Me, My Self, and I

By Gianluca Boschi

Me, my Self, and I

FIVE STEPS TO BECOMING YOUR real Self:
THE UNTOLD STORY
(Mind & Body)
Most of us want to understand more about ourselves and who we are in everyday life. The reality in which we live may resemble somebody elses life and dreams (our First Program), causing us to repeat patterns of our parents and family members, this happens at the cellular level (behavioural cells) and is recorded in the same way as DNA. Through our senses, we are creating an internal picture (the movie of our life) and like a movie it will follow a script which shapes and influences our beliefs and values in all our choices.

This book is a five-step Self-realization kit to create a new script in Light of our new choices and evolution, taking us on the road to becoming our real Self! We can reprogram ourselves with repetition in the same way we learn a new skill or sport. Just as our ancestors knew and practiced, this will involve our Mind & Body in connection with the planet and its living things. What affect others affects us as well we all live in the same fish thank. The last chapter explains numerology and its meaning in our everyday life, because every fruit has its season!

All through the book I use simple explanations about my understandings of the process of life to make it easy for you. I hope you will find your Self in this book. My life has been a continuous investigation into the mystery of the human Mind & Body behaviour. I have been using these same five steps in my life, starting from the bottom and heading towards the top. The process continues.

God bless you, Gianluca Boschi
Dreams are our unconscious Mind (heart) at its very best!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris AU
• Release date: Jul 26, 2014
• ISBN: 9781499008128

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Copyright © 2014 by Gianluca Boschi.

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Contents

About the Author

Introduction

Five points for your success

Second edition extra chapter

Chapter One: Forgiveness

Chapter Two: Acknowledgement

Chapter Three: Reprogram

Chapter Four: Lifestyle Change

Chapter Five: Persistence

Chapter Six: Numerology

Dear Child

Ten American Indian Commandments

Dictionary of the important words the ones to remember

Our Planet is a fish tank

Book Comment

Life is a marathon not a sprint

Gianluca Boschi

Important message from the author

The contents of this book are not intended to substitute for any professional advice from physicians, counsellors, psychologists or psychiatrists. The suggestions in this book are ideas based on the personal and professional experiences from the life of the author Gianluca Boschi and his associated business Mind & Body Connections.

Me, my Self, and I

Five steps to your new, successful life

(Your real Self)

Gianluca Boschi

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Special Acknowledgements

To all the people I have encountered in my life, those who have supported me on my journey and even the ones who haven’t because by doing so they have shown me the right way to go. Especially, thanks to my parents, stepparents and caretakers, and both of my grandmothers; they helped me to explore my Self in my early years when I was young. Special thanks to all the people that help in the editing of the book, and Alicia Fox for taking the picture of me, giving the book the face of the author.

Editing: Manuela Stiletto, [e-mail]

I thank all this special friends for their support in this special journey!

Finding a friend is like finding gold!         Gianluca Boschi

About the Author

Gianluca Boschi was born in Italy and is now a proud citizen of Australia where he currently lives, on Queensland’s Sunshine Coast. He believes that part of becoming the best we can be is choosing to live in a specific location that will project us towards our real Self. He found his true Self in Australia and considers it his Soul country.

In exploring his work we find that his:

Mind experiences come from one year working at Lifeline as a telephone counsellor, from time spent as a schoolteacher, and from the study and practice of NLP and Hypnotherapy.

Body came from twenty years playing soccer in Italy and seven years teaching soccer in Australia and now he is a Master Fitness Trainer.

Magnetic Field and Energy knowledge came from electronic and electro-mechanics study through TAFE in Italy, and from eleven years of practical work as an electrician.

To the people who ask how he knows the secrets of Mind & Body he replies: "All of my life I have been interested in how the Mind works and the reasons why we all behave as we do. I lived in an orphanage in my youth and I remember I chose to observe the other children’s behaviour. It was like watching a movie with all the actors in it and their different attitudes towards life. I am third generation in a family of psychics in Italy and fortunately had the chance to experience my grandmother’s psychic abilities in my youth. The events that unfolded in my life gave me the chance to explore what eventually became my primary interest.

My interest in Body came from a deeper knowledge about the need of connecting the Mind with the Body. The sport that crossed my journey was soccer and because I consider soccer a Mind-stimulating sport I chose to play it.

Eventually this sport did help me; it kept me away from trouble and taught me how to look after my Self with good food and right life-style in a holistic way. As you can see, a major part of my experience comes from a practical background. I went through my theory part in a completely different way as I found little stimulation in University textbooks, especially the psychology ones with older and down graded studies about human behaviour. This, in my opinion, is what has kept me from attaining my University degree. Due to the older styles of teaching in University I decide to study in a private college with the power to choose my teachers and the topics.

The information I have written in this book is, for many, common knowledge; but in spite of this, only a minority use these steps in their lifestyle and, in my opinion, doctors, physicians, and the people who practise psychology, are failing to use these skills in their therapy. I have written them in five easy steps with the intention of giving the public the information in a do-it-yourself Self-realization book that will last the span of time, because these points will always be at the centre of our life-style (Universe).

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Introduction

In the back of my mind I always had the dream to write a book. The reason I never did in the past was because I didn’t know what to write in it. One night not so long ago I dreamt of this title and I saw it in three dimensions. As soon I awoke I went to the computer and wrote it all down, then I remember pausing and thinking about what else I could write and after a couples of minutes I started to relax and then words started to pour out of me.

This was an exciting experience and soon I realized that I had a book inside of me ready to by written.

All the experiences of my life, the ones of my childhood and right up until this very moment, were a big boost for me, because every time I approached the computer words came pouring out and I experienced a lightness of Mind & Body with this beautiful feeling of creating something that I could share with many people. I could also keep my early childhood promise of wanting to make it fair! This was the exact word I expressed a long time ago and until that moment I was seeking different ways to fulfil my promise. The title Me, my Self, and I is dedicated to everyone reading this book because I wrote it with the intention to share my knowledge and common sense, from coming from the struggle of being at the bottom and choosing to rise to the top. I did this with the help of good choices; those choices have made the events of my life unfold in the right direction. Even if some of these events have been dramatic, they have shaped my life into what I am this very day. I call what I have experienced ‘personal wisdom’, coming from aspect of life where I’ve made the choice not to give up. Fortunately, I have had many encounters with people during my journey that have supported and inspired me to keep on going. These are some of the reasons why I would like to share this teaching with all of you.

I believe that our behaviour is memorized at first in our bodies at a cellular level, like the DNA that gives us similar features to our parents and family (what we call the genealogical tree).

Here the same processes (in my opinion) exist with our behavioural patterns. In this book I will use examples from nature to explain this concept. Secondarily, we learn our behaviour through our parents and we memorize it through five senses. In this way we create what I call the script of our movie of life, and on that movie we base our beliefs and values.

This is one of the main reasons why many of us behave the way we do, mirroring our parents (even if we are unconscious of it) and living our lives at times for the better and at times for the worse. This creates a disharmony in our internal system (unconscious mind) and eventually this imbalance will express itself outside our system. This can happen through our Mind with stress or mental imbalances, or in our Body in the form of disease.

This book is a self-realization kit and will support you to find your real Self and find an inner balance that you can share with your children. For they are copying us everyday and they mirror our behaviour exactly and this, they will also pass on to their children. This will cause a false spiral that we must stop, especially considering the new choices that are available to us now! We are living in the new millennium and we have access to the information highway (Internet, libraries etc.). For these reasons we must up grade our personal programs exactly as we do our computer programs (cellular level). The brain works in a similar way. We need to reprogram it in a way that will give us, and the people we love, better outcomes in life.

These steps will support you in a new exciting journey of Self-discovery; finally you can create a set of personal instructions for Mind & Body to pass onto the next generation.

These five points are connected with our natural environment and its living things-plants, animals and the planet. This process works in exactly the same way as it does in any of our homes, fish tanks, etc. If we don’t change the water in the tank, the fish will eventually be affected (cause and effect). We must turn it around in light of our new technologies because we are one of the species populating this planet. What affects everybody else’s back yard will eventually affect us. Aborigines in the world knew it and they passed it on from generation to generation.

Now it is our time to do something about it. This process enables us all to start again from scratch and should be included in our everyday routine of life and we must pass this new legacy on to every child.

The last chapter will talk about numerology and its discipline, analysing the meaning of numbers in our everyday modern life. Welcome to this beautiful journey of Self-empowerment and discovery.

I’d like to conclude with this concept the very reason why we should read this book and follow its exercise or think about changing our old program(s). I repeatedly say this concept in my book: As our reality changes, our program(s) must change too; the explanation is all through this book. Have a good read!

I personally used these points first and I still do.

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Five points for your success

1. FORGIVENESS: Of Your Self And Your Parents

2. ACKNOWLEDGEMENT: Of The Program You Would Like To Change In Your Life

3. REPROGRAM: The New Program You Would Like To Install In Your Life

4. LIFE STYLE CHANGE: Work Towards Your New Program

5. PERSISTENCE: Moving Forwards No Matter What!

GOOD LUCK: GIANLUCA BOSCHI.

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Second edition extra chapter

About this book

For the second edition of this book I decided to add an extra chapter, because I’m pleased about the positive feedback I received during the promotion of the first edition and about the people I encountered during that time.

Many different people with their life story and challenges, have told me so much (in every level), that I could name so many of them! They all passed me so much knowledge.

There are so many different names, faces and stories, that I would like to mention one in particular. It’s about this young lady who inspired me to write this supplementary chapter.

I choose to mention this real story because I strongly believe it can inspire many people the way it inspired me; and that we are all in need of being uplifted from time to time in our life journey! Firstly, and secondarily because this young lady is a product of a first seed (at cellular level), the one I described all through this book.

We all are the product of the first seed having the choice to spread more seeds, exactly like the farmer does (first chapter), bettering off our future and passing it on (more seeds), through our children, sending them off into the world, improving it for the better.

Returning to the real story about this encounter of this young lady. I met her in a small exposition in a Western City of Queensland. During my time there this young lady teenager literally appeared in front of my stand and decided to stop there looking at my first book. After a twenty minutes read she asked me: Why should I buy one of your book? What makes it so special from all the others?

She literally blow me away, because I wasn’t expecting such an intelligent question (usually people don’t come so forward for many different reasons but mostly to be polite), I smiled and replied; what I will extensively describe next!

Firstly I believe that all of you out there will benefit from my book as I did, by using the exercises about the five steps at the end of each chapter.

This is a book that each of us can read and use. Each time that we have a goal in our mind, it will help all of you to fulfil it successfully! No matter what the goal is!

Remember that the limitations, which are stopping us, can eventually set ourselves free by becoming our strengths.

How many people in this world are really achieving their goals? Only a tiny minority will eventually achieve them! The others will live somebody else’s life and dreams ending up with much unhappiness and creating diseases in their Mind & Body.

To me the key resides in our genetic, only our genetic can unlock our real Self in the same way all living things follow this Universal law faithfully.

I strongly believe that the new founding is genetics and we will see it more and more into the future, in time, as it happens as we speak.

This new reality will take our life and understanding about it in a whole new level!

Genetics memorize and replicate any pattern of look & behaviour that resides on our family genetic tree, at Mind & Body level. This can be used to benefit us into prevention of injury, diseases or poor choices in life!

This natural law exists for the only purpose of evolution, and we have a choice to replicate it in better or in worse, projecting the harvest of our past & present choices.

Many living things have and still follow this law, many by benefiting from it and others by terminating their evolutionary journey! As it all happens before for so many animals, plants and human beings.

Back into how all this happens for us, we must step back and see ourselves at conception; at now we all know that children into the wound are getting their genetics from the combinations of mother, father and by chance grandfather and grandmother.

Doctors know that this feature is chosen at random; at the stage of fertilization it’s only about a seed.

This is something that we cannot control jet (fortunately)!

Mother nature always has the last say, deciding through combinations of genetic sequence, those are coming from our genealogical tree for each one of us differently.

This memory (genes) is unmistakable and will replicate exactly what it has previously recorded, generation by generation, passing it onto us.

Every thing existing in our internal system, happiness, anger (good & bad) gets recorded in the historical book of our family beings!

All those files are there ready to be used sooner or later; in positive but even in negative as well!

Unfortunately for all of us we are the bio product of our genetic seed, and this can come on our way to many Mind & Body choices, driving us in autopilot toward failure and self-sabotages!

The only way to overcome those unwanted genetic behaviours is to acknowledge this Universal law and with patience creating new ones, in the same way many living things did before us, as their needs had changed they adapted their behaviour onto those new needs!

This can be done in the way I described in the previous chapters of this book. We can permanently record a behaviour at a Mind & Body level through repeating a new one around two hundred times. This can happen during the course of months or years, by patiently discipline ourselves in performing a new behaviour that will instantly give us results. By understanding this Universal law we will set a new beginning toward our inner peace.

Keeping in mind that we cannot change a pattern, which has last previous generations, in one lifetime, but we can start to reprogram it for our children and ourselves; the genetic is our immortality and the Holy Grail of humanity living forever.

As you can all see, there is no escape and like a tape recorder it will do its job by impressing it faithfully.

I’d like to remind all of you that once we will no longer be here in this existence (end of our life), and that we will leave all our materials here!

We can only carry with us our genetic memory, which has been recorded during the course of our life!

This is the only treasure that will always live on; this is a must-remember!

For many of us it has been a

Reviews for Me, My Self, and I

[clara53_1 · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Written in 1921 and published in 1924, "We", a stunning dystopian novel, was a sure precursor of both the "Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley and "1984" by George Orwell. People known as "numbers" (each having a number for a name); glass houses with curtains coming down only for a scheduled intimate hour; "Guardians" watching over everyone's move for any deviation from the norm - the norm being people with "faces not shadowed by things as insane as thoughts", with no idea about "that primitive state known as freedom" by "the ancients" - the protagonist (Number D-503) is fine with it all, happy actually... i.e. until, due to certain events and encounters he wakes up from this happy robotic slumber and starts to actually feel human (or having "developed a soul" - as a local doctor alarmingly diagnoses him). D-503 is not alone in this, he finally realizes! And he fully understands the danger of such a deviation in this society called "One State", with one and only "Benefactor" as a ruler. He records everything that is happening every day for this short period of his life. Somehow one thing leads to another: an incident prompts an "improper" thought, a flight of fancy, and, incredibly, the usual complacency and false happiness start taking the backseat. And to make matters more difficult - ahead looms the "Operation" that the State feels it must perform to prevent the "numbers" (citizens of the One State) from developing imagination that would lead to freedom of thought and all that it entails!..Events fly with unimaginable speed, as D-503 is seemingly inadvertently exposing the dystopian society in which he lives, while bringing up the memories of "the ancients" whose life was strewn with mistakes and wars and faults of all kinds, not perfect by any means, but human, not robotic as here in this society. The question of happiness is foremost. The denouement is expected and unexpected at the same time...Once in a while a book comes along that shakes your whole core. "We" was such a book for me. And to think that I have never heard of this author, until a friend on this site brought it to my attention! Eternally grateful... And to add to that - I agree with the friend reviewer that this book can be considered a masterpiece.

[selinalynn69 · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

very similar to 1984.

[encephalical · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Fucking awesome.

[skavlanj · Rating: 3 out of 5 stars]

A Book With A One-Word TitleThose who have read 1984 will find Yevgeny Zamyatin's dystopian novel We familiar, although it is actually precedes both. Like 1984, it takes place in a totalitarian regime, the One State, that suppresses individuality, brutally if necessary, in favor of an ordered life controlled by scientific dictates. People no longer have names; they have alpha-numeric representations and are known as numbers. Life in the One State has been reduced to a schedule all numbers follow, the Table of Hours, which determines the proper time for all activity: eating, sleeping, sex - even the two hours of free time required due to an inability to solve the problem of happiness. The One State is headed by a Big Brother-like Benefactor, an all-powerful man who personally executes non-conformists.D-503, the narrator, is the lead builder of the Integral, a rocket ship destined for other inhabited planets whose populations lag behind the One State in their evolution toward reasoned life. He sets out to document what he sees and thinks leading up to the launch as an ode to the One State, but ends up documenting the challenges all totalitarian states face in subordinating individual will to the collective good. At its core, his journal is an unwitting jeremiad against uniformity, against suppression of man's natural desires and needs.As with other science fiction I've read (see my review of Ender's Game, for example), We is a book more concerned with philosophical ideas than character development and language. While there are brilliant expositions on human nature, such as the reduction of happiness to the formula bliss divided by envy, and unfreedom being man's natural desire, these are overshadowed by the writing style. D-503 continually breaks off mid-thought, leaving the reader to interpret, or more often anticipate, the meaning of his ellipses. His descriptions of action are often confusing and it's unclear whether he is describing actual or imaginary events. There are also too many coincidental occurrences where he encounters, in a city of millions, the exact character needed to advance the plot, whether that is O-90, the woman who loves him, I-330, his femme fatale, or several others who represent competing sides in the One State's battle for control.We is not necessarily a complex story, although it contains multiple Biblical references that can be outside mainstream knowledge. There is also a shadow organization, MEPHI, which I associated with Mephistopheles, the Devil's advocate in Faust (although this may just be my mistaken interpretation). I think you should read any introductory material first (something I usually forgo to avoid spoilers or being prejudiced by a summary of the story). My copy had an excellent introduction that focused on Zamyatin's experiences in post-Revolution Russia which provided an illumination on the factors influencing the novel.

[dtn620 · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

A precursor and inspiration to most dystopian novels Zamyatin's We is a spectacular account of a future One State. In this One State order is the pinnacle of happiness and freedom equates to unhappiness. Everything and everyone in the One State operates on a schedule, there are no surprises, no one has a proper name (rather a letter followed by a number, determined it seems by gender) and little is left private (buildings are constructed mostly of glass). That is, until the main character (and author of the journal that makes up the book) D-503 meets I-330 and has his normal life turned on end. And as you can imagine things get interesting for D-503 from here.

The language of the novel is quite striking, for an excellent example check out Ben Loory's review as he quotes the finest example. If you have any interest in dystopian novels this is an absolute must read.