A Frying Pan Is Not a Gift: Helpful Hints for Staying Married and Raising a Somewhat Happy Family for at Least 32 Years
By Bob Borneman
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There is a big difference between wisdom and knowledge. Knowledge is what you get from reading books, going to school (if you stay awake) and touching the stove to see if it is hot, even though it is glowing red. Wisdom is correctly answering the question from your wife honey, do these jeans make my butt look big? If you have not yet attained wisdom, the answer to this question is not no honey, it aint the jeans; its that bag of Oreos you ate last night.
Since the average marriage only lasts 8 years, I feel blessed to still be married to the same person for 32 years (and counting). Both my parents and my wifes parents never divorced. I do recall my father in-law stating on the occasion of his 50th wedding anniversary I have never considered divorce, murder possibly, but never divorce. Humor runs deep and wide throughout our family. This book is written for the guys who are married, are getting married or think they want to be married, so they will not make some of the same mistakes I made when trying to learn how to be married.
Bob Borneman
Bob Borneman resides in Cataula, Georgia with his wife of 32 years, Mary Dell, youngest son Walker, who is a senior at Harris County High School along with dogs Scarlett the attention seeking Bassett Hound, and Millie the hyperactive three legged dog. Oldest son Adam is pastor of Second Presbyterian Church of Birmingham, Alabama. Daughter Koelling resides in Atlanta working in the public relations and media industry, as well as parenting foster dogs. Son Will continues as drummer with a new band and practices in his own home in Gainesville, Georgia. We are not sure if he continues to abide by the Silent Sunday rule, we think probably not. Will is creating his own record label, and has his own recording studio.
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A Frying Pan Is Not a Gift - Bob Borneman
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ISBN: 978-1-4497-3230-1 (sc)
ISBN: 978-1-4497-3231-8 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2011961171
Printed in the United States of America
WestBow Press rev. date: 11/23/2011
Contents
Preface
Forward
Living With Your Wife
And Then There Were Kids
Money, or the Lack Thereof
You Da’ Man
In Conclusion
Glossary
About The Author
To my sons, Adam, Will and Walker, in the hope that they will keep the wife they started with by not causing her to run away.
And to Koelling, my daughter, in the hope she will find a man that will love her as much as I do.
But most of all, to my wife Mary Dell, without whose love, friendship, humor and constant feedback, this work could not have happened, literally.
bobmd.jpgfamily.jpgPreface
There is a big difference between wisdom and knowledge. Knowledge is what you get from reading books, going to school (if you stay awake) and touching the stove to see if it is hot, even though it is glowing red. Wisdom is correctly answering the question from your wife Honey, do these jeans make my butt look big?
If you have not yet attained wisdom, the answer to this question is not No honey, it ain’t the jeans; it’s that bag of Oreos you ate last night.
Since the average marriage only lasts 8 years, I feel blessed to still be married to the same person for 32 years (and counting). Both my