Be More to Be a Better You: A Practical Guide to Creating True Transformation and Mastering a New Visionary Identity

By Ernst Cenege

This book provide the way to be an outstanding human being in the road of life. It's designing to help you discover the right path that will increase your level of awareness and enhance your strength to stand your way out in becoming a highly achiever. This book is based on pure experience in daily basis practicing by the world's class highly performers that have been use their strong potential and act in a unique way with such inner love and passion to breakthrough the top of their industry. Their master self-awareness, changing their status quo to their lifestyle they want to live. "Be More To Be A Better You" will teach you how to start solving problems, taking you to an acceleration path that will transform your life and behaviors. Convert the bad habits that hold you back into new way of thinking that will move you beyond your small world and get you to a new world of possibilities. Master your life by mastering your mind and emotions. You will be able to live more fully and engage to make your life successful bright at everything you do.

You will discover throughout these pages by reading this book:

-How to increase your level of awareness and provide you the strength that will enable you to turn your uncertainty into your advantage.

- Raise your level of confidence and empower you to overcome the fear blocks by helping you thinking strategically, have a better view meanwhile you shift your perspective of your world.

-How to improve the quality and ability of your life by transform your core value to grow and expand.

-Maximize your full potential and build a compelling future with an extraordinary life.

-Develop the willpower and open the genius within to create the mindset that will produce change for better.

In this book you will find the tools that will help you to take you life where you are to where you want to be rapidly by provide a new strategic thinking to coop with all the life's conditions. Deploy all the effort and the hard work necessary to shape the life you desire.
Live fully life that you have been gifting for in a winnable way, lean forward in achieving your goals, dreams by laying a foundation for an entirely new way of thinking.

• Language: English
• Publisher: WestBow Press
• Release date: Aug 25, 2017
• ISBN: 9781512794397

Ernst Cenege

ERNST CENEGE, the founder of ENTRE-CHANGE, helps people to understand how to become more effective at getting better results and finding ways to activate their full potential, performance and personal growth by developing their skills and the good power within them to create a vision for themselves that will facilitate a transformational change and improve their chances for success. Ernst has spent the past ten years of his life deep in constant learning and experiencing with full engagement through case studies. He has served and helped build tremendous value for numerous international companies and helped them redefine the way they do business. He’s worked with individual clients as well, helping them generate new ways of thinking so they could enable a shift in their perspective, changing how they see life and allowing them to connect more fully and align with their true self. Ernst is committed with ENTRE-CHANGE to finding ways to drive people beyond their wildest expectations by using real educational tools they can use to become more engaged in their own lives and be the best they can be every day. His lessons and principles are designed to help others see a world of possibility. Ernst founded ENTRE-CHANGE to help as many people as possible to increase their level of awareness and realize their full potential, to achieve maximum results according to their ability and to find true meaning in their own lives. His mission is to bring that sense of awareness and understanding to the forefront so that individual success can begin with the decision to give more of yourself and to be more in whatsoever you do.

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Part I

THE TURNING POINT: CREATING A MIND SHIFT

Chapter 1

MAKING THE DECISION: WHEN DO YOU DECIDE TO LIVE FULLY?

We are not a mistake of our past neither our current situation but rather the resource of what we make our day in which we living.

Albert Einstein was known as a child who had never spoken until he was four years old and had not read until he was seven. Up to that point, his focus in the classroom had been sporadic. Some of his teachers had clearly thought that he was slow and antisocial and that he would not be able to do or make anything of himself. Others even thought he was mentally handicapped. Even worse, one professor labeled him as the laziest dog.

He was rejected for admittance at Zurich Polytechnic School and then expelled after he’d finally been admitted. That would probably seem like the end of the road for him. As only he knew that he was good in mathematics and physics, he would find his way to reapply at Zurich Polytechnic again, and this time he succeeded.

Albert Einstein turned the possible effects of those assumptions away from him and eventually graduated. Not only did he get his PhD in a course that took several years, he became a great scientist, one of the greatest scientists who has ever lived. He developed the foundations of modern physics in 1905 with his general theory of relativity and his special theory of relativity. Albert Einstein went on to win the Nobel Prize Award in 1921, and he’s been recognized as the genius of our modern era, which is synonymous with scientific intelligence.

Oprah Winfrey grew up in Milwaukee where family members and friends abused her at an early age. Oprah ran away from home and at the age of fourteen gave birth to a baby boy who died shortly after. She was considered as the big Mama in the South. Despite this tragic childhood and adversity, she didn’t stop. She went on to become the force she is today. She excelled as an honors student in high school and won an oratory contest that secured her a full scholarship to college. Today she is clearly recognizable as the most successful television personality, developed OWN (the Oprah Winfrey Network), and is admired by millions of people, including entrepreneurs around the globe. She is one of the most successful and richest people in the world.

Richard Branson was a terrible student with dyslexia, considered among the bottom average of students, and that was pretty bad. He couldn’t get good marks, and he did very poorly in standard tests that determine what we call normal. Despite what we might call a major problem, he didn’t give up or take it as an excuse to not live. He turned it around and used his personality in his favor, thriving into success. Today, Richard Branson is known as the fourth richest person in the United Kingdom, with over four hundred companies, developing Virgin Records and Virgin Airlines.

Hellen Keller, blind and deaf from birth, was the first sightless American person to graduate from college. Her life was chronicled, and after graduation, she became a noted speaker and author. Hellen Keller is, incidentally, one of the people to be on American currency currently in circulation.

In the same category, let us take a moment to mention Ray Charles, who lost his sight between five and seven years old, and Stevie Wonder, who was blind since birth. Both men were gifted as musicians, singers, and songwriters. Both were Grammy winners and pioneers. Even after death, they will be known for the lasting contributions they made to the soul, blues, and rock-and-roll music industries.

Sylvester Stallone is not a writer. Actually, he’s very limited in writing. It took him three days just to write the spirit of the Rocky character that would turn his dream to reality. When he showed it to his wife, she said she didn’t like it and thought it was ridiculous. Stallone found a way to meet with some movie producers, who laughed at him because he said that he needed to be the main character in the movie.

He was turned down and completely rejected fifteen times until the point that he had to sell his dog for fifty bucks. But he turned his dream into reality. He persisted in pursuing his dream, and to date, the Rocky movies have made him over $600 million.

Jay-Z grew up in a rough Brooklyn neighborhood. His dream was to become a great in the rap music industry, but unfortunately, no record label would sign him or give him a chance. Being turned down again and again did not stop Jay-Z. He continued to work on himself and created his own music label powerhouse that eventually turned him into the insanely lucrative Rock-A-Fella Records. He has been ranked as the top rappers in the industry and one of the most influential people in the world.

Tony Robbins was confused as a child after getting his fourth stepfather.

On a Thanksgiving night, his family received food from a stranger, but his current father denied taking the Thanksgiving gifts. Tony internalized this moment, deciding that he had to become so successful that he would be able to return the Thanksgiving gift his family had received to others. Now his foundation is about to feed 100 million people worldwide.

Knowing others is intelligence, knowing yourself is true wisdom.

—Lao Tzu

So let’s recap a bit. What’s the point of all these stories? I’m not a name dropper, and you’re probably already familiar with all these people. There are many more names that I can’t take the time to acknowledge, and you’ve probably have names of people who have had a major impact on you. But I emphasized these names just to help you reflect a little bit or to help you explore yourself.

When do people really start to live?

Some people have to have an accident, a major wake-up call. But do we really need to look at the past of all these people to realize that we need to shift our lives to focus on the greater good? We can look at dyslexia, or being abused, rejected, born blind, and hundreds or thousands of things that will make us be real with ourselves.

What about now in this moment? Let’s see ourselves differently. If we had been in the positions of Albert Einstein, Richard Branson, Oprah Winfrey, Sylvester Stallone, and the rest, could we have made the same great strides? Be honest with yourself.

We all know that nobody can absolutely be what someone else is, because everybody is an individual. Even two identical twins born in a matter of minutes are not the same. Your genes are in a specific band only for you.

Here’s another great example. The great Steve Jobs was kicked out of Apple, the very company he founded. What would we have done?

What’s in your gut right now that you could turn into unbelievable success for yourself, your family, and even the world?

Everyone feels like he or she was kicked out of something in his or her life. What is it that you feel is impossible to accomplish? That you feel that only you can get right and done the best way? What is something in your life that you tried, or are even trying in this current moment, that you are facing major rejections, major blocks that prevent you from moving forward? Is there anything in this moment that you are facing a cannot-do-this?

If you have something, let me tell you, the people I mentioned are people like you, and probably had worse than what you’re facing in this moment. And in their times, they didn’t have all the resources that we have nowadays. Let’s think about it. How much more convenient do we have it today? How could we possibly turn our lives today—not tomorrow—into the best that they could be?

The concept of When do we start to live? should be How could we shift this right now? Because life is what we make of it, not what we get out of it.

How do you really live? How do you live in the current situation your life is in, and what part did you play in making that life the way it is? We sometimes whine for the way our situation in life is instead of appreciating what we became through experiencing and enduring the moments that made us what we are. Considering that you live the opportunities and disadvantages that you face on a daily basis, and the uncertainty that’s staring at you from all sides, is it any wonder we see life as so unfair?

How could it be possible to move to a stage of development, progress, and prosperity when the shout of doubt possesses our entire minds and concentration, taking away our senses of integrity and self-esteem? We live in major disbelief about the life to which we aspire.

When do we start to live fully?

When do we smell the fragrance of living actively?

Some people realize the need to set up real life when they are faced with obscurity, disappointment, or even death. Should we really have to face major obstacles, struggles, and death to realize that we have been gifted to live each and every moment till the end? Do we really need a devastating warning? Or should we be biding our time to develop the psychology behind the steering wheel of life to develop the strength and energy to live each outstanding glorious moment at every corner we cross through life itself?

Steve Jobs left a clear message, saying, If you live each day as it was your last, someday you will most certainly be right.

How do you start your day? How do you finish your day? Are you fully engaged, present, and living every single moment with full intention?

Michael Jordan faced the same situation after being rejected by his basketball coach. He said he looked in the mirror every day, demanding himself to live for his cause.

Can you find a cause to live fully? Can you reclaim a reason to live your life at the highest level possible?

Many people don’t even have a clue about who are they or who they want to be, living their lives without aim, no target to pursue, like leaves that the wind can take in all directions. There is no vision to follow, and most of the time, they lose sight of their abilities to experience something in their inner minds. Do you really want to live like that? Imagine not having an absolute crystal clear idea about the kind of person we want to be.

No, I guess this is not a life that you want to live or stand for. When you decide to live fully the way you want your life to be, not the way it’s just happened, but the shape you form it to be, there is a power in that moment—in defining what you want to live about. Look out for what you intend to be, how you want to shape your life. Make an agreement that you will take good care and act to raise yourself to make greater decisions—decisions to grow and develop, to perform in the highest way possible, and to feel you are congruent with a wonderful life. Life is to be lived with the greatest approach to ourselves, I really mean that life is to be living with excitement, joy, purpose and new perspective to each and every day, to our demand for personal freedom, penetrating our abilities to understand how exactly how to go about our quests in every second that we live.

The most successful people have a great motive within, a real power, a greater cause that makes them want to be and give, serve much more throughout themselves.

Chapter 1 Action Questions

1. What makes the difference in people’s lives?

2. When do people start to live life fully?

3. What is your current situation and how can you intend to change it for the better?

4. Are you really living your full potential life?

5. What are you going to commit doing to set up your life without waiting for something wrong happen?

Chapter 2

MY STORY: SEARCHING FOR DISCOVERY

Life is a journey that there’s always something to be learned from.

Be more to be a better you.

This section is a part of my story that I want to share with you, but I must tell you that the book is not about me. It’s about you and some insight into others who have found their way to creating the freedom they want in life.

When I was kid, I started to develop a sense of involvement, and I engaged in some different activities. I have this within me that I want to be part of what is going on around me. At school, I was on the soccer team, and I played on the basketball team as well. I represented my school at rotary club (literature) whenever we had school events. I was boosting my passion for music. I had a band and choir at church that was very successful for me at one point. Most of the time, I was thinking about how to improve the quality of my presentation, and it was much more challenging for me because my dad was a musician who got paid by writing and teaching music, had different groups and music school, but who unfortunately never had time to teach me. I guess that he was too busy.

Later, he enrolled me in a music class after seeing my interest in playing a musical instrument. I learned to read music from one of the music classes that he had at that time, maybe because I got it from his genes. I don’t know for sure, but I was interested. I was involved in as many activities as I possibly could be, because I felt alive and part of something. I felt good doing something not by myself but contributing together with other people. I liked the feeling I got from it. It made me feel like I was growing, because for each of these activities I needed to sit down to learn and prepare before I could participate. It gave me a sense of responsibility, as if I was part of the community that I represented.

I had success in all of them. I got one championship with my soccer team in sixth grade and another championship with my basketball team before graduating high school. I had some great concerts with my band, and every New Year we had a big concert with my choir in the city at that time. It was considered one of the largest events and was attended by a full crowd, and some people that haven’t seat but still assist all the concert. It’s never been easy to put a concert in that magnitude but in the end, it’s been very successful and