Circuit Train Your Brain: Daily Habits That Develop Resilience
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Molly M. Cantrell-Kraig
An author, media consultant, life coach and speaker, Molly Cantrell-Kraig has been recognized as one of CNN’s Visionary Women and profiled by the Christian Science Monitor, and the Shriver Report. Cantrell-Kraig has also been interviewed on the Women’s Media Center and the BBC, speaking on such topics as women, independence, gender roles and life transitions. From her beginnings as a single mother on welfare, Cantrell-Kraig is a self-described work in progress whose focus is on helping others achieve their goals by sharing her own experiences
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Circuit Train Your Brain - Molly M. Cantrell-Kraig
Prologue
There had to be a dime somewhere.
It was almost midnight, and my eyes swept cracks in the floor at the 24-hour grocers, searching for loose change. Food stamps wouldn’t pay for the non-food items like the laundry detergent in my cart, and I was a few cents short. Seeing no coins, I realized that I would have to do without the soap.
Resignedly, I put the box back on the shelf and died just a little bit inside, knowing that I didn’t have the cash to buy it. I was shopping in the wee hours of the morning as my daughter slept in her crib at my mother’s farmhouse a few miles away.
Using food stamps was always a struggle for me, because of the shame I felt. Enduring the judgment of others only made it worse, so I did my shopping when I had less chance of encountering others.
Deep in my heart, I knew that I was in the wrong place – my intelligence and ambition should have vaulted me elsewhere. But here I was, scrounging for change to purchase soap in a grocery store in the dead of night.
How did I get here? How was I going to change my life? Where should I begin?
When I thought about it a bit more, I asked myself, what did it matter? I felt like a failure.
This was a low point in my life twenty-some years ago, and at the time, I didn’t see any light at the end of the tunnel. My immediate future was bleak. I was living with my mom, eking out an existence on public aid and having little to no direction beyond the immediate.
How did I get here?
I arrived on this planet broken. Literally. My heart was malformed due to a congenital heart defect. Congenital means ‘present at birth,’ and doesn’t refer to a genetic condition. I wasn’t expected to live, and it was only through a radical surgery called Tetralogy of Fallot that my heart condition was corrected.
While I wasn’t a sickly child (I was raised with a ‘shake it off’ mentality), I did spend a lot of time in hospitals when I was young. As a result, I learned to read when I was three years old and was precocious. Add to this being an eldest child, and you have the makings for someone with the predisposition for being driven and upon whom high expectations were placed. To be fair, I have always, always been my harshest critic. I think we all are our worst critics.
But I was also someone who grew up without a true north. I wasn’t exactly sure how to harness and channel my intrinsic compulsion to achieve. Add to this my having an inborn curiosity without the ability to focus and the result is a ball of energy with no outlet. It was extremely frustrating for me.
Unlike some, however, I was lucky enough to have an art teacher who was able to channel some of my creative talents and helped me to transition them to a larger world. As an art student in high school, I was the only one who was given permission to create my own curriculum. For two years, I was graded not only on my ability to craft and assign my own projects, but I was also able to explore multiple expressions of what art meant for me.
When I was a junior in high school, I began receiving recruitment materials from the Parson’s School of Design in Los Angeles and New York. How exciting! It fed an exceptionalism and focus for me in a way I had never considered. In addition, my art teacher had submitted my work to a prestigious midwestern college for inclusion in a juried regional exhibition.
I can still remember arriving in the huge city where the college was located and walking into a room full of artsy types, clad head-to-toe in black (which happened to be my de facto preferred look). Two opposing impressions still linger in my mind:
1. Good: Having grown up in a very small town in Iowa, it was encouraging to see other people like me. They dressed like me. Their handwriting (ALL CAPS) was like mine. I felt as though I was among my own people.
2. Bad: There were some students whose work was leagues ahead of my own. Their talent was breathtaking (and intimidating). I felt an immediate gut punch and the stirrings of Imposter Syndrome churning in my stomach. Who was I to be among these people? Perhaps my teacher had made a mistake.
Gathering my courage, I presented my portfolio to the first jurist sitting behind the massive tables. He opened my book and flicked through its pages before pausing. He then peered over his glasses, glanced at me over the top of the rims and closed my portfolio.
I have never seen anything more puerile,
he said. There is no sophistication or anything of interest in your work.
Even as I type these sentences, my heart is fluttering like a trip-hammer in my throat, my fingers are trembling, and tears threaten to spill from my eyes. Stupefied, I collected my portfolio from him and, with shaky legs, proceeded down the tables to the next jurists.
It wasn’t until I had shown my work to four more people that I finally heard the words of one gentleman breaking through through my stupor. He looked at my sketches and said, This one here shows depth and sensitive expression.
He kept talking, but I really didn’t hear him. My blood was rushing to my head; my knees were knocking, and the imposter voice was screaming in my head, saying, YOU ARE A FRAUD AND HAVE BEEN RECOGNIZED FOR THE TALENTLESS, SMALL-TOWN NOBODY THAT YOU REALLY ARE.
As soon as I left the room, I vomited in the nearest bathroom.
From an adult’s perspective, I now recognize the first jurist as perhaps a frustrated artist himself, whose only joy may have been gained through criticizing others. Maybe he had fought with his partner that morning and was still in a fit of pique. Who knows? What I do know is that I have come to recognize and respect the awesome power of words and the pain they can inflict. Words also have the