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. When girls (or at least my sisters) curled their hair with curling irons heated in the chimney of a kerosene lamp.
. When kids learned to work on the farm, both at home and for the neighbors - and considered it a privilege just to be allowed to participate.
. When, at school, the two big challenging recess games for boys were mumble peg and marbles.
. When kids who had brothers in the service during World War II shared the worry and agony with their parents, to learn of some neighbor families whose son never came home.
. When parents hung little flags in their doors or windows that contained a star for each son in the service -- like the two stars on our flag for my brothers Alvin and Howard.
. When we shared in rationing, and we painstakingly saved the foil from cigarette packages and turned it in for the war effort.
. When grandma came to visit and brightened up life by making room in her suitcase for chewing gum for the kids and chewing tobacco for herself.
. When grandma taught me to catch a chicken and wring its head off - all for the promise of her homemade chicken and noodles.
. When we visualized the scenes when glued to the radio listening to Tom Mix, Gene Autry, Jack Armstrong, Inner Sanctum, and Lucky Strike Hit Parade.
We thought we had almost everything - looking back, we had a pretty good quality of life. At times I find myself wishing for the return to the more simple ways of life.
Elbert Wilson
Elbert Wilson, better known as Neb to friends and acquaintances, was born during the final chapter of the great depression. Elbert’s early life in a small rural community in southern Indiana near Madison was influenced by his parents who clung to the “old” ways of living. Many of Elbert’s interesting experiences and encounters were with folks whom some may describe as “common”, but who proved to be real salt-of-the-earth folks. Living without the conveniences of electricity, indoor plumbing or telephone made Elbert’s growing up years quite interesting and endearing in many ways. We can never go back to those days, but he certainly talks about them in this book, bringing alive an era long gone except for the memories. He tells stories about both the good times and some not so good. Part of this book contains Elbert’s poems, which help capture the flavor of times past. Elbert is a staunch believer in patriotism and love for this great country. His father fought in World War I as did two brothers in World War II. He saw first hand some of the after effects that war had on their lives and their reluctance for many years to talk about their wartime experiences. Elbert is retired. He and his wife Stella reside in Indianapolis. They enjoy doting on their two children and four grandchildren.
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Pathways of Life - Elbert Wilson
Contents
About The Author
Acknowledgements
Introduction
PART I
It Really Happened Like This
Old Ways, Good Times
House Cleaning
Pearl Harbor Day
The Saturday Shopping Trip
Butchering Hogs (Or Cracklins And Such)
Pack Rat
The Entertainment Scene
Corn Shocks (Oh Shucks)
Violin Lessons
Making The Most Of Life
A Gift I Would Always Remember
PART II
People Make The Difference
Anna Bell And Nan
My Brother-In-Law’s New Car
My Dad
Real Challenges And New Directions
Bumps, Scrapes And Romance
My Grandmother
Battle Of The Bulge
One More Of The Greatest Generation.
Too Much Of The Big Bird
Don Rand
Freddie
Mamie And Geneva Similar Paths In Life
The Night Bob Kirkpatrick Saved Wirt Church
Comfort When Needed
PART III
Sights, Smells And Sounds Of Yesteryear
Harberts Creek
Important News Events Of Wirt
Smyrna
The Outhouse
Wirt Station
PART IV
Poems & Prose
Take Me Home
Christmas Day
Christmas Tree
Davey The Canary
Harvest Moon
God—How Can I Say I Love You
?
Love Grows
Mom
My God
This Little Candle
About the Author
Elbert Wilson, better known as Neb to friends and acquaintances, was born during the final chapter of the great depression. Elbert’s early life in a small rural community in southern Indiana near Madison was influenced by his parents who clung to the old
ways of living. Many of Elbert’s interesting experiences and encounters were with folks whom some may describe as common
, but who proved to be real salt-of-the-earth folks.
Living without the conveniences of electricity, indoor plumbing or telephone made Elbert’s growing up years quite interesting and endearing in many ways. We can never go back to those days, but he certainly talks about them in this book, bringing alive an era long gone except for the memories. He tells stories about both the good times and some not so good. Part four of this book contains Elbert’s poems, which help capture the flavor of times past.
Elbert is a staunch believer in patriotism and love for this great country. His father fought in World War I as did two brothers in World War II. He saw first hand some of the after effects that war had on their lives and their reluctance for many years to talk about their wartime experiences.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
In memory of Alice Jarman Moore, who inspired me to write.
And Dr. Sam Braden, who instilled in the minds of all his students that there is no free lunch.
To My wife Stella, who provides her brilliance, strength, love and inspiration.
This book is dedicated to all those who have struggled and sacrificed so I may enjoy living in freedom in the greatest country in the world. They have truly demonstrated that freedom is not free.
Thanks to my friend Linda Miller for her review and suggestions.
INTRODUCTION
PATHWAYS OF LIFE
I grew up on a farm near the village of Wirt in southern Indiana. Farm families in each township within Jefferson county lived near villages similar to Wirt. In addition to farmers, there was a smattering of school teachers, ministers, prognosticators, speculators and some story tellers. Each village had a grocery store, church and postoffice. Sawmills, blacksmith shops and/or garages were commonplace, and townships had elementary schools. The primary focus in writing this book is to tell about the very interesting people, places and events in and around the Wirt community.
With few exceptions, I would not change much of my life growing up. We are who we are and we all have a story to tell. Some people try to deny their heritage, and maybe with good reason. I have no such thoughts. My family, with all of its faults, had many good qualities, including the uncanny ability to improvise and make-do
with very limited resources.
Growing up at the tail end of the great depression had some advantages (believe it or not) for the youngest in a household of six kids. My parents did almost everything the old fashioned way and they were just fine with that. Because of our lifestyle, I had the advantage of learning a lot of the old methods and mores. I’m thankful that my parents taught me the value of hard work, honesty and love of country. They provided a moral compass for myself and my siblings to follow.
I’ve recalled a lot of happy moments during my lifetime and I am thankful for the many folks I’ve been privileged to know in various ways. Some of the folks that I’ve crossed paths with may have seemed rather common at the time, but I’ve come to realize that most of them were genuine and honest folks who contributed much toward my growth and understanding of the world in which we live.
Being part of the slow transition from what I term old
ways to modern
ways of life in a small rural setting to me was priceless. Many of my experiences among the people, places and events during this special era will never be duplicated, making them all the more unique and intriguing. Best we understand from whence we came in order to pave our future pathways of life.
PART I
27980.pngIT REALLY HAPPENED
LIKE THIS
During my time growing up on the farm in southern Indiana, my life was influenced by my parents and neighbors and their simple ways of living. My parents were mostly self-sustaining, and when needs arose, instead of looking outside the home for solutions, they first looked inward with the attitude of meeting needs with available resources. The saying necessity is the mother of invention
truly applied. Nothing was wasted
. Consequently, many things other folks might just throw away because they were out-of-date or well worn, we saved or changed them for other uses. For example, how many farm families would think of using worn out bed springs for smoking
hams over a hickory fire? That’s just one example of my Dad’s ingenuity and frugality.
Overall, I was a pretty happy camper during my growing up
years. I enjoyed helping on the farm with the many associated tasks, including gardening, planting and harvesting crops, and tending our livestock. One time a farmer friend gave me some hull-less white popcorn seed that produced magnificent popcorn without hulls. Since then, I’ve been picking hulls out of my teeth, and have been unable to find the same hull-less popcorn anywhere. We milked our cows by hand. We fed the hogs, cows, chickens and mule with corn, hay and other produce grown on our farm. I split lots of wood and kindling for Mom’s use in the kitchen range, where she cooked many delicious meals.
The biggest event to occur around Wirt was when Lottie Lockman, who lived on the farm adjoining ours to the east, was arrested in 1946, accused of arsenic poisoning of four or five folks she helped care for. That made the news nationwide. Joe Cooper, one of the best attorneys in town defended Lottie and she wound up being acquitted. I guess that was Wirt’s twist on Arsenic and Old Lace
and was my closest brush to anyone of notoriety during my youth.
The next big thing in my life happened a few years later when I helped my neighbor Vern Kidwell’s wife milk ten cows by hand while Vern recuperated from rabbit fever. That didn’t make either local or national news, but