The B.A.B.E.S.' Guide to Divine Feminine Grace: From Mule to Muse

By M. Reese Everson

You've decided that choosing a mate means being the best version of you? But aren't sure how to be your best self? What does God say about hypergamy and leveling up and dating and marriage? Join me on another journey of exploring our Divine Feminine Grace.

Right now there are 1000s of books, courses and influencers discussing marriage, dating, how to be feminine and hypergamy. So why should you read this book? The B.A.B.E.$ Guide to Divine Feminine Grace was divinely inspired to provide you with the tools to shed the teachings of feminism and embrace the wisdom of femininity. Yet we aren't encouraging you to take on the characteristics of Cinderella in order to panhandle men for the role of a 'Starter (struggle) wife', we're instead explaining the path of self-discovery and self-love needed to become a hypergamous wife. The B.A.B.E.$ Guide to Divine Feminine Grace helps us to go within to break the tapes of negative programming playing inside our heads that cheat us of the love and adoration we seek, and the treatment we truly deserve. With this book you'll learn how to get out of your own way, and trust that you can have the desires of your heart, because you're a daughter of the Most High. Together we shed the yokes of being mules, to standing in the glory of being a muse. Will you join me?

• Language: English
• Publisher: M. Reese Everson
• Release date: Feb 27, 2021
• ISBN: 9781005922634

M. Reese Everson

M. Reese Everson, Esq. is a social entrepreneur who created The B.A.B.E.$ Guide as an answer to the question, "how do we prepare our beautiful, ambitious, brilliant, young women of excellence for the challenges they face in the workplace while keeping their dignity, morals, and values in tact." In a world where sex sells and women are treated as objects, can a young woman thrive without having to compromise her prize? Yes and M. Reese Everson will tell you how!

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Chapter 1: Hypergamy is of God

For every single question on the previous page, the answer is a resounding no . Can you be loved by a high value man? The answer is yes.

I know you’re looking at me with the side-eye and wondering, So then why are there so many women who are single and unhappy, if a hypergamous marriage is possible? Marriage is not only attainable but abundant for those who know the secret. For those who know the secret, going from a high ly -value d woman to a high net-worth wife is not only plausible, but inevitable.

" But wait a minute, Reese!!!! We missed a critical step. How d o we go from single as a dollar bill to meeting eligible men to becoming a high net-worth wife? What is this secret? "

You’re right, you don’t meet a prince and then 15 minutes later you’re married. This is not Cinderella or Snow White. A great deal of the details surrounding the construction of a quality marriage begins during dating. (And what is dating? Marriage Negotiations!!!) However, there’s a slight problem. Most women our age don’t know how to date! If you asked our grandmothers and great-grandmothers how to date, many would explain that women used to be courted for marriage. Courting back then looked a lot different than the dating we do today, namely because courting was far less … physical. And in the event that they did decide to put the cart before the horse, and have sex before marriage, things could get expedited very quickly with what the old folks called a ‘ shot-gun wedding ’. The ceremony was kicked off when the father of a young lady, holding a double barrel ed shotgun in the face of the young fellow who had gotten his daughter in the family way and forced him to do right by her , i.e. marry her. To avoid shotgun weddings, most frisky young folks were very hesitant to introduce pre-marital sex into the equation of dating for fear of becoming the talk of the town, and bringing shame to her family . To be an ‘ unwed mother ’ meant that the father could not be forced, persuaded or cajoled into marrying the mother-to-be.

Why was getting a woman pregnant outside of marriage such a big deal? Well, children born to un-married women were publicly stigmatized with names like ‘ bastard ’ and other derogatory terms. These terms were used to make women feel ashamed for bringing a baby into the world without a proper family structure in place. Back in the Victorian times, women could be sentenced to hard labor for many years, and fathers whipped with a cat of nine tails for creating an ‘ illegitimate ’ child, or a whoreson. Why? Because children born to women outside of marriage were often without the support of the father physically, and financially. Historically, being born out of wedlock deprived a person of his inheritance, which was usually the only way to acquire real property. A child born outside of marriage could not take the father’s surname even if the father wanted to acknowledge him legally. So the child was destined to be poor his or her whole life.

Even in the Bible, there was great punishment for a man after God’s own heart who fathered an illegitimate child with Bathsheeba, (a married woman) and tried to hide his sin. As a punishment for King David having sex with a woman who wasn’t his wife, God allowed the child to die shortly after its birth.

But t hese days, you almost never hear such terms. The shame and financial hardship involved with creating a child outside of wedlock has almost completely ceased to exist. When c hildren are born, what the father won’t do, the government can and will step in to do. The stigma of shame is no longer necessary, as rather than being the child of nobody, or ‘ bastards ’ as they were called, children born out of wedlock whose father’s won’t care for them, can become the recipient s of the care of the State . Through tax-funded programs the government now issue s childcare vouchers , diapers, baby formula, and other basic provisions that moms can apply for . These public services are called ‘ aid ’ or more commonly known as, ‘ welfare .’

The consequences of dysfunctional families aren’t merely economic, but psychological as well. These days, when a man won't establish a family with the mother of his child, she’s referred to as his , ‘ Baby Mama. ’ Being a baby’s mama is now a term that’s used so commonl y , that it went from being a pejorative to , in some cases , being worn with pride. There’s even a baby ’s mama theme song. Don’t believe me? Go to Youtube and type in Babymama S ong. Women have gone on to be famous for be ing baby mamas and have become we ll-off by requesting large sums of child support.

Toto, I D on’t T hink W e’re in Kansas A nymore. - Dorothy

If you’re rubbing your temples and wondering how in the world we got to this strange place, where the family unit is no longer the esteemed institution it once was, I want you know there’s actually a scientific explanation for how we got here. Up until the 1900s, it was almost guaranteed that women who were sex ually active were very likely to become pregnant. And any children conceived outside of a marriage and family structure, could create grave consequences for her and her child, who’d likely be doomed to a life of poverty. Thus dating for marriage didn ’ t automatically include sex, and sex while dating was genuinely tied to people who were preparing to marry. However, with the popularization of birth control pills by the 1960s, the social price of obtaining sex was drastically lowered as the fear of an unplanned pregnancy was greatly reduced. And as a result, having sex and getting married are now completely separate conceptual entities. Birth control methods were seen as ‘ liberating ’ because it allowed a woman to pursue higher education and be part of the workforce . Women no longer needed to worry about whether her sexual activity would interrupt her studies or career with an unplanned pregnancy. Thus birth control was seen as an equalizer between women and men. Now women could work just as long and just as hard as a man, without concern for reproductive consequences. If she used birth control she could avoid having children at all, until she reached a certain ‘ acceptable ’ place in her career. This was a celebrated event and women could finally have more prominent roles in the corporate world and break past the glass ceiling that kept women in supportive, administrative, perfunctory roles.

May I G et Y ou a C up of C offee or T ea?

Thanks to birth control preventing ‘ unwanted pregnancies ’ , women could now run with the big boys in the ‘Old Boys Club’ . Women now had a chance to bust up the monopoly on money and power that had been secured through incestuous business relationships. Women could now hang out on the 18-hole golf course where deals were hammered out — without having to rush to pick up the children from schoo l. Th ey could go out for drinks after the deal closed — without having to rush home to make dinner for the children . Some could even go out to the strip club with their colleagues to celebrate their amazing quarter — without having to wait for the babysitter to arrive. Why? Because birth control options allowed them to delay the very birth of those children.

As a side effect of sex becoming more free, available and low-risk, the number of men seeking ‘ a good time ’ , rather than a wife, skyrocketed. And in response, women have began to provide much more sex, without any strings attached, while hoping to secure marriage on the backend. The shift in priorities has created what most would call an economic inequality, where one group holds all the resources, and the other group has little to none. Thus the ecosystem is now completely flooded with sexual partners, rather than people dating to build relationships that lead holy matrimony.

So what’s a girl to do? How does one prepare for the world of mating instead of courting? Does one go off of the wisdom passed down from her grandmother on how she won granddad’s heart by writing him letters while he was off to war in Vietnam? Does one listen to stories about how grandma and grandpa were high school sweethearts that got married after they graduated at 18? While beautiful stories, such occurrences are becoming more and more uncommon as people are mating earlier but waiting later and later to start families. Not because love no longer exists, but simply because since sex became easier to get, love has become harder to find. The male - female relationship has changed so fundamentally in the last 80 years due to pregnancy prevention tools, that almost no one still uses the manual on dating passed down by our grandmothers. After all they’re completely obsolete.

Or are they?

Our grandmamas could only pass down the information that they kn e w. And that knowledge c ould only come from one of two places: what they have seen to be the tried and true ( because it worked for them ) , or what they believe they should have done based off of the mistakes they made along the way. But what happens when none of this information seems to work?

Our People Perish For the Lack of Knowledge

Young women can choose to learn about men from any one of the tens of thousands of books on how to find a mate, how to speak a man’s language, why he won’t like someone like you, and how to get to I Do. Yet even with all of these books, women each day find themselves on the down and outs when it comes to quality relationships . We don’t know what we don’t know, and we are paying dearly for our ignorance. Why didn’t mama show us how to do this? But perhaps Mama isn’t to blame . Mama c ould only teach you what she kn ew . And if she wasn’t able to master the art of dating as a high ly- value d woman during her lifetime, then the information that she’s passing down is dangerous and can have you making mistakes, that with better insight, might have been completely avoided. The secret is: everything that you need to know about being highly valued is in the Word of God. The Bible extensively covers how to vet men and how to become