What's Next . . . For You?: The Gussin Guide to Big Changes, Big Decisions, and Big Fun
By Patricia Gussin and Robert Gussin
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Need Some Pointers in Making the Leap from the Working World to Retirement?
What's Next . . . For You? is the incredible story of Robert and Patricia Gussin, two retirees who watched with glee as long, successful careers in science and medicine gave way to writing, publishing, and winemaking. Much more than a memoir and anything but a how-to-start-a-business manual, What's Next . . . For You? is a clear, easy-to-understand guide to reinventing yourself from real experts—two people who did it themselves and lived to tell the glorious tale.
Through the engaging, first-person, he said/she said narrative, Robert and Patricia Gussin deliver an inspirational guide filled with advice on why it's never too late to reinvent yourself, and why doing what you love (and loving what you do) is always within reach.
A must-read tale of joyfully switching gears, changing careers, and overcoming paralysis by analysis, What's Next . . . For You? takes the mystery out of that all-too-common question of how to get from where you are to where you want to be.
The Must Read for Those Who Haven't Retired and Those Who Have
Patricia Gussin
Best-selling author Patricia Gussin is a physician who grew up in Grand Rapids, Michigan, practiced in Philadelphia, and now lives on Longboat Key, Florida. She is also the author of Shadow of Death, Thriller Award nominee for “Best First Novel”, Twisted Justice, The Test, and And Then There Was One. She and her husband, Robert Gussin, are the authors of What’s Next…For You?
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What's Next . . . For You? - Patricia Gussin
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INTRODUCTION
Our transition from retirement to a new life — a more exciting new life than any we could possibly have imagined — didn’t happen overnight, but came about piecemeal. And the venture into this life change has taken us in a direction far different and far beyond any we’d have dared to dream. If our story opens up new avenues of exploration for our readers, then that’s our greatest hope.
All of us have to face change as we move along life’s path, and it’s how we embrace it or fear it that determines our future. No one lifestyle fits all, of course, and some of us leap at opportunities quicker and with less analyses than others. As we navigate new courses, the notion of thoughtful impulsiveness, which became revelatory for us, may also help you.
Friends and strangers have told us that the story we tell in " What’s Next…For You?" has helped diminish the fear of jumping into something completely new. We’re delighted that the book piques your curiosity. Of course, we aim to entertain — but perhaps also to inspire you to unretire to your own big decisions, big excitement, and big fun.
CHAPTER ONE
I hit the off button on the clock radio and struggled out of bed at five thirty a.m. I glanced across at Pat, asleep like a baby with the covers pulled almost all the way over her head. I wished I could sleep like that. I shook my head and trudged off toward the bathroom, dreading my ninety-minute drive from our Yardley, Pennsylvania, condo, to my New Brunswick, New Jersey, office on this dark, chilly mid-February morning.
We’d given in and moved about a year earlier, from a spacious contemporary house on three woodsy acres in Worcester to the new Yardley place. I had to shorten my drive, Pat insisted, by at least a half hour. We actually moved farther from her office, but now she could avoid crowded back roads and take the highways, so her trip time stayed about the same…forty-five minutes.
You may be wondering how we got into this horrendous commuting situation. It started in 1985 when we decided to move from our house in Hatboro, Pennsylvania, a house which had seen better days — before our rambunctious kids grew up there. That’s when we stumbled across a beautiful contemporary house on three wooded acres in Worcester, and made a quick decision to buy it and move.
Actually, Pat stumbled across it when I was in Japan. She claimed to have read my mind from all the way across the Pacific; she was sure that I’d love the house so she signed on the dotted line. Then she held her breath until I got back. I can still hear her huge sigh of relief when I said I loved it, and I really did. With our two youngest sons, we moved out of the old neighborhood into the new.
The boys had to change school districts — a tragedy, they made clear — but the move hardly affected Pat’s or my commute to our offices in two different suburbs of Philadelphia, each site a pleasant twenty-minute drive from our new home. I worked in Spring House as vice president for research and development at McNeil Pharmaceutical, and Pat in Fort Washington, as research and development vice president at McNeil Consumer Products.
But just a few weeks later, the parameters changed drastically when Jim Burke, the CEO and chairman of Johnson & Johnson, the parent company of our two McNeils, asked me to come to corporate headquarters in New Brunswick, New Jersey. That was when he offered me the job as corporate vice president for science and technology and chief scientific officer of Johnson & Johnson worldwide.
I’d oversee all the research and development efforts of the world’s largest, most diversified healthcare company — several thousand scientists and physicians, all over the globe.
This position will open the door for you,
Jim Burke promised, to every major university and research center in the world.
The job also linked the Johnson & Johnson scientific community to the board of directors of the corporation. Overall, the opportunity for interactions is endless.
This challenge was too good to turn down. I did hesitate because I was so happy at McNeil, but Pat informed me that if I refused that job it would convince her that I was totally insane. A very persuasive argument. And so, in early 1986, I began the nightmare commute: seventy miles and one and a half hours on the boring, congested Pennsylvania and New Jersey Turnpikes. Our move to Worcester actually had added another twenty miles — landing me squarely on the boys’ side of the house controversy.
But, as usually happens, time passed — and we all adjusted. Our fourteen-year-old and twelve-year-old sons thrived in their new schools. Friends, parties, sports — football, basketball, baseball all came to pass, and in fairly short order, the boys loved our house in the woods. I adjusted to my drive, as well, thanks to audio books. When had I ever been handed three hours a day to read
for pleasure?
Early in my corporate career, I’d dutifully tried listening to educational stuff like business tapes and scientific and medical tapes, and even foreign language lessons, but often I found myself so sleepy that I had to pull off the road. So then I stocked up on mystery and thriller novels, they not only kept me awake, but occasionally I even drove past our house, I was so into the story. Pat said that she always knew when I was at an exciting part in a book because she would hear the car enter the garage, but I wouldn’t come into the house for another five or ten minutes.
We lived in that house for twelve happy years. Then, by nineteen ninety-seven, the boys had gone on to college, none of our seven kids lived at home anymore — and here came Pat’s big job change. In her new job as worldwide vice president of research and development for Johnson & Johnson Consumer Pharmaceuticals, she’d be responsible for all of J&J’s over-the-counter pharmaceutical products research, spending time in many countries around the world to develop formulations and products to satisfy each country’s needs and unique regulatory requirements. Though she’d keep her main office in Fort Washington, Pennsylvania, she’d have to spend more time at the New Brunswick corporate headquarters, in central New Jersey.
Since we were both now heading east and north, we figured that Yardley seemed like a good, convenient location. And did I mention that it was a townhouse? Not only an easier drive, but no more yard work. Oh, and by then two of our older sons had recycled to live at home. Too bad, boys, we’re downsizing. Not enough room, time for you to move into your own places.
CHAPTER TWO
Tough daily commutes aside, we loved our jobs. Pat and I both had plenty of responsibility and plenty of freedom to lead our organizations. No complaints, except that both of us were travelling — sometimes together, but mostly separately. Sometimes we saw each other only as much as the