Oralicious: The Truth About Oral Sex, Intimacy and Passion

By Tatiana

Our bodies are designed to enjoy many great pleasures, and one way is by way of sexual stimulation. Oral sex is not a bad or disgusting thing that we are made to believe. Far from the case...having an orgasm releases stress and toxins from the body naturally.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Balboa Press
• Release date: Nov 21, 2016
• ISBN: 9781504368254

Tatiana

Many years ago Tatiana woke from a night of sleep with the idea that earth and heart have the same letters. Just move the H from the back of earth, put it in the front, and what do we have? Heart. So the book began. This book is to remind us that at the very core of everything is our heart. It is a book written to the innocence in all of us to keep believing in love, to make mistakes, and never ever to forget, above all, who we truly are. And remember: Planet Earths true name will always be Planet Heart. Tatiana From: Michigan, the Great Lakes State About the Illustrator Linda CE has a background in the fine arts. She has continued to make art her entire adult life, while making a living in the business world. To quote Kurt Vonnegut: To practice any art, no matter how well or badly, is a way to make your soul grow. So do it!

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ISBN: 978-1-5043-6824-7 (sc)

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ISBN: 978-1-5043-6825-4 (e)

Library of Congress Control Number: 2016917194

Balboa Press rev. date: 11/19/2016

CONTENTS

Introduction: Oral sex is still taboo … in the 21st century!

Chapter 1: Kissing

Chapter 2: Foreplay

Chapter 3: Erogenous Zones

Chapter 4: Passion

Chapter 5: Sensuality

Chapter 6: The Approach

Chapter 7: Orgasm For Sure (OFS)

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS (In order of appearance)

Introduction

FACTS:

Jio, Sarah. 10 Surprising Facts About Orgasms. Woman’s Day. Retrieved from http://www.womansday.com/sex-relationships/sex-tips/10-surprising-facts-about-orgasms-111985 January 2012.

Kerner, Ian. Why is the female orgasm so elusive? The Chart via CNN Health. Retrieved from http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2012/01/05/why-is-the-female-orgasm-so-elusive/ 5 January 2012.

IMAGES:

Lips retrieved from posting here: http://www.piculous.com/10-beautiful-lips-pictures/ (n.d.)

QUOTES:

Bush, Barbara and Bill Adler. The First Mom: Wit and Wisdom of Barbara Bush. New York: Rugged Land, 2004. 114-115.

Lord Byron. Canto II. Don Juan. Boston: Crosby, Nichols, Lee, 1861. 616.

Chapter 1: Kissing

QUOTES:

O’Neal, Ryan. Short Takes: O’Neal, Farrah fell in Major Way. Los Angeles Times. 07 Jan 1991. Web. 26 Aug 2013. http://articles.latimes.com/1991-01-07/entertainment/ca-6109_1_lee-majors

Chapter 2: Foreplay

FACTS:

Wikipedia. Clitoris entry. Retrieved from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris#Clitoral_and_vaginal_orgasmic_factors_and_relationships (n.d.)

Kerner, Ian. Faking Orgasms: The Signs. AskMen.com. Retrieved from http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_500/584_faking-orgasms-the-signs.html (n.d.)

IMAGES:

Oral Sex retrieved from posting here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex 23 November 2006.

QUOTES:

Coetzee, J.M. Summertime: Fiction. New York: Penguin Books, 2010. 70.

Downs MPH, Martin. 4 Things You Didn’t Know About Oral Sex: The Truth About Oral Sex, From Cancer Risk to What Teens Say About It. 5 Sept 2011. Web. 21 Aug 2013. http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/4-things-you-didnt-know-about-oral-sex

Wilde, Oscar. Retrieved from posting here: http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/6218-everything-in-the-world-is-about-sex-except-sex-sex (n.d.)

Chapter 3: Erogenous Zones

FACTS:

Aunt Becky. The 8 Best Female Erogenous Zones. The Stir via Cafemom.com. Retrieved

from http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/132670/the_8_best_female_erog

enous 8 February 2012.

Freeman, Shanna. What happens in the brain during an orgasm? Science via The Huffington Post. Retrieved from http://science.howstuffworks.com/life/human-biology/brain-during-orgasm1.htm 7 October 2008.

IMAGES:

10 Erogenous Zones: His and Hers originally posted by Melizmatic here: http://www.sodahead.com/fun/i-need-a-females-opinion-here-wat-would-be-the-biggest-turn-on-a-guy-could-do-for-you/question-1033221/ 27 May 2013.

Couple in the Valley retrieved from posting here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Martin_van_Maele_-_Francion_15.jpg (n.d.)

His Erogenous Bodycast originally posted by Brighton Bodycasting here: http://brightonbodycasting.com/body-casting-full-bodies/fullnew2.php (n.d.)

Erogenous Zones cartoon retrieved from posting by Kathleen Grieve here: http://kathleengrieve.blogspot.com/2008/02/februarys-anatomy-quiz-female-erogenous.html 7 February 2008.

Hot Meal retrieved from posting here: http://icanflywithyou.tumblr.com/post/6226052784 5 June 2011.

QUOTES:

Meryman, Richard. Last Talk with a Lonely Girl: Marilyn Monroe. Life Magazine. 17 August 1962. Web. 31 August 2013. http://www.theguardian.com/theguardian/2007/sep/14/greatinterviews

Freeman, Shanna. What happens in the brain during an orgasm? 07 October 2008. HowStuffWorks.com. Web. 31 August 2013. http://science.howstuffworks.com/life/human-biology/brain-during-orgasm.htm

Chapter 4: Passion

FACTS:

Milk, Jenny. The female orgasm: What does it best? Milkin’ It via ChicagoNow.com. Retrieved from http://www.chicagonow.com/milkin-it/2011/02/the-female-orgasm-what-does-it-best/ 18 February 2011.

Mustanski, Brian Dr. How often do men and women think about sex? The Sexual Continuum via Psychology Today. Retrieved from http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-sexual-continuum/201112/how-often-do-men-and-women-think-about-sex 6 December 2011.

QUOTES:

Coelho, Paulo. Eleven Minutes: A Novel. New York: Harper Collins, 2004. 164.

John Dennis quoted by Abrams, M. H. The Mirror and The Lamp. London: Oxford Press, 1953. 75.

Sparks, Nicholas. Dear John. New York: Warner Books, 2006. 57.

Chapter 5: Sensuality

IMAGES:

Lime Knit Dress Lips retrieved from original posting here: http://all-free-download.com/free-photos/female_sexy_lip_picture_3_167904.html (n.d.)

QUOTES:

Summary. Psychology Today Sensuality Test. Retrieved from results posted by Erin A. Alexander http://lifeisshortnoregrets.blogspot.com/2011/08/sensuality-test.html (n.d.)

Kleypas, Lisa. A Wallflower Christmas. New York, Macmillan. 2010. 154.

Whitman, Walt. As Adam Early in the Morning. Leaves of Grass. 4 July 1855. http://www.gutenberg.org/files/1322/1322-h/1322-h.htm#link2H_4_0043

Chapter 6: The Approach

IMAGES:

Oral Sex retrieved from posting here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oral_sex 23 November 2006.

QUOTES:

Hogue, Roberto. Real Secrets of Sex: A Women’s Guide on How to be Good in Bed. Lost in Temptation, 3 July 2013. Introduction.

Chapter 7: OFS (Orgasm for Sure)

QUOTES:

Hesse, Herman. Siddartha: An Indian Tale. New York: Bantam Classics, 1981. 66.

Quillen, Robert. Editorial Epigrams. The Evening Repository. Canton: Repository Print. Co., 27 March 1924. 4.

To all the Lovers who truly enjoy giving love passionately, receiving sexual gratification and exploring the joys, the pleasures and rewards of oral sex.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

First and foremost, I must thank my Higher Power for planting the seed, watering it and nurturing Oralicious to its growth potential. To my mom and dad who God ordained to create me; a positive and optimistic, feisty, yet lover of life (aka Ms. Sunshine), thank you. To Poning and Mercedes, my two precious angels whom I love dearly and why I am here on this great earth. My Lady M, Melissa Swenka, the Master editor who I knew from the onset would be a true gift to me and this project. You are brilliant with mastering the English language and really are exceptionally talented, Melissa. Thank you for bringing my dream to life so effortlessly. You are simply AMAZING, and I’m glad that our paths crossed! She is available for hire! To LaChelle Unyque Lewis, a very talented and gifted illustrator. Love the cover, illustrations and the Oralicious Brand Logo. Thanks a million. TS, love, love, love you forever. To the entire Balboa Press Team; especially Ryan Orbell, May Emerson, and Jessica Richardson who’s stellar and exceptional customer service care went beyond the call of duty; as they never missed a beat to bring Oralicious to fruition. A Million thanks for taking this journey with me. BobKat, thanks for creating that invisible deadline that inspired me to get it done! Lady Victoria, the sex and porn world have nothing on you…The Demi Task Spoon? Grapes in the Pink? Silky Thigh High Penis? You are simply the best; thank you, Girlie. To Guru.com, you rock!!! To Anthony Robbins, whose Ultimate Edge Program truly inspired me to stay focused, create and execute. You introduced me to Frank Kern who also inspired me to do a How-To book, thank you. You both rock!!! And last but definitely not least to my family, friends, Twitter followers, and ALL my 25K Blog Visitors: thank you for the love and support. Let’s have fun and enjoy this amazing journey that we are about to take.

Oralicious

By Tatiana

"Clinton lied. A man might forget where he parks or where he lives,

but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is."

~ Barbara Bush

Oral sex is still taboo … in the 21st century!

You might not think so, but before I started writing the first release of this book, which started out as Oral Satisfaction, I conducted a Google Ad Search in 2013, and the results were astonishing. There was an estimated 1.3 million people globally who searched the keywords Oral Sex every day. Today that number has increased to 115 million people, and the competition edge is still very low.

I started asking myself, Could it be? Does this mean that oral sex is still taboo, and people are ashamed to talk about it? Is oral sex in the same vein as porn, where they might enjoy watching it, but would never tell, as it is their dirty little secret?!

As I delved deeper into the topic, I started to believe that, in fact, even in this day and age the subject of oral sex is taboo. A dirty little secret, according to many, who may enjoy it, may seek it out, may want to learn more about it, but would never dare to broach the topic with their friends, family, coworkers or even BFFs, let alone their sexual partners.

And I believe this veil of secrecy, this shameful aspect of our very natural desire, is skewed more toward women than it is men. Think about it for a minute: Men love oral sex. They love having their penis sucked, stroked or made love to. And they’re not usually shy about proclaiming their love of a good blow job.

A woman, on the other hand, rarely discusses her needs, wants or desires about achieving an orgasm during sex. There are statistics that do show how many women fake it or the fact that many women simply don’t climax from intercourse. Truly not believing that women have desires that go beyond the so-called norm?

I have never believed that women are any less interested in having an orgasm than men. In fact, we all want to achieve an orgasm desperately, every time we have sex. Who wouldn’t? Sex without orgasm is like leaving the last bite of a rich dessert on the plate. Who has that kind of control; and frankly, who wants that kind of control? Sex is about vulnerability, being uninhibited, release, not control, and that’s why achieving orgasm should be considered a healthy, natural pleasure, intended for both sexes.

Yet for many women, the desire to please their partners is so strong that their needs come second, if at all. If they climax during sex, great; but if not, it’s generally up to them to fake it first, and take care of it later, perhaps after their partner falls asleep!

In most patriarchal societies, in fact, it is never about the female’s Pleasure Journey, but the male’s. A female’s priority is pleasing her male counterpart, dismissing the notion that her needs or wants are important, and he gladly embraces the same notion. She doesn’t matter in the bedroom; so all her attention goes to pleasing him. Where is the love…?

That may have been popular during the Leave It to Beaver era, but to think it lingered into the 21st century? Need I say more? However, many women have given up on