The Mentality of Racist White America Is the Mentality of Black America: And the Mentality of Men Is the Mentality of Women - Sexually

By Robert McMlillan Jr.

This book is about the Mentality of African/Black Americans, Past and Present, and how it correlates with the Mentality of Racist White Americans, Past and Present. And how can we change the way we Think. Also, an in-depth look at the Mentality of Men and WomenSexuallyAnd how Mens Sexual Mentality correlates with Womens Sexual Mentality. The two are the same. Hence, the Breakdown of the African\Black American family. When you add it all up, when you have African\Black Americans Thinking like Racist White Americans, And African\Black American Women [Women in general] Thinking like African\Black American males [Men in general], the end results for African\Black Americans as a Unit, Family, and People [not as an individual] is sad and tragic.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: May 18, 2010
• ISBN: 9781450096379

Robert McMlillan Jr.

Robert McMillian jr., is a proud 33 year old African American man who regards himself as a “Thinker,” Something far too many African Americans don’t do. [Think]. With this book I expect to change that. When you live in the South Bronx [Black neighborhood] but go to an all white school, in an all white neighborhood, and your friends are mostly white, you “See” things differently than most African Americans. My job with this book is to “Get” African Americans [and non-African Africans] to “See” what they don’t “See.” “You can’t change yourself if you can’t See yourself.” Malcolm X, and other African Americans always talked about, the slave mentality, as a kid I never understood what that meant - until now.

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Contents

INTRODUCTION

WORDS FROM MALCOLM X

FROM 1963 TO 1965

TWELVE THINGS THE NEGRO

MUST DO FOR HIMSELF

TWELVE THINGS WHITE PEOPLE MUST STOP DOING TO THE NEGRO

THE WILLIE LYNCH LETTER

WORDS BY DR. MARTIN

LUTHER KING JR.

CHAPTER ONE

CHAPTER TWO

CHAPTER THREE

CHAPTER FOUR

CHAPTER FIVE

CHAPTER SIX

CHAPTER SEVEN

CHAPTER EIGHT

CHAPTER NINE

CHAPTER TEN

CONCLUSION

INTRODUCTION

Let me start off by saying, I love African American women . . . and you don’t know . . . you . . . don’t . . . know . . . how . . . Painfully hard . . . it was . . . to say . . . that!

It’s just too bad African American women don’t love themselves. This is why I wanted to Sexually Educate African American women. I know to do so as an African American man is a crime; my job is to fuck them and leave them sexually uneducated and stupid for the next man. But I can’t do that. I’m too proud to be an African American, which is also a crime. With this book, I’m going to try to do the impossible: to try to teach African Americans to do something they were never taught to do by adults because the adults don’t know how to do it themselves. And that is To Think For Themselves.

When I turned twenty-five years old, I felt something strange about New Yorkers, especially African American New Yorkers, that I have never felt before. Fear!

Fear of everything—doing Normal, everyday-life things such as Females being afraid or cautious of walking down the street for Fear or Annoyance of Sexual Solicitation, Sitting down or standing next to someone, Fear of saying hello or good-bye, Fear of asking a stranger for the time or directions, Fear of looking at a person in the face, or Fear of talking to someone.

All these everyday-life, Normal things that people do naturally is considered Sexual Solicitation! The problem is I only felt and saw Females’ Fear mainly directed at Black Males. But what Alarmed, Disturbed, Angered, and Saddened me was that when I say Females, that includes Black Females. Black Females’ Fears are mainly directed toward Black Males. Very seldom did (does) Black females show any of the same type of Fears toward Black Males than White Males, which means Black Females are Sexually Afraid of Black Males—the same exact way White or Racist White Females are Sexually Afraid of Black Males. Something is wrong here!

Black American women’s fears of Black males has trickled down toward their own brother or male relatives—family! Are Black males that much depicted as sexual deviants that Black women are—Sexually—uncomfortable around their own male family member(s)? This is lunacy! I was (am) determined to find out why this is, and what I found out was that The Mentality of Men is the Mentality of Females—Sexually.

My life experiences and Study of Human Behavior is where the title came from.

Women, calm down!

There will always be friction between Black Males that is never going to change—Testosterone! But what does testosterone have to do with being Afraid or Cautious of Sitting Down or Standing next to another Black Male, Walking down the street in passing, Saying hello or Good-bye, Asking a stranger for the time or directions, Looking at a person in the face, or just casually talking to someone?

Very seldom do African American Males have this kind of Fear (Cautiousness) when around white Males. So why around each other? I never felt this kind of tension around Black Americans before, and suddenly I found myself having this Fear (Tension).

Where did it come from?

I was (am) determined to find out where this Fear or Cautiousness came from. My life experiences and Study of human behavior and my readings of African American literature such as my hero, Malcolm X, and certainly not my hero—Willie Lynch and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.—have caused and Saddened me to come up with this title: The Mentality of Racist White America Is the Mentality of Black America. Also, I came across a piece of Literature by Nannie Helen Burroughs that got me thinking, if the words by Ms. Burroughs in the early 1900s, Willie Lynch in 1712, Malcolm X from 1963 to 1965, and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. in the ’60s are prevalent to this day in 2009 (10), then what is wrong with the Mentality of Black America?

Because of the negative backlash I received for my Physical Research, my mother told me to read the chapter of Proverbs in the Bible. As I read Proverbs, something struck me as familiar when I read, Avoid the Harlot and Avoid the Foolish Woman. I said to myself, Why are these words from the Bible (God), in Biblical times, Prevalent in the year 2009. Something is wrong here.

This told me something: Avoid the Harlot and Avoid the Foolish Woman, Malcolm X, Willie Lynch, Nannie Helen Burroughs, and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, proves that History Repeats Itself. If history repeats itself, then it’s almost like saying, Black America is always going to wind up with the short end of the stick. Black America (not all, but the majority) are meant to be Mentally enslaved, Meant to kill each other, Meant to be poor, Meant to be ignorant, Meant to not think for themselves, Meant to hustle, and meant to never have complete ownership—Period!

Racist White America has found a way to keep Black America Enslaved—Mentally.

So why bother?

Why bother with studying to achieve your dreams then build a business or corporation when Black people are going to be your biggest obstacle than white people? And when you do get your college degree, your main goal will be to risk your life, your freedom, for Black people who would rather be a Nigger than an African American. You worked hard; you chose to think, listen, and see for yourself, and your reward—you have to give back to people who have only given you Heartache, Anger, Rage, Hatred, Loneliness, and Fear. So why bother?

Why bother respecting Black females—Sexually—when they’re going to be your biggest obstacle in achieving your dreams all because you didn’t have sex with them or go out with them, because you would rather be a ho than a woman? So now they want to interfere with your job or studying. Why Bother respecting Black Men when they’re going to be your biggest obstacle because you don’t dress like a thug or listen to thug music or talk like a thug? Why Bother? All Black America is going to do in the future is tear each other down and go right back to square one. So Fuck Black Unity, Pride. I’m an individual! I’m going to be an individual and succeed by myself.

What I just wrote, at one point in every successful Black Male and Female has felt about Black America when climbing that ladder of success. And when that black person climbs all the way to the top of success, he or she has developed resentment (self-hatred) for the black people who have made it hell for them climbing to the top. Therefore, that black person doesn’t help other black people in giving them jobs when they’re not totally qualified. Or if they are qualified, they won’t be judged any differently than any other race. Or that black person doesn’t want to build a business or corporation for black people because they think black people don’t deserve it.

Any other race/nationality helps each other out with a job when they’re not qualified or fully qualified. But because that person endured so much self-hatred by the hands of their own people in climbing that ladder of success, when that black person becomes a CEO, President, Captain, or Boss (man or woman in charge), they don’t want to help black people who may or may not be qualified for a job. Self-hatred/resentment. Then (you) black people wonder why the unemployment rate for blacks is higher than any other race.

Because when black people (not all) get into positions of power, they don’t want to utilize their power to create jobs for black people. And if a black person is undereducated, they don’t want to give them a chance in teaching them on the job.

Other races do it, but not black Americans.

I will explain the negative statistics you all read and hear about, every year, in and out of the media.

Are these statistics true or false? I say, they are.

One out of three females will be Hit/Beaten by their boyfriend or husband. Understandable, that shouldn’t be a shock. Females (not all) want it that way. I’ll explain!

Females, Calm down!

I read in the newspaper that 52 percent (the majority) of Black Males will have been arrested or in jail and wind up with a criminal record, no matter how petty the crime may be. This statistic should be no shock because Black Males are Supposed to get arrested and Black Females want them to get arrested. I’ll explain! Calm Down!

I read in the newspaper that 70 percent of Black women are single. That shouldn’t be a shock! Seventy percent of Black women should be single. Black women are too busy giving away Good Black Men to White, Asian, and especially—and especially—Latin Women.

I’ll explain! Calm Down!

The majority of Black Males (males in general) cheat on their girlfriends. That shouldn’t be a shock. Black Men are Supposed to cheat—Black Women (not all) want and Need them to. I’ll explain! Calm Down!

You always hear on the news, talk shows, talk radios, and movies that Black women have the new leading cases of HIV. Well, based upon Black women’s sexual mentality (not promiscuity), that shouldn’t be a shock! I’ll Explain! Calm Down!

You read in the newspaper and find out that the majority of Black Americans will be three or four more times likely of being Stopped and Frisked than whites. And rightfully so! When you look at it, the majority of Black Americans, especially Black women, want it that way.

I’ll explain! Calm Down!

Obviously, I’m being Sarcastic—but Serious. And after you finish reading my book, am I really being sarcastic, or am I telling the truth? The truth hurts, but when you don’t know the truth, then you just don’t know. And that is what being and staying a Minority (Powerless) is all about. Not knowing!

The less the Majority (Powerful) educates you (the minority), the more you stay Powerless (Minority)—And Not knowing! And the more the Minority (Powerless) doesn’t know, the more the Minority is Controlled. First Mentally, then Physically.

I’ve written excerpts from books and speeches by Malcolm X, Nannie Helen Burroughs, Willie Lynch, and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

In the Crises part II, I wrote verses from the Chapter of Proverbs. After you finish reading the verses of Proverbs (God), ask yourself, Why do these words/verses make any sense to me in the year 2009 (10)? What has really changed (Mentally) for Black America?

And in my conclusion, I wanted to write excerpts from four excellent books I think are magnificent, and that every Black American should read. I also needed backup.

What do I mean by that? I needed to get people to SEE, and if people don’t want to listen to me because I’m not college material, well then listen to the ones that are. And when you (read) listen to the other authors, SEE how their analysis of White or Racist White America and Black America correlates with the title of my book.

Black people keep saying the same things over and over, again and again, but no one is telling it like it is. This book is no sugarcoating, no-holds-barred, no niceties because when I read African American literature from the past and the present and the verses from Proverbs, I said to myself, Wait a minute! Black Americans are succeeding astronomically, economically, and academically . . . so why am I reading African American literature, the Bible, and from a vicious animalistic slave master, from centuries and centuries and centuries ago, prevalent in 2009 (10)? Something is wrong . . . something is wrong . . . something is wrong . . . something is wrong!

One of the problems with Black American intelligence is that there isn’t enough Black American intelligent people supporting each other. I said supporting each other.

Black intelligence only supports Black intelligence—Academically.

Intelligence is intelligence, no matter how much, or little, education you have. Everyone knows that you can have a college degree and still be a moron. Or you can only have a high school diploma or be a high school dropout and still be intelligent. Because the high school dropout pays attention to what’s going on, and the person with the degree is in their own world.

So in writing this book, I was writing the same things other authors have written. So I kept rewriting and rewriting to the point where I said, Why don’t I just say the things that isn’t being said, that needs to be said, and the things that have been said at nausea? Let me help promote their work and, most importantly, their message. This way I (we) give the reader (public) a different, but the same points of view, from different voices (people, authors) and angles.

This is how Black intelligence should support each other.

So go out and buy and read these books and get a different perspective/angle/voice about African/Black Americans in 2010. We’re all saying the same thing, but with a different angle/voice—and eyes.

The eight books I have taken excerpts from, which everybody should buy and read, are by

Mr. Rajen Persaud: Why Black Men Love White Women

Mr. Juan Williams: Enough

Mr. Joseph C. Phillips: He Talk Like a White Boy

Mr. Jewel Woods with Karen Hunter: Don’t Blame It on Rio

Mr. Marc Sims: Why African Americans Have So Many Issues

Mr. Barry Glassner: The Culture of Fear

Mr. Hill Harper: Letters to a Young Sister

And one excerpt from Barack Obama: The Audacity of Hope

I Also took a quote from Tony Benn from the documentary Sicko that everyone should go out and buy.

It took me three years to finish writing this book, and I couldn’t find an agent willing to take on my content. Literary agencies want sample chapters. But in order to fully understand what I’m saying, and proving, you have to read my book from start to finish.

When my book was just a manuscript, I tested it out to mostly black women and men, young and old; and boy, females couldn’t get past the first two chapters. Females became angry/furious with me. I was wrong and insensitive to black women. But on the contrary, I ask Black women (and all women) to have an open mind and read the whole book from start to finish. My book will anger you, but enlighten. And sometimes when you enlighten people, you have to offend them in order for them to See.

Same for African Americans in general. I know most of you reading my book will disagree with me, and anger you; but when I make a Documentary and Movie about my book (Facts), then you’ll fully (truly) understand.

Why? Because there’s a saying, People don’t believe in reality. They believe in Images.

That’s the Image-Making process that thing is dangerous. It can make the victim look like the criminal and make the criminal look like the victim.

You’ll be surprised how fast, how easy it is for someone to steal your mind.

I want to give women hope. Not only are there brothers who treat women with respect and dignity, but I also know there are men who want to change and are changing their current behavior. As a social worker, I have seen the changes in men who simply didn’t know the ramifications of their actions; and when they got to see it, and see themselves, they changed (Taken from the book Don’t Blame It on Rio. Authors: Jewel Woods with Karen Hunter).

When I was ten years old, I got left back in the fifth grade, so my mother decided to send me to a white school in Pelham Bay. Growing up in the South Bronx and then now having to travel all the way up to a white school has made me view the world differently than the majority of African Americans. I now understand the Condeleezza Rice’s, Clarence Thomas’s, Colin Powell’s, Michael Steele’s, and any other conservative (Republican). They See things differently than most African Americans, which is why Black conservatives are viciously labeled as Uncle Toms or favorable to whites.

But based upon my school experiences, I’ve realized that’s far from the truth. Black conservatives have just as much African American pride as any Black liberal. The problem is, Black conservatives don’t know how to explain their ways of thinking. They come off as being snobbish, with a side of self-hatred. I’m not a conservative, but my content will explain the way Black conservatives think. Again, black conservatives, based upon their life experiences, See things differently. And I hope after reading this book, more African Americans will also See the world differently because I feel that the majority of Black America shares the same brain (think alike). And when any African American has the audacity to think out the ordinary, that black person will become ostracized by the community. Hence the psychological, economical, trust issues African Americans have with each other. Hence, the Willie Lynch Letter.

I may not have said and done everything right in the Physical Research for my book, but everything I have done and said was based upon my love of being African American, which I know these days is a Sin! (Sarcasm.)

WORDS FROM MALCOLM X

FROM 1963 TO 1965

The slave-master took Tom and dressed him well, fed him well and even gave him a little education—a little education; gave him a long coat and a top hat, and made all the other slaves look up to him. Then he used Tom to control them. The same strategy used in those days is used today, by the same white man. He takes a Negro, a so-called Negro, and makes him prominent, builds him up, publicizes him, makes him a celebrity, and then he becomes a spokesman for Negroes—and a Negro leader.

"It’s the