Get What You Want Now! Money, Love, Power & More: The Essential Handbook for Building a Dream Life

By jessica haynes

Reading this book will help you acquire money, find love, maximize your talents and enjoy life more. What sets this book apart from others is the astonishingly speedy results people gain from proven methods that are easy to incorporate into daily life. Every chapter is life-changing, beginning with the author's Near Death Experience, which in itself is a riveting read.

Jessica had a miracle healing that was unexplainable by the doctors. A page-turner with priceless ideas and valuable exercises, this book is chock full of  "Aha moments", that will help you, your friends, and family. Not only is it a fun and inspiring read, but it serves as a handbook that clearly defines strategies to help us find answers to our challenges. Each chapter gives a step for getting what we want. The five-steps open doors for us faster than we can imagine.

It touches our hearts to read about real life examples of people who gained a wider understanding of their purpose and found what they really wanted and are living their dreams.  Each is a success story you can learn from. Simply put, your life can be positively changed by reading this book. You won't be disappointed. Getting what you want will seem not only possible – but inevitable.

• Language: English
• Publisher: jessica haynes
• Release date: Sep 27, 2019
• ISBN: 9781386049692

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Dedication

Acknowledgments

Introduction

About the Author

Foreword

Chapter One: Believe in Yourself

You Create Your Future

The Outcomes You Are Creating

Discover the Power of Constructive self-talk

It’s Okay to Trust Yourself

Why Positive Self-talk Works

Deserving

The Deserving Test

Learning to Say Yes and No

Making Your Dreams Come True

Identity and Deserving—How They Connect

Review

Affirmations

Recover from Your Setbacks

Putting the Steps Together

Chapter Two: Getting to the Top of the Manifesting Mountain

Why Assets Are Important

How Asset Thinking Works

Assets Versus Liabilities

Create a Lifetime Balance Sheet: Beggar Versus Chooser Mentality

What Time Is It? How Do You Perceive Time?

Changing Your Perception Changes the Future

Be a Chooser

Constructive Feedback Gives Clarity

Building a We Force

How to Connect Effectively with Others

Network Your Way to Success

Start the Process

Take Charge of Your Life

Your We Force Watches Out for You

Be Accountable and Consistent

Become Your Own Genie

Think Act Become Have

Putting the Steps Together

Chapter Three: Abundance, Abundance, Abundance

Tangible Things Begin with Clear Intentions

Turn your Thoughts Into Tangible Things

Why shouldn’t I—?

Make a Mental Blueprint

The Power of Your Mind

Write an Intention List

Leverage Your What-Best-Serves-Me List

You Have One-of-a-Kind Gifts to Give to the World

You Have the Right to Thrive, Not Just Survive

Putting the Steps Together

Chapter Four: Know Who You Are and Tap into Your Genius

Who is the Real You?

Negotiate from Abundance by Owning Your Power

Go Greens, Go

Fun and funny Yellows

True Blues

Stable, Reliable, Well-Planned Tans

Conscious, Harmonious, Visionary Violets

Are you Creating the Life You Want?

Have a Plan to Get What You Most Want

Declare Your Musts

See Your Wish Lists Produce Results

When You are Being the Real You, Life Works!

What Have You Learned About Yourself?

Putting the Steps Together

Chapter Five: A Life Well Lived

Be Yourself

Your Dreams are Within Your Reach

Self-honesty

Where Your Attention Goes, Your Future Will flow

Who are You Inviting into Your life?

How to Stop Procrastinating and Start Living

Make Your Life Feel Good

Create Time for Yourself

Are You Making Progress?

Create a Life Recipe for Success

An Everything List

When the Unexpected Strikes

Attitude Says It All

Finding Solutions

Summary for a Life Well Lived

DEDICATION

This book is dedicated to all those who are searching for a better life. The insights and ideas presented in this book are not just about how to become wealthier, happier, and more empowered, but also how to enjoy the process of achieving more, having more, and creating a life well lived. Let this book inspire you to a higher level of confidence, purpose, self-empowerment, and clarity. No matter where you are in your life, you can create a new destiny for yourself. In this book you’ll find numerous profound and practical lessons for learning how to manifest your dreams and desires.

I invite you to discover the secrets to building a better life!

Get What You Want Now is one of the most powerful tools on the market. You can use the knowledge in this book to enhance your life, build better relationships and succeed in career goals. I have drawn upon this book to serve as a guideline to help my business and my clients. Each chapter opens doors to prosperity, self-discovery, and empowerment.

Jane Sotanski

Real Estate Consultant - Douglas Elliman

Carmel , CA/ Los Angeles , CA/ New York, NY

This is a wonderful book. I only wish that I had a chance to master these five steps 50 years ago!! The whole book is clearly inspired and helps us in an easy to follow way.

Chuck Hetland

Wells Fargo - Vice President – Investment Officer

Carmel, CA

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

As with any project of significant value, there are people throughout the process who bring forward special contributions. I want to thank Barry Connelly, my wonderful life partner, who has manifested dreams with me for three decades. I want to thank my mother, Hope Sinclair, who inspired me and encouraged me to write this book. She edited each revision and gave suggestions to make every page count.

A special note of appreciation to: Matt Connelly, Jason Matthews, Cheryl Savage, Linda Haynes, and Paul David Tuff. Thank you for your feedback, suggestions, and commitment to this project.

My work has given me the opportunity to connect with world leaders, speak with noted personalities, and enjoy a clientele of talented and creative individuals. I thank all of you for your part in making this book become a reality.

INTRODUCTION

This book outlines a five-step manifesting system. The steps are presented in five chapters. The chapters are built one on the next. As you assimilate the information, you will see it is possible to realize your dreams.

This book contains real success stories. Each chapter has exercises that explain the basic fundamentals for successful manifesting. These strategies are designed to help you build a better life. It’s your turn to enjoy more, have added prosperity, and peace of mind.

As we get started, let me ask you: Are you looking for a deeper purpose? Are you thinking about starting a new career? Are you picking up the pieces from a past relationship or trying to overcome a past disappointment? Get What You Want Now, Money, Love, Power, and More was written to give you hope and inspiration so that whatever challenges you’re facing you can discover not only your inner strengths but find the answers you seek.

It’s time to get past wanting and move toward having. I’ve noticed that some individuals, because of the way they were raised or influenced by others, feel uncomfortable when it comes to having more, deserving more, and getting more.

Let me offer this to you: Is wanting to expand your competencies and knowledge something you have postponed? Is searching for a fulfilling and loving relationship an aspect of your life you have delayed? Is letting your life’s dreams pass you by something you’ve personally sacrificed? Give yourself the opportunity to have the life you really want. I believe you deserve to maximize your inner faith, inner strengths, talents, and reach true potential.

To get familiar with how effective manifesting really works, I have summarized the chapters in five key words: Believe, Choose, Intend, Connect, Have.

Chapter One: Believe

It all begins with believing in yourself and knowing that it is possible to manifest what you want. Believing in yourself allows you to break through doubts, fears, past disappointments, and external criticism. Believing in yourself helps you to rise above adversity so that your dreams have a chance.

The strategies, techniques, and perspectives presented in this chapter will help you make wiser choices, see your strengths, move in those directions that most benefit you, and regain a sense of control of your life.

The exercises will help you to more clearly decide what you want, assess where you are right now, and offer ways to help you take action to reach your goals.

Chapter Two: Choose

When you choose wisely you will move toward having more fulfilling relationships, added financial security, increased personal happiness, and improved health.

Chapter two is designed to help stop counterproductive patterns. You will begin to: notice what is and isn’t working for you, know how to use your time more wisely, reach out to a support system that covers your weaknesses and enhances your strengths, have the courage to be innovative and creative, and focus on how to add more meaning and purpose to your life.

Chapter Three: Intend

Your thoughts affect your future. How can you put your best ideas into action and get positive results? In Chapter Three, you’ll learn how to turn your thoughts into tangible things and move closer to building the dream life you desire.

This chapter is filled with affirmations, self-actualization prayers, and positive self-talk. Doing these exercises consistently will help you tune into your inner power so that you can turn the unlikely into the probable, and the probable into the inevitable.

Chapter Four: Connect

In Chapter Four you will learn how to take action and connect with those individuals you want or need to meet in synchronicity and seemingly perfect timing. You will learn how to attract and connect with supportive people, positive situations, and solid opportunities that match your goals.

Using the knowledge gained from the previous chapters, you will find it easier to focus on a goal and believe your way to success. In this chapter you will learn more about inner faith, inner strength, inner power, and inner belief. Using these qualities opportunities will find you, as much as you find them.

Chapter Five: Have

Within yourself you have everything you need to blossom into a fantastic, fulfilled human being. While we will all face difficulties, set-backs, and unexpected disappointments, it is still possible to create a truly satisfying life. It is possible to be resilient despite adversity. You can choose to be positive and upbeat in spite of the hard-knocks in life that come your way.

Have you ever asked yourself, Why is it that some individuals know how to bounce back from hardships and continually come out on top, while others cave in? Chapter Five gives you the answer.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

A self-help inspirational book is often based on personal events that have occurred in one’s life. And yes, as your author, Jessica Haynes, the knowledge I share in this book is inspired by an extraordinary event that happened to me in 1983, and the many remarkable events that followed.

At the age of twenty-seven, I had a near death experience. You might say that this awakening from death and coming back, allowed me to realize there is so much power within us that is often untapped.

In April of 1983, I was a passenger in a car that crashed while accelerating. I sustained massive injuries. The driver walked away from the accident, but the impact on my side of the car crushed my face beyond recognition. The bones in my face were shattered and my vertebrae suffered multiple fractures. Rushed to the hospital in my hometown, Carmel, California, my five top surgeons told my family that l would likely have sustained lack of mobility and a prognosis of physical disfigurement and nerve damage. My life literally turned topsy-turvy. I went from being a national marketing executive working with top experts (offset with running and exercising) to lying in a hospital bed and looking at a future that was bleak. And the physical pain was excruciating.

After the surgery to reattach my jaw, rebuild my face, and close the multiple gashes from broken windshield glass, I prayed for answers. Why had this happened? Could it have been prevented?

When my boyfriend (who was also my boss) saw me so disfigured with little chance of recovery, he fired me—from his life and from my job—thereby ending our relationship. I had an overwhelming sense of hopelessness.

Lying in my hospital bed, I felt a loving presence convey to me, If you want to let go, it will be okay. This spiritual presence conveyed to me that it could take me from my pain with no fear, when I was ready to let go.

I said, Yes, and felt the last breaths of my life leave me.

I remember feeling a floating sensation; it was as if I were being gently lifted out of my body to a place of eternal time, indescribable love, and a forever-ness of spiritual energy. I was now experiencing my ethereal body. I felt as though I were a point of light, yet I was one with all. Earth was no longer a part of my new reality.

On the other side, I began receiving insights that seemed endless and answered everything I thought or questioned instantaneously.

In my ethereal body, I was able to reevaluate the choices I had made from a standpoint of looking back at my life as if it were a film.

In my life review I was shown possible futures that I could have created and lived, but didn’t. It was a revelation for me to see all the possible directions my life could have taken had I made different choices. I recognized I had some regrets. In recounting the choices I had made when I was alive, I could have enjoyed life more, I could have believed in myself more, and I could have more fully recognized my life’s purpose. It was all so clear and obvious—why hadn’t I understood this before?

I was given the opportunity to see three life reviews. First: the life I had lived. Second: Had I made better choices in my relationships and inner beliefs I saw I could have created a more fulfilling life, but the car accident still would have occurred. Third: The car accident would not have happened if I had known the knowledge in this book.

I wanted a second chance. I wanted to go back and redo some of my life choices. But, I was dead. I didn’t have a way to get back.

As I continued to review my life, I thought repeatedly, There must be a way to have a second chance.

A never-ending brilliance appeared around me. The message was, Now you understand the value of life and the importance of creating a life well lived. Use this knowledge wisely.

I felt myself being pulled back into my body. The excruciating pain returned. I was alive!

When I reconnected with my body, the pain was intense, beyond words. But I believe it was my spiritual will and connection with a higher source that made this possible. I had a new focus: To live my purpose. To help others also do so. To not take life for granted. I was determined after this experience to focus on faith, inner will, knowing a higher power was with me, and believing in myself. I visualized being fully healed and living the life I saw that was so wonderful on the other side.

My recovery began immediately. The nurses were inspired with my optimism and my healing mind-set. Despite the doctors’ prognosis, I was getting better every day. The nurses asked me to visit other patients in critical care. I did, and these individuals improved and experienced their own healing.

Daily, I prayed for specific areas of my body to be healed. I could notice and feel the healing that was occurring.

Within six months I was not only noticeably better but running up steep hills. The doctors had no explanation. X-rays of my back now showed no sign of injury. Scars disappeared and my badly injured right eye was looking more and more normal. My double vision was gone. I could see perfectly. The doctors had no explanation.

My healing was not only physical, but spiritual. This was a new awakening for me. I had experienced first-hand, the power of intention, faith, and inner will. I had developed a manifesting mind-set that made my healing possible and I was inspired to share this knowledge with others. I had a message to share: it is possible to create a better life for yourself!

As I began opening up about my near death experience, I found that many people were receptive. These individuals asked me about how to achieve their goals, dreams, hopes and I was able to offer highly valuable answers. Within a few years, I had a clientele numbering in the thousands. I was invited to speak on radio, television, and give inspirational lectures to audiences.

You don’t have to die to have an epiphany.

The after effects of coming back from death opened further doors for me. My job changed, my relationship changed, and many of my friends changed, because I had changed. I was making new choices that served me better. For more than two decades I have helped many thousands around the globe reshape their lives and dreams. Whether talking about career goals, relationships, or finding your purpose I know you can, Get What You Want Now! Money, Love, Power, and More.

While this book may seem simple in the first chapter, it lays the groundwork for each following chapter that will give you a blueprint for a life well lived. Simply put, your life can positively be changed by reading this book.

FOREWORD

The purpose of this book is to show you that it is possible to get what you want in life. Get What You Want Now! Money, Love, Power, and More is an easy-to-read, common-sense approach to having a life well lived. It encourages you to: Do what you love. Ask for what you want. Have the courage to take risks. Make time for what matters most. Find love. Dare to dream big. Let the child within you have fun and maximize your potential.

Get What You Want Now! Money, Love, Power, and More is designed to help you achieve your hopes, dreams, and desires. The order of each chapter is important. While you can flip through the pages notice that if you read the chapters in sequence, you will gain a wider understanding of your purpose.

This book helps you put a powerful force into motion—one in which you gain the ability to influence and create outcomes that you desire.

These methods work for people in all walks of life.

These approaches help individuals to fast-forward and create outcomes that are positive.

These techniques stretch one’s perception.

These messages endure the test of time.

I have synthesized how to manifest what you want in five highly effective steps. The presentation of ideas is based on real life success stories. One step overlaps the next, so that by the last chapter your perception of reality is vastly expanded. My clients have been telling me for years, Jessica, put your techniques down on paper. You’ve helped so many people reach their dreams. Write your system down in a book. So I did.

An Inspiring Story that opens Chapter One

A few years back