Interrupted To Be
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It is not a "how to book"-"it is a God can book."
Those are the words Dr. Wilder heard in her spirit regarding the intended purpose for this book. She has endeavored to stay true to the assignment.
Are you one of the many individuals that have had vivid spiritual dreams,
Dr. Annie Wilder
Dr. Annie B. Wilder has, for more than a decade, experienced exciting successes in helping individuals, ranging from teenagers to great-grandparents, overcome emotional paralysis, false core beliefs and self-defeating practices resulting from low self-esteem, sexual assault and domestic violence. She is a highly sought-after speaker and workshop facilitator nationally and internationally. Dr. Wilder, owner of Uncommon Counseling, LLC (unmasking the inner you), conducts one-on-one counseling sessions Focusing on the whole person - body, soul and spirit. Dr. Wilder Earned her doctorate degree from Jacksonville Theological Seminary, Jacksonville, Florida and is accredited by the Saratosa Academy of Christian Counselling and the National Christian Counselors Association. Mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, Dr. Wilder resides in Old Saybrook, Connecticut.
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Interrupted To Be - Dr. Annie Wilder
Contents
Preface
Acknowledgments
Appreciation
Introduction
Chapter 1. A Heart Condition Left Unattended
1 Samuel 15:1–35
Chapter 2. A Replacement Identified
1 Samuel 16:1–13
Chapter 3. The Rejected Meets the Chosen
1 Samuel 16:14–23
Chapter 4. Enemies Within, Enemies Without
1 Samuel 17:1–58
Chapter 5. A Sad Situation
1 Samuel 18:1–30
Chapter 6. Letting Go Is Hard to Do
1 Samuel 19:1–24
Chapter 7. An Unbelievable Situation
1 Samuel 20:1–42
Chapter 8. Reasons beyond Expectation
1 Samuel 21:1–9
Chapter 9. Asylum in the Enemy’s Camp
1 Samuel 21:10–15
Chapter 10. Isolation or Solitude
Chapter 11. Prayer at Mom’s House
Chapter 12. A Place of Refining
1 Samuel 22:1–23
Chapter 13. Out of Sight, Not Out of Mind
1 Samuel 22 (Addendum)
Chapter 14. The Rescuer Becomes the Victim
1 Samuel 23:1–29
Chapter 15. A Surprising Turn of Events
1 Samuel 24:1–22
Chapter 16. The Journey Gets Long
1 Samuel 25:1–44
Chapter 17. I Had a Dream
1 Samuel 25 (Addendum)
Chapter 18. Déjà Vu
1 Samuel 26:1–25
Chapter 19. I Will Perish if I Stay
1 Samuel 27:1–4
Chapter 20. The Enemy Wants Your Mind
1 Samuel 27:5–12
Chapter 21. Don’t Let the Devil Ride
1 Samuel 28:1–25
Chapter 22. Way of Escape Provided
1 Samuel 29:1–11
Chapter 23. Response under Pressure
1 Samuel 30:1–20
Chapter 24. A Different Set of Principles
1 Samuel 30:21–31
Chapter 25. It Is a Promise
1 Samuel 30:21–31 (Addendum)
Chapter 26. The Pursuit Ends
1 Samuel 31–2 Samuel 1:1–27
Chapter 27. Now Where Do I Go?
2 Samuel 2:1–7
Chapter 28. Another Attempt to Stop God’s Plan
2 Samuel 2:8–2 Samuel 4:1–12
Chapter 29. Established King, Exalted Kingdom
2 Samuel 5:1–25
Chapter 30. A Place for God’s Presence
2 Samuel 6:1–23
Chapter 31. Hindsight
Chapter 32. Pause
References
Preface
Personal prophecy is a spontaneous utterance inspired by the Holy Spirit and spoken by an individual for the purpose of edification, exhortation, and comfort. The New Webster’s Dictionary and Thesaurus defines these words as follows: Edify—to build up, in a moral sense, to instruct or improve generally. Exhort—to urge to a good deed, to encourage, to warn. Comfort—to console, to gladden (1 Corinthians 14:3). Prophecy is a spiritual gift (1 Corinthians 12:10) to be desired (1 Corinthians 14:1) and is given in part (1 Corinthians 13:9). That means God reveals a portion of His plan for our lives at a time. Its fulfillment is a process that requires us to believe, obey, and exercise patience.
Therein is a problem for many individuals. What is meant to encourage, edify, and comfort can, when not understood, become a snare. Often the individuals receiving the prophecy expect its fulfillment to be immediate. Instead, it is intended for us to be encouraged in the state we are found. Sadly, so often it causes a different response. Many times an individual’s response is one of paralysis and indecision. The recipient of the prophecy often spends years, and even the remainder of their lives, unable to live in the now for fear of missing what is to happen in the passage of time.
These individuals, using their own reasoning, constantly try to fashion their every move, or lack thereof, around the fulfillment of the prophecy. Others go about laying out their everyday functioning based on what they think the direction of the prophecy will take. Such behavior assumes God needs our help. God is the one to watch over the utterance to give it to be manifested. He made this fact clear in Isaiah 55:11: So is My Word that goes out from My mouth: It will not return to Me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and will achieve the purpose for which I sent it.
The plan is the Lord’s. Many things will usually happen to bring about fulfillment of the prophecy. I repeat, our part in the process requires faith, obedience, and patience. Oh, by the way, we can be assured that God will interrupt and redirect our self-selected plans in life to bring about the fulfillment of His plan.
Acknowledgments
Honor, glory, and praise to God for this completed assignment.
For whatsoever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.
—Romans 15:4
Appreciation
To my high school classmate Cynthia McGriff Fails, who strongly encouraged me to submit to her request to host a book signing event for my first book in my hometown of Clermont, Florida. I could not resist the undeniable sincerity of her words, I want to do this please let me.
To my sister and brother-in-law, Martha and Rodney Jones, along with Cynthia’s family, who feverishly worked alongside of Cynthia.
To my brother, Timothy Murry, who posted signs and announced the event in my hometown community newspaper.
To my children, other siblings, in-laws, their children and friends who traveled from various parts of Florida—Tallahassee to St. Petersburg to attend and assist with the event.
To Mary Harris (now deceased), also a high school classmate, for joyfully and tirelessly assisting with the book signing.
To Zettie Cole (now deceased), who rose from her sick bed to attend the book signing.
To the various business owners, church leaders, prayer groups, and book clubs in Connecticut, Massachusetts, and New York who scheduled luncheons, conversational teas, workshops, and other events.
To everybody who purchased my first book—throughout the United States, Canada, South America, and beyond—I extend my sincere appreciation.
Your love and continued support spurred me on to publish this, my second book.
Blessings!
Introduction
Why can’t things just go as planned? This is a question practically everybody has asked at one time or another in life. Whether referring to romantic relationships, employment, educational pursuits, or having to suddenly deplete savings to cover unexpected expenses, the question has been raised. The very fact that the question is posed indicates a level of frustration, bewilderment, and oftentimes anger. The underlying reason for the question is often the result of plans we thought we had control over suddenly being out of our control. The matter is further complicated by the fact that we are left without knowledge of what caused our plans to stray off course. Depending on how determined we are in doing things as we planned, the situation can throw us into a crisis situation.
The dictionary defines interruption as the act of breaking into the progress of,
obstruction or hindrance,
cause of stoppage.
I like breaking into the progress of.
The word be is defined by the same source as exist,
occur,
or take place.
Putting the two together, we derive the focus of this book title.
is a breaking into the progress of an existing action or process to prepare for another to take place.
That definition describes life.
The one sure thing about life
is it just doesn’t unfold in a predictable manner. Yes, we lay out great plans for our lives, and to some degree, we are able to follow those plans. But so often they get interrupted. When that happens, we are tossed on to a course in life never dreamed or imagined. That is not always a bad thing. In fact, it can be an exciting journey resulting in self-enrichment, personal and spiritual growth, empowerment, and even promotion.
One concept that is difficult for us to grasp is that interruptions are sometimes God’s doing—for our good. Sometimes they are simply permitted by Him—also for our ultimate good. Great, but do we know this fact at the time? Unfortunately, we don’t. The one thing that is usually certain is that the prior enjoyable experience has now given way to high levels of stress, anxiety, uncertainty, and often the question that is repeated over and over and over again: Why?
I am so very excited that the Lord has enabled me to pen this book. My prayer is that it will help the many who operate in a continuous state of stress and anxiety because of sudden interruptions in life. It is also to help others put the periods of unproductive activities, or seeming lack of activities, in their lives in perspective. What you are experiencing isn’t that God has forgotten you. It isn’t that the prophecies that have been spoken over you were of a false prophet. It isn’t even that your time has come and gone or that you are the only person in life without a God-given purpose.
Rather, most often these situations are all about preparing you for fulfillment of your purpose. They may actually be about sharpening those godly traits placed in you when you were conceived in your mother’s womb. Furthermore, the circumstances you now find yourself could be to expose you to people and places that are part of your destiny. On the other hand, it maybe for exposing something within you—a tightly concealed snare devised by the enemy for your demise. We are not to be ignorant of the enemy’s devices.
These principles will be demonstrated in this book through the early life of David. He is known by some as King David and others as David the giant slayer. This part of his life begins in 1 Samuel 16:1 and goes through to 2 Samuel 6. He was a lad when he had been chosen by God to become the next king over Israel. However, he was thirty-three years old when he was anointed for partial fulfillment of his destiny. It would be another seven and half years before being anointed to completely embrace the fulfillment of God’s plan for His life.
We will see that David suffered rejection, experienced being accused of performing activities for the wrong motives, was returned wrong for his good deeds, and was chased out of his homeland. These were all after God had chosen him to be the next king of the great nation of Israel. David did not become immobile, paralyzed, or inactive. Fulfillment of his destiny was not to take place on the sidelines. It was to take place in the process of time as he navigated through each of these life encounters. Most often the delay, or lack of activity, currently being experienced is preparation time for something beyond our imagination. Sometimes it is