Persuade them: Public Speaking to Convince
By John Zehring
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“Persuade them” is a guide to public speaking to persuade. Included are tips on how to persuade others and how to craft and deliver a presentation to convince. Learn how to size up an audience, write for the ear, build credibility, grab listeners’ attention, master techniques of delivery, make a compelling case, and drive home a conclusion which influences attitudes and motivates action.
John Zehring
John Zehring has served United Church of Christ congregations as Senior Pastor in Massachusetts (Andover), Rhode Island (Kingston), and Maine (Augusta) and as an Interim Pastor in Massachusetts (Arlington, Harvard). Prior to parish ministry, he served in higher education, primarily in development and institutional advancement. He worked as a dean of students, director of career planning and placement, adjunct professor of public speaking and as a vice president at a seminary and at a college. He is the author of more than sixty books and is a regular writer for The Christian Citizen, an American Baptist social justice publication. He has taught Public Speaking, Creative Writing, Educational Psychology and Church Administration. John was the founding editor of the publication Seminary Development News, a publication for seminary presidents, vice presidents and trustees (published by the Association of Theological Schools, funded by a grant from Lilly Endowment). He graduated from Eastern University and holds graduate degrees from Princeton Theological Seminary, Rider University, and the Earlham School of Religion. He is listed in Marquis' WHO'S WHO IN AMERICA and is a recipient of their Albert Nelson Marquis Lifetime Achievement Award. John and his wife Donna live in two places, in central Massachusetts and by the sea in Maine.
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Public Speaking to Convince
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Introduction
Not brute force but only persuasion and faith are the kings of this world.
Thomas Carlyle
When I taught public speaking at a university, there were different types of speeches which students were assigned to deliver in class. There were informational speeches, special occasion speeches like introductions or presentations, and persuasive speeches. Students would be bumped up one grade if they could deliver a compelling persuasive speech about a topic which was opposite of their personal values or beliefs, without anyone detecting the ruse. The point was to learn the dynamics, techniques and style of speaking to persuade.
Your words and your delivery have incredible power to change someone, for good or for bad, to be used or misused. Persuasion is subtle, sometimes subconscious, and emotional. You could be persuaded to do something or think something that is not in your best interest by a master at persuasion. Persuasion is used to sell, to convince, to motivate and to change ideas, values or attitudes. You possess power. Your speaking to persuade has the power to inspire, challenge, change ideas or cause another to believe or act for a desired purpose.
Persuasive speeches can appeal to the mind or to the heart. When you use logic to attempt to persuade another, you present a set of information to show why listeners should accept the rational conclusion. When you appeal to the heart to persuade another, you attempt to make listeners feel a certain way so they will accept a conclusion. Senator Everett Dirksen said The mind is no match with the heart in persuasion; constitutionality is no match with compassion.
Effective persuasive speakers appeal to both mind and heart.
You use persuasion at home and at work, in your social circles, and with organizations to which you belong. Persuasive skills can be a centerpiece of your career, making or breaking your advancement or success. Your ability to persuade another may be one of the most important skills you will ever use.
At its worst, persuasion is capable of shading the truth just a bit, doctoring quotes to fit the position, choosing selective statistics, passing off opinion as fact, pandering to prejudice or stereotypes, or playing on emotions. We have been on the receiving end of the misuse of persuasion, so we have a heightened interest in using persuasion with integrity and honor. Martin Luther King, Jr. said It is not possible to bring about a truly beneficial result by using unethical methods.
The ideal of effective persuasion is a good person speaking well. That is the intent of this book, to guide and encourage you to grow in skill as one who will employ your power for good.
There is a difference between your ability to talk to persuade and your skill in public speaking to persuade. In social settings, do we not admire people who can think quickly on their feet and make convincing arguments? That seems to be a natural gift. But speaking to persuade as a public speaker is a skill that can be learned and mastered. With proper research, preparation, editing, writing, practice and delivery, you can craft a presentation with power to change another’s attitudes, values, beliefs or actions.
There are two parts to speeches: CONTENT and DELIVERY. Some prepare well, research, wrestle with the topic, connect the message to the audience, and deliver excellent information. For their content, they get an A+. The same speaker, on the other hand, may rate a C- on delivery. Perhaps the speaker does not make eye contact. Listeners do not feel seen. He does not even peek at you when he speaks, let alone linger in a gaze that causes you to feel like you and he are engaged in a conversation. She reads most of her speech. Perhaps ninety percent of the time his eyes are affixed upon the paper on the podium. She stares out the side window as though watching the traffic. If you could see behind the podium, he is making a few hand gestures, but they are mostly to himself, not to aid in the delivery. His and her messages are still valuable. Better to have great content with inadequate delivery than the other way around.