Life Hacks For Men: Life Hacks For Men

By Shamus Campbell

This book is for the man who never had the confidence to go for what he wants in life. The man who has all these ideas, fantasies and plans for himself but can never go for it. Whether it be in his career, social, spiritual or love life, the concepts in this book will give a clear step by step guide to achieving tremendous success in life and becoming the alpha that you were meant to be.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Jan 7, 2021
• ISBN: 9781716258299

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Life Hacks for Men

Get the career, relationship and lifestyle you truly desire

Shamus Campbell

Table of Contents

Part 1: First Things First

Introduction

    Who Am I?

Part 2: Developing A Plan

    Goal Setting

Supporting Your Goals

The Fear Factor and Being Comfortable with the 

    Uncomfortable

Part 3: Discovering Your Purpose

    Following the Right Path

Believing in Your Decision

Sticking It Out Through the Hard Moments

Thriving in Your Craft

Part 4: The Charm Offensive

    Guys Listen

    Single Life

    Moving to the Next Stage

Keeping It Alive

Part 5: Living to Live

    What we normally do

What we’re supposed to do

Part 6: Walk of Faith

Conclusion

Part 1: First Things First

Introduction

Right, first off, I want you to make it very clear to yourself what it is you want in life. Do you want to be successful in business? Do you want to have a nice car? Have a great marriage? These are the things I want you to get straight. Understanding your aspirations, knowing exactly what you are working towards and putting yourself through daily pain for, is the difference between success and the limbo state that so many of us find ourselves in.

Stop asking yourself questions such as: Why is it always me? Why can I never catch a break? Why can’t I get the girl I want? And stop using statements like: If only I looked different… had more confidence… had different circumstances. Thinking this way will not get you what you want, gentlemen. That’s playing the victim and, as much as it might make your life easier to blame the world, it’s not going to fix a thing. The world is going to keep on turning no matter what drama you make of it.

God has given us free will to do whatever we want. So, believing you have the power and that you’re in control, is the most important way of thinking I want to get across to you. If you get only one thing from this book, it should be this point... YOU ARE IN CONTROL.

You may not be able to always control the outcome, but you can train yourself to control your viewpoint and response to the outcome. This is where true learning is done and, the quicker you understand this, the quicker you will improve in the area you’re working on, whether it be your career, fitness or dating life. If you choose to improve and understand yourself rather than trying to control everything around you, you’re already on the right steps to success.

What I’m Going to Teach You

One thing you can control, even though many people choose not to, is your career. People have the philosophy that following their dream job is not for them. They feel that having a job they would love is beyond them. This mindset is why many people have become so unfulfilled with life. I’m going to make sure that, by the end of this book, you have the belief that you should and must stick by your passions. I want you to choose the best career for you and thrive in it.

Another major part of your life you probably want to get to grips with is your love life. It’s the one thing that most, if not all of us would go through hell and back for, climb over mountains for or even sacrifice our own self-worth for. Yes, love really does conquer all, but unfortunately, when it conquers us, we become pretty incapable of doing anything else. Have you ever thought of being in a position where you felt so confident that you knew exactly where your partner’s level of attraction was? Or where, whenever she threw a test or challenge at you, you could see it coming from a mile off and were able to respond in the perfect way?

Now, believe it or not, woman may seem complex, and they are but there is a very rational way of understanding their irrational behaviour. Trust me, I’m going somewhere with this...

What would you say to the suggestion that a female’s decision is more based around her