How to Work Successfully with Your Administrative Assistant: What Every Executive Should Know
By Henri Duffy
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Working with an administrative assistant can be frustrating, successful, bewildering, and mutually beneficial for both the executive and the administrative assistant. Making that work more beneficial and mutually rewarding can be among the most challenging aspects of an executive’s life; especially a new executive. Your administrative assistant can be your greatest asset or biggest liability. “How to Work Successfully with Your Administrative Assistant” provides ‘how to’ information to work well with your administrative assistant and how to avoid some of the pitfalls that all too often occur.
Written from firsthand experience first as an executive in different industry sectors and then later, in semi-retirement, as an administrative assistant, the author discusses and describes how an executive’s actions may be interpreted by an admin assistant, others in the work place, and how those interpretations can affect work place productivity, environment, and relationships. Are you a neat freak or an organized slob? Change agent or maintainer of the status quo? Consistent or consistently inconsistent? All of these things matter greatly when dealing with an administrative assistant. Being able to assess these things in your admin and in others is one thing. Being able to assess them honestly in yourself and then being able to articulate those points is quite another thing, and major key to your success with your assistant.
Using a Who, What, When, Where perspective that looks at knowing one’s self, knowing one’s assistant, the environment you are working in, and when particular actions occur, this book examines how you can make or break the relationship with your administrative assistant. Knowing your own preferences; why your assistant is in the position he or she occupies; and the nuances of the specific environment you may be thrust into will enable you to deal with all of those factors to maximize the effectiveness of your admin while minimizing any potential frustration. Understanding these factors will also make you an executive for whom other administrative assistants will want to work.
Henri Duffy
Henri Duffy has led a very active professional life. He spent 20 years in the military as an active duty and reserve naval officer; and another 20 in higher education as a faculty member, dean, vice-president, and president. He has also led a Chamber of Commerce and served as a senior manager in state government.Currently he lives in the northwest near the ocean with his wife, cat, and dog. He sees the ocean every day and chases fish when the weather is nice and occasionally catches one or two.As you can see, he isn't much for having his picture published.
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How to Work Successfully with Your Administrative Assistant - Henri Duffy
How to Work Successfully with Your Administrative Assistant: What Every Executive Should Know
Henri Duffy
Copyright 2017 Henri Duffy
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How to Work Successfully with Your Administrative Assistant: What Every Executive Should Know
Contents
Dedication
WHY--A Few Words of Introduction
WHO
Who—you
Who— your admin
Who--the others
WHAT
Culture and Environment
Resources
Money
Time
People
Instructions
Conflicting messages
WHERE
Place
Mind Set
WHEN
…to be quiet
…to be bossly
…hiring a new admin
A Few Words in Closing
End Notes
About the Author
Dedication
To all the admins who did so much for me.
WHY--A Few Words of Introduction
My approach to this topic is the journalistic quintet of W
s--who, what, when, where, and why—although somewhat out of the traditional order. Each of these words has a great deal to do with your success and in particular the success with your administrative assistant. It’s important to be cognizant of the environment that you’re in, where in that environment, why you’re picking a particular time to do something, and where you are both physically and emotionally.
First, I will refer to administrative assistants as admins. This is in no way minimizing the tasks or the importance of a good administrative assistant. This is only a shorthand term to help keep things succinct. I will also refer to these admins as both he and she. This is not from any specific need to be politically correct, but because I have had both male and female admin’s. In fact, currently I am a male admin so it’s appropriate to use both gender designations.
I had been an executive or manager for many years and I’m sad to admit that I had often taken my admins somewhat for granted without even knowing I was doing so. Then I retired. But, having led a long and very busy professional life, I did not want to go immediately from doing a great many things and having a great many responsibilities to doing nothing other than something for myself. So I took a part-time job as an office manager/bookkeeper, the administrative assistant, for a small company in a small town.
It’s that part-time experience, firsthand experience from the other side of the desk that motivated me to write this extended essay. I quickly found that although the individual I work for is very nice, exceptionally competent in his business, and very energetic, that person has absolutely no idea of how to treat an administrative assistant or office manager. None of his actions were intentional, egregious, or probably even conscious. After a couple of weeks and some reflection on what was happening, I had hoped that I had never treated any of my admin’s the way I was being treated; although I know I had done some of the same things. Those things were unconscious behaviors, but now on the other side of the table I realized how poorly they could be perceived and how they could affect an admin.
I’m drawing on a number of different experiences as I write this book and clearly I will illustrate some of the errors that I’ve made. I’ll also look at some of the errors, or at least perceived errors, that others have made. It’s important to know where my experience comes from. I was in the military in some fashion either active duty or reserve for over 20 years; I worked in higher education for another 20 years as a faculty member, dean, vice president, and president; I’ve been the director of a Chamber of Commerce, and worked as a senior manager in state government.
The following pages are not a comprehensive list of do’s and don’ts. I want to get at some of the more common issues that can happen. In particular I want to look at those things that can be particularly vexing to our admin assistants and how some of those issues can be perceived and avoided. I’m reminded of the old military sayings; sergeants run the Army and chiefs run the Navy. The civilian corollary is that administrative assistants run the office if not the company.
WHO
Who—you
The first ‘who’ in the ‘who’ question is you. Are you newly promoted, newly transferred, or new to the company? The thing to remember is you are new to them. In some respects you have as much to prove to your admin as your admin does to you.
There are a great many trite pieces of information that could be used here; be nice, be professional, be this or that. Probably the most useful piece of information is the one you’ve heard all your life; be yourself. You may be more educated than your admin, maybe you’ve been with the company longer or maybe you have been in the specific business if not the company longer, but make no mistake your admin will see through you in about two days if you’re trying to be something other than yourself. So don’t try to change yourself, just be you.
However there are some ways you can be a better you at least at work.