Flirting for Women: The Ultimate Guide on How to Flirt Like Cleopatra and Use Non-Verbal Communication and Seduction Techniques to Start Dating High-Value Men

By Dara Montano

Have you been single for so long you´ve forgotten how it feels to love and be loved? Are you sick and tired of choosing the wrong men all the time? Do you want to become the queen of seduction, stop being the chaser, and become the chased? Then keep on reading…

Have you ever wondered how some women are always surrounded by men? What is it that makes them so attractive and stunning?

It might be surprising to know it´s not just about physical appearance. There is much more to the art of dating than just the looks.

If you are prepared to face some hard truths and learn the mistakes women like you are making, then you are on the right path to finding your soulmate.

You might have already surrendered, thinking you will never find the right guy for you. Let's get one thing straight – that kind of attitude will never attract the man you are looking for. And if you are just waiting around to be found by the man of your dreams – prepare yourself for brutal failure. You have to stop acting like a Cinderella and become the irresistible and mind-blowing alpha female.

Like anything in life, practice makes perfect, and with tips from this flirting guide, you will become a master seductress!

Romance can be both the best and the worst experience in your life. No one is born charismatic with unlimited charm. To some it comes more naturally, others have to put in more work, but we all stand the same chance of achieving a long, healthy, and loving relationship, and ultimately a successful marriage. The same goes with confidence. Some have more of it while some have less, but there are sure-fire ways of increasing it.

You might be wondering, what sets this book apart from others trying to teach you how to flirt?

Here you won't read the advice you have read a million times before. You will discover never-before shared practical and detailed techniques that will be your game changer. You'll be taught strategic-thinking while maintaining the allure of a natural femme-fatal. You will never again be a placeholder.

The famous phrase "Man Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus", coined by John Gray, is completely true!

You first have to infiltrate and understand the male mind to know where to meet and how to keep him.

In this book, you will learn all the secrets and many new and useful strategies, skills, and tricks, some of them being:
- What men really think – busting the myths!
- How to talk to men and keep the conversation going
- Discover the 21 stages of flirting!
- The mistakes all women are making when flirting
- How to skyrocket your confidence
- How to turn flirting online into a real date
- Everything you should and shouldn't do on a first date
- How to read his body language and make yours more inviting
- How to know immediately if he´s a suitable candidate to be the One?
- What you need to know about boundaries for mutual respect
- How to recognize men worth going after

Dating and flirting is a game where there can be either two winners or two losers. This amazing guide will equip you with tools and skills that are proven and that guarantee you will be the winner of the game of love. No more one-night stands, short relationships with no future, and disappointing choices.

Get this book now and don't miss your chance of finding the man that will give you what you deserve – long-lasting love and respect!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Dara Montano
• Release date: Feb 14, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393427414

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Introduction

Everyone flirts, but some people are better at it than others. Flirting has a lot of benefits if you do it correctly. For instance, a person can get out of difficult situations by flirting his or her way out. Women are experts at flirting, but due to the rapidly changing world, many women have lost their edge in the world of flirting; that does not mean that these edges cannot be sharpened! This guide is sure to help women who want to practice and hone their flirting skills.

This book is a great guide for everyone. Even if you are new to the world of flirting, you will learn a lot from this book. It does not matter whether you have flirted before or not; this book will help everyone who wants to learn to flirt.

There are many different books related to flirting and seduction available on the market; they are quite popular as well.  The one in your hands stands out from all the other books because, along with experts, many experienced and qualified flirters have collaborated in the book, making it highly readable and simple to understand. It is up-to-date and has a lot of new tricks, techniques, and strategies that you can use to flirt with your date; this book can work wonders for a woman who needs a little help with flirting.

Chapter One: Understanding Men and How They Really Think

Men – and many women - believe that women are complex and complicated creatures who are difficult, if not impossible, to understand. Still, many people realize that men are complex too. Decoding their minds and psyches is necessary for understanding them.

Due to the unfortunate stereotypes perpetuated about gender, men and women often have misunderstandings, believing some untrue myths about each other. Demystifying these myths can help both men and women to understand the dynamics of the society in a better way. In this section, let’s look at how men think about women. This chapter specifically focuses on some of the most common misguided notions that men have about women, providing useful information about how to reassure men while flirting.

Fortune

Many men think that women love money, luxury, and that they are obsessed with material possessions. Everyone loves material pleasure, but only a few are hooked on it. It is not a common fixation. In fact, many women tend to avoid men whose main fixation in life is money and material wealth. Women care for men's passion, work ethics, hobbies, and ambition, more than how rich they are. This approach is seen in other factors too. If a man or woman is interested in only talking about money, then it is better to avoid dating them at all.

Physique

Another common myth that men associate with women is that they are obsessed with men with perfect and highly chiseled bodies. Most women find extremely buff guys off-putting or intimidating. They find these men judgmental and vain as well. No one likes to be self-conscious, and men in great physical shape can make women self-conscious. Similarly, no woman will appreciate it if her man spends more time at the gym instead of spending time with her. Caring about one's appearance is important - but not for the sake of others.

Size of Your Manhood

This is one of the most rampant myths that men associate with women. Most women do not care about the size of your penis, so the concept that bigger is better is just a myth. Penile size has become a benchmark for the masculine ego, but almost all penis sizes are acceptable (and enjoyable) for women.  Your penis size says nothing about you or your personality, and certainly does not confirm your sexual potency and prowess. The only thing it does confirm is that you have a big appendage between your legs! Many men tend to develop self-confidence issues due to their penis size – a dastardly side effect of pornography and big phallocentric media culture. Women are more concerned about your personality and your attitude in bed - as well as outside of the bed. They care if you are an attentive and giving lover. They would prefer you to be with a man with a small penis - but a lot of techniques and passion - rather than dealing with a man with a giant penis, but zero understanding of pleasure.

Vulnerability

Vulnerability is another aspect that men think that women think is disgusting and unsexy. Many men even believe it to be unmanly as well. Showing appropriate emotions and feelings at appropriate times and situations is crucial for emotional health, physical health, and mental stability. Women love men who are in touch with their emotional side, men who can express their feelings without being uncomfortable. Men believe that women will judge them if they display their feelings in an obvious manner, but women find it sexy when men can display their emotions.

Women love men who are emotionally stable. This means that women love men who can cry while watching a sad movie and can display their emotions in appropriate situations. This does not mean that the man should go around moping and crying all the time, but true vulnerability shows ingenuity.

Putting Them on a Pedestal

Nobody in this world is perfect, and nobody likes to be treated like a god or goddess all the time. People like to enjoy the simple pleasures of life, which often come from hardships. Everyone has flaws, and these flaws need to be addressed, but many men believe that women love to be perfect, which is why they tend to put women on a pedestal and shower them with compliments day and night. A few compliments in the right situations and on the right occasions are good, but bombarding women with compliments makes men seem insincere. It often leads to disconnection and disconcertion in the relationship. Women do not like to be worshipped.

Women prefer having a connection with their men. Women love to be treated as equals. No one likes to be treated as superior or as inferior in any relationship; so, keeping up the idealized version and its façade can be quite difficult in the long term. This often leads to the formation of cracks in a relationship, and ultimately, the relationship falters.

Superficiality

Men believe that complimenting women about their looks all the time is the best way to flirt with them. This is obviously untrue. Women like being complimented about their looks, but if a man can think only about one thing worth complimenting them about, then the whole relationship becomes old and clichéd very soon. In fact, it also becomes demeaning, because it shows that your man does not understand that you are much more than your looks.

Men understand that there are many things worth complimenting and noticing about their women, but they are afraid to bring them up because they believe that women will not appreciate it. Women can help their men in such cases by reassuring them and projecting their relationship from an optimistic point of view.

Vanity

Men and women alike believe that women are vainer than men, but this is a myth. Men have been vain since ancient times! Men care a lot about their appearances, especially their hairline, their graying hair, etc. Instead of spending a lot of time on improving appearance, men should concentrate on improving their personality, as this is what women tend to focus on.

Many women love gray hair because it makes men look more mature and seductive. Often, women do not care about appearances at all if a man can make them laugh. Instead of trying to hide their insecurities, men should embrace them, and just accept that they are part of who they are as a human.

Men and Flirting

In the last section, we saw how men tend to have wrong notions about the perceptions women have about them. Men have certain desires and ideas that rarely get fulfilled because they aren’t comfortable presenting their ideas. In this section, let us have a look at some of those ideas, which will help you understand the masculine psyche in a better way.

Drinks

Men love it when women offer to buy them drinks. They feel flattered and elated.

Hair

Men love it when women run their fingers through their hair; if combined with a seductive smile, men will love it! This is an intimate and sensual form of flirting. Do not overdo it, though, or it may seem too erotic or sexual.

Clarity

Men generally do not pick up on clues and cues properly. Therefore, many men often fail to acknowledge your presence or flirting, just because they have never been flirted with before. If you feel that the man you are flirting with is not interested in you or that he does

Reviews for Flirting for Women

[Chelly Cruz · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

The cover image is suitable for the title. The book title describes the goal of the book itself. The subtitle convinces women to flirt in various ways from the traditional to modern ways. I love how the author guided the reader from the basic to the most complex steps on flirting. Even if you are new or expert with flirting, this book will still be your bible when it comes to improving yourself and your thinking about flirting. This book is very detailed and there were some examples given. I would love to see the actual/published book, too. The author can also communicate with readers by construction self-evaluating questions or any art of questions to continuously build rapport with the readers.

[anne · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

A book that is perfect for a beginner with interest in this scope. Out of curiosity, I checked this book, Flirting for Women, and was surprised all along when it offered an extraordinary way of uplifting women when it comes to flirting. As I read through each of the book's passage, I only have one thing in my mind: it did not disappoint me. As a woman, I was glad that Dara Montano, fully evoked all her prowess to intricately deliver each of her thoughts and empower her readers. By far, this book is the only book I have found where in it emphasizes how good women could be if they tend to learn the tips and tricks that she mentioned in the book. The part that I liked the most is when the autor fully addressed to her readers the capabilities of women, how should they handle themselves, and most of all, Montano builds a woman of dignity and confidence in lieu with different types of flirting as you go along the book. In my behalf,as a reader, I have fully understood the beauty of the art of seduction and how it could be used in order to persuade someone, initiate a conversation that will never be forgotten, and build a nice socializing interaction with them. As I scroll pass through it there's so many things I have realized as a woman and one of them is that: women are actually a person of themselve that is fully capable of overcoming herself and the society even with different kinds of stigmas and stereotypes. "A woman: without her, man is nothing," as they say and Montano paved the way in making this phrase be true in her book without the presence of confusion and distress but rather enlightenment and empowerment alone. Heads up, ladies! Time to learn

[Lancy Lass · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Consider this book as a tool to assist you in changing your mindset! This book will guide you through the process of taking action. It shows you how to understand and adapt your core values as a woman while dating and living a happy life. The tips will help you with dating, marriages, self-help, and general self-improvement.

[Dianne Sofia de Juan · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I never knew that I needed to have a guidebook about flirting until I read this! Honestly, this is one of the exciting books I have read so far. I am what you so-called NBSB or no boyfriend since birth so this book is like a breakthrough to my perspective in romantic relationships. Not only have I learned about tips and tricks on how to flirt but it also emphasizes its usefulness when women are stuck in a certain situation. I am and always have been awkward with boys but now that I have read this book which is both entertaining and informative, I hope that I could finally find myself in a romantic relationship someday.

[Ryan Intes Patigdas · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book is interesting, I like to experience it myself how woman flirt not on other woman but to my partner because in our relationship I am the one who make the moves. In order for me to experience that I will suggest this book to her. Hopefully she will apply ?. But anyway this book overall is useful for someone who want to find a partner in life. Great book author!.

[Daisy Regala-Ando · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I loved the point of this book. We all know that commonly we read or encounter that is related to this book are about men on how to flirt, seduce or attract woman. But, this book represent gender equality that todays generation its not all about men but we woman can do it also. This era is not prince and princesses anymore it's an era of being realistic and practical. And this book helps you how. While reading this book I have a lot of things I learn. Really great book. Thanks for this author.

[Rosendo Villarmea · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

First time to read a book about how woman flirts and it remind me of the days when I was still courting my wife, and I could not understand her sometimes when she suddenly shifts her moods, but now I know! Hahaha! I love her unique way of flirting. I highly recommend this book, very informative.

[Ross Mari Galleto · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Funny how I found myself reading this book because I'm already married and can proudly say I have won a flirting game already HAHA. Kidding aside though, this book will guide you with things you're supposed to master even if you're already committed because who knows, you might lose your special someone due to lacking the special skills on flirting. This is very helpful also to every single individuals who wants to lure someone to have a deeper relationship with. Very interesting and entertaining content.

[Herlyn Martin · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

Flirting in a non-flirtatious way. The book tells it all the terms and the what's and do's and don'ts. The book is so readable and easy to understand. Book is written in conversational, logical and in a relatively good. It explained much about being a women or we could use ours for gettin' back the love that we deserve. It is also reasonable, there is always a choice in this book. This will not command you to do it says but it will just encourage you to follow what's right. Good book!

[Eduard Salvador · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

From a guy's perspective it is nice to know how women approach flirting. This book had massive information for that. It focused how women can efficiently flirt even when not talking that much. I also loved how Cleopatra was incorporated with the topic. I'd definitely recommend this to my female friends who are not that confident flirting with guys. Highly informative and helpful!

[Shiela Latag · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

I think everyone would find this useful but particularly for people who maybe feel shy or awkward around girls. It was not scammy stuff, nothing about manipulating girls or horrible stuff like this, just genuine advice on how to chat / flirt with women!

[Lexi Shane · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Interesting and insightful. This book is written with an appropriate and suitable reader in mind. It doesn't limit its information in the field of courtship, but it also tackles woman empowerment. It also explains the different love languages and how to find yours too. Flirting can be quite intimidating sometimes, but with the help of this book, you can build your confidence and rapport.

What I admire about this book is how it helps women achieve a long term healthy relationship. If you are single or in a relationship, this book is highly recommended for you; not only will it help you find the right man but also encourage you to keep the fire burning in your relationship.

[Revi James · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I'm a man, but I definitely found this book interesting. I believe self-confidence is the key. Would definitely let my wife read this. Great book.

[Romelyn Castro · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book is such an interesting one and at the same time helpful to us, women who are not used to flirting. It fascinates me how the informations given are relatable especially the myths we believe into was given clarification. Thus, it guides us how to understand men that'll surely help us to adjust to certain circumstance. I'll keep in mind what knowledge I've acquired here in the book for my future flirting endeavor.

[Ella Perdigones Carilla · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Tired being single but doesn't know how to flirt? Girl, this book is the key! You want to get the attention of your crush or simply make yourself attractive in front of men? Worry no more! This book got everything you need to know about flirting. Who says flirting is easy? No. This book will make you understand why it is complex and how flirting is done the right way. It covers many topics that will make you learn about effective flirting with men. It doesn't only focus by the flirting itself thus, it also includes understanding the opposite sex, developing physical and personality assets, techniques and hacks at the same time. This book really will bring out the confidence of a woman with you. So, I do recommend this book to every single women out there. You go girl!

[Chasty Faith Delos Reyes · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Without further ado, I love the fact that this book is not just about teaching women on how to be efficient in the means of flirting. I love the fact that this book did not underestimate women and their capabilities and abilities in terms of flirting and expressing their flirty and passionate side. I love the fact that the author empowered women by acknowledging things they are capable of doing, in this book. I love the fact that Dara Montano, the author of this book, addressed how essential a woman's self-confidence and self-belief is, when they deal with men. Contrary to popular belief, women are actually better in the fields of flirting, and the author provided a solidified reason, and a bunch of studies why. Another thing is that I liked that this book isn't just made exclusively for women, but also for men to read too, so that they'd know how eligible women are if they take one step ahead of gathering their full prowess to get the man of their dreams. In this book, Montano cultivated a powerful within a woman who once doubted her capability. This is a head turner for women, and this book acts not just as a list of instructions but also a guide in making themselves feel better with the way they are. This book is suitable for girls and women whom are afraid of rejections and being dumped. Works in the way we did not expect, but in the way we always wanted.

[Lyra Jhoana Marapao · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I really found this book very interesting. I never thought I would be reading this one though I enjoyed the entire book. Who would have thought that this kind of book is existing ? Hehe.
This is my first time to encounter a book like this and I wont deny that it satisfied me. I've learned techniques in proper ways of seducting men. I'm happy to know the 21 steps of flirting hehe. This is really amazing and I salute Dara Montano for making this!

[Maii Ca · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Thinking how everybody knows how common flirting is but how to do it right needs a mindset that can take it to its next level of understanding. This book tells you not only about flirting but also how it benefits its reader through its content.

Some of its contents tackles about benefits on how you do it correctly , how women needs to understand men also, factors, its ancient history of cleopatra, how physical appearance is also a plus. A great book that tackles not only what its title recommends but a lot more to it.

[Camille Manalese Gonzal · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

Social Interaction as flirting is said to be an essential aspect as to ones likeness. Its research has been conducted by psychologist and sociologist.

This books talks about a lot of ideas like misguided notions that men have about women, Internet dating tips, its pros and cons. About women and men how to learn from one another as it also helps understand factors and aspects of this book as to assure its reader on how to flirt successfully. This book is really admiring to read.

[Ate and Bunso Vlogs · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

If you are a women and lack pf self confidence, feeling down because you are belong to NBSB group pf women, then this book is highly recommended for you. Because this book will help you to boost your confidence and teach on how to be charismatic so that you may attract men and have a healthy relationship with them.

[Ian E. Daguplo · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I had two words to describe on this book. That will be “timely” and “useful”.

Timely because nowadays, people tend to forget how to taste the sweet of flirting. Women are self-centered and focus on their career. It is useful because literally it makes woman to be a great seductor filled with understanding and responsibility. It is not just a guide but a book filled with encouragement and empowerment.

Normally, flirting is an art of seduction. It is a way to show real desire and affection. Unluckily, not all people have this kind of skills, that’s why this book was made. This book literally help women to be in touch in seducing men. It speaks vulgarity and audacity in making decisions. The content spread awareness on women to take action on their hands before it’s too late.

It was an amazing craft. I enjoy reading this book. This book is highly recommended to those women struggling in seduction. There’s no doubt that after reading this, it will be successful in the making.

[Nelna Mae Nalangan · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I find this book interesting! Well, the title alone speaks volume. This book is a mixture of ideal and practical flirting advices. As a shy type lady, I learned a lot from the advices. I won't be surprised if I would apply these advices one of these days. I will surely recommend this book to my lady friends as well.

[Linda Zapata · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

"Everyone flirts, but some people are better at it than others."

This statement right here hits it differently. Indeed some people are better at flirting than others. What I like about this is book is that it may be funny at times but it describes each information precisely. The writer also included some historical representation in the form of Cleopatra and that makes this book much more interesting. For women who are not that good at showing their affection in dating then this book is for you. It helps you build confidence and know the different do's and don'ts of flirting.

[May Ann Igot · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

I find it interesting. Especially the part where the book talks about Cleopatra, and she seduce men of her era.

[HANNAH · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Practical, Brilliant and Psychological.

The world in it's modern advancement now produces empowered women, whom shall also be one step ahead when it comes to mastering the art of flirting. In this book, Montano found the most subtle way on modernizing the tips and tricks on how to flirt the right way. The book intricately discusses how the people of gender differs when it is their psychological thinking regarding flirting that works. The book also contains justifications on how factual some of the overrated flirting advices are, as well as it debugs myths and beliefs— that most includes sexist attitudes and patriarchal paradigms—that affects on how the flirtings are done. Montano, with the help of some of her well known flirts and advisers ( as mentioned in the book ), also cleverly invested to come up with some eccentric yet interesting picturesque to demonstrate how women should be flirting to hook the attention of the man they wanted— one creative depiction of this is when the author used Cleopatra as the face of effortless seduction. The book is a great manifestation not just of nice flirting alone but also a test that gives people, specially women, a chance to create and build a finer way with socializing and interaction. In a way, the author provokes the readers to be well aware of the people they are trying to be with. In addition, Montano tends to shaken the readers regarding the fact that having your ideal someone, to exhibit your love and passion with, is a process that can be learned truthfully if one takes the action to do so. I am glad to give this book a 5 star rating because of its intention to enlighten the readers that women are also capable to be good when it comes to this thing called 'flirting'.

— sincerely your grateful reader, hannah.

[Leley Guiwo-guiwo · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

I was laughing as I read this, especially what the author said about stop being Cinderella, hehehe. That's right sometimes we have to be hype especially if we want to get that person. It is very suitable for people who want to have a relationship when they are left on the air or in the train queue.