they would look at each other and call the jealous woman’s name and say, "Mafalda."
However, they stayed the course and after going through a host of workers, they finally got the hotel up and running. There are colorful photographs in the book to show how their beloved Collelungo looked before and after its repairs. They also worked the vineyards on their property and became grape growers and sellers of fine wine. What they accomplished is just short of miraculous!
Tony Rocca is a very descriptive writer who uses beautiful metaphors, similes and analogies as he makes his readers see and feel the Italian landscape. As I sit here listening to the late summer cicadas sing, I remember Tony writing about the sounds of the cicadas and the light from the illusive fireflies. The Italian children sang:
Firefly, firefly come to me,
I will give you the bread of the king.
The bread of the king and of the queen-
Firefly, firefly come to me.
Interestingly, our area has an unusual amount of both cicadas and fireflies this summer. One of our local weathermen talked about watching the fireflies light up his backyard the other night and he said that we have more this year because of the rainy spring.
We used to watch the neighborhood boys catch them when I was a child. They put them in Mason jars that had holes punched in the lids so the bugs could breathe. We called them lightening bugs and it was amazing to see how they could they could turn on their lights at will.
Yet, quite like the intriguing yet short-lived fireflies, all good things must come to an end. The bureaucracy and red tape eventually caught up with the Roccas and a long-standing court case brought their Italian years to an end. They had to move on from the Collelungo, but the fond memories are forever etched in the psyches of Tony, Mira and all those that they met and touched during their twelve-year stay!
August 3, 2019
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My Summer, Thus Far!
I wrote a poem earlier this summer called My Staycation. It says:
‘As I watch others run to and fro,
I just sit here in quiet and know,
That in Christ’s presence, I am free.
So, I slow down, develop and be.
I seek all that He would have me do,
I sincerely listen and pursue.
Both His statutes and mission for me,
I delve deeply so that I may see.’
So far, I have spent some mornings sitting by the lake while sipping coffee and jotting down my early thoughts. At home, I continued deep breathing exercises and practiced some of my Yoga moves to enhance feelings of being grounded and centered. Deep breathing exercises remind me of Thich Nhat Hanh’s book title, "Breathe! You are alive!"
Also, muting the talk shows and limiting the news have left me feeling less anxious. I have found a form of relaxing through a Word Find website. I find it rewarding as I add new words to my vocabulary, and I time myself to see how I am doing.
I saw the biopic of Elton John’s life called Rocketman at the movies. It was informative and as I wrote a movie review, I listened to his songs on You Tube. I felt his presence through his lyrics and the good memories rushed back in like a tidal wave.
But my mainstay has been reading. Francis Bacon reminds us that, "Reading makes full man; conference a ready man and writing an exact man." Thus far, I