Frustrated, Frazzled and Ready to Throw Up?: Guaranteed 7 Step System

By Dennis Fraser and James Poulin

“Frustrated, Frazzled and Ready to Throw-up” is a book for those people who have explored every other avenue to solving their problems and have still not found the solutions they need. Self-help books haven’t worked. Motivational audios have had no lasting effects. Even attending the seminars of the great and famous gurus have done nothing more than make you a temporarily motivated but still very frustrated individual.
The solution to your problems is not in giving you more information. You already have enough good information in rattling around in your head. You know what needs to be done but you just don’t do it. Right?
You see, the Universe only responds to the strongest vibration your body is transmitting. If your head is transmitting the frequency of the things you want but you are getting just the opposite all that means is that there is a counterproductive frequency being transmitted that is far more powerful. Your head and your body are not working together as one.
This book shows you how to change the frequency your body is transmitting to correspond with the frequency of what your head wants to happen. This is what the Masters call “ONENESS.”
It is imperative that your ‘desires’ frequency become the strongest frequency being transmitted. Once this happens you take control of Aladdin’s lamp and the genie has no choice but to grant you your wishes.
It is the “cell frequency”, not the “thinking frequency”, that the Law of Attraction responds to. Until your “wish” vibrations become stronger than your negative vibrations your life will not change.
This book will provide the solution to lasting positive change. Learn the strategies needed to release the genie permanently.

• Language: English
• Publisher: BookBaby
• Release date: Jan 1, 2016
• ISBN: 9780993909900

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Before reading this book

Stop thinking what you are thinking immediately!

This book will be like no other self-help book you have ever read before. First of all, there is a very long, Why section before you will get the How section. You will find yourself asking on several occasions,

My God, is he ever going to tell me what I need to do to change my life around?

Or …

Enough of this background junk! I want to know the strategies I can be doing right now.

If this book were like every other self-help book out there then you would have your action plan presented to you by the beginning of Chapter 3. By that time, you would be merrily putting into practice all the things that are being recommended and your journey would be well on its way. However, that method is the equivalent of you building your skyscraper on sand instead of rock. The finished building will end up looking great in the beginning but it will soon crumble at the first major storm event.

If you are serious about making drastic improvements in your life, then your success has to become permanent at the cellular level.

Unfortunately, that means that you need to have a thorough grounding on why these principles work before you start to apply them. Jumping in too quickly will only guarantee your failure.

If you give up before the foundation is firmly set, you will not be able to build a lasting legacy for yourself or for your children. You owe it to your children and your children’s children.

I am sure, that you would agree that all of us want our offspring to be happier, healthier and a lot better off than we are. That is why we so desperately sacrifice whatever we need to sacrifice to make that happen. Each of us wants the world to be a better place for our children, right?

And it is my belief that the only person who can help make that happen is the one holding this book right now. Your children’s lives will not improve as long as your life remains a mess. Therefore it is crucial for you to become the best person you can become. Because you are not happy with your current situation you are affecting the future of your children in a negative way. You need to do something about that.

Kids learn more from what they see than what they hear. If you are able show them that you are able to take 100% control of your own life and completely turn it around, so that you are much happier, healthier and far richer, then what better example can you set for them than that? This one, total makeover of you, witnessed by your children, will be far more educational than sending them to Harvard, Yale or Princeton. Nothing, and I mean nothing, will instill more hope, more confidence and more faith in themselves than watching you go from frump to fab in such a short time frame. You owe it to your children to make this program work.

So … yes… I know that this book may not be the most exciting book you will ever read but it just may be the most important one.

Now is the time to finally make the decision to turn your life around. This may be the very book that can help you do it but only if you come to believe in the philosophy of how it works first. Once you agree that the philosophy does make sense then you are more likely to continue with the program when you get temporarily down because no results are showing up fast.

The first six months lays the foundation for the cellular changes that are necessary for a tipping point to be reached. During that time, your life will not appear to change much on the surface. Everything important will be happening behind the scenes though. Unless you have enough faith that this is a worthwhile adventure, then you will most likely quit before anything can become visible. Please don’t quit!

You have to convince your subconscious mind that these procedures really do work. This is called a KNOWING.

You know that the lamp will fall to the floor if you knock it off the table. You know that the lights in your bedroom will come on when you turn on the switch. It is not a belief. It is deeper than that. It is a KNOWING.

You have to have the KNOWING that the strategies in this book will work. That will only come when you read the whole book from beginning to end several times before implementing the action plan. Implement too early and the mind will convince you that this is all airy fairy. You must reach the KNOWING stage before you attempt the implementing stage.

Your conscious mind will try to convince you to quit long before you start seeing results. It will quietly whisper to you, It’s OK if you use the escalator today instead of the stairs … it’s OK if you skip the gym today, it’s raining out anyway … it’s OK if you don’t floss tonight, no one will know and your teeth won’t fall out tomorrow.

However, once your subconscious mind is convinced that this stuff will work, you will build a powerful ally in your war against your subconscious mind. It will then help you stay with the program long enough to see the proof that will happen within six months. That is because your conscious mind will start accepting two facts: 1) you are in control of yourself and will not be put off course no matter what and 2) it will see enough evidence to prove that this really does work. The conscious mind will then reverse its allegiance from being your worst enemy to becoming your strongest ally, fully embracing the program. In a short time you will be so in control of your whole life that you will become the inspirational role model for not only your own kids but also your grandchildren and great grandchildren and everyone else who knows you.

CHAPTER ONE

The BIG Three

I have to take my hat off to whoever said that life is not fair. That person believed she knew exactly what she was talking about. She probably had been passed over for a promotion, or was struggling with some pretty disrespectful teenagers. I’m betting her day-to-day life was one big disaster after another. And for her, life is definitely unfair.

We all know people like this whose lives are messed up. For instance I am sure you know Mary down the street that was recently diagnosed with cancer…only a year after her loser husband walked out on her. Or you may know Karen who goes weekly to the food bank just to feed her children because she can’t find a decent paying job. Or George, who is trapped between his 91-year-old father suffering from Alzheimer’s and his 29-year-old son who just moved back home with his wife because he can’t afford to live on his own.

Then of course, every community has its Danny and Riya whose teenagers are always in trouble with the law. In fact, Alan, the middle son, has just been arrested for breaking and entering while searching for drug money.

And what about Kovi, the former university valedictorian who is back at school going for his Ph. D because he can’t get a decent job with only a Master’s degree? He’s really frustrated and angry.

So yes, if we look at all these cases, or even look at our own family, friends and neighbors, we are almost 100% in agreement that, for most people life is definitely not fair.

But on the other hand, why are there so many others out there whose lives seem really, really good?

It appears that they are always healthy, always buying new cars and definitely always moving up the corporate ladder. They have everything one could want and their lives just seem to get better and better every year.

Why?

Well, it can be boiled down to just three very simple, but crucial, concepts.

1)   Philosophy: Every one of us, while growing up, saw, heard and was exposed to ideas and concepts from our childhood environment. From the time we were born, until we were old enough to make up our own mind about things, the ideas and beliefs of the significant others shaped what would become our personal philosophy of life.

This is normal and there is no getting around it.

The problem arises when the ideas and the beliefs of the significant others are not good, sound or valid. You cannot help being born into the family you are in (although at a later date I will refute this).

Generally, once we become adults we create an almost identical environment to the one we came from. This could be good or bad depending on circumstances.

This brings me to the second concept …

2)   Attitude.

We may not have had much say as to where or how we were born but, once we started thinking for ourselves, we were granted the gift of choice. And it is this gift that the Universe bestows upon all of us equally. It is this element; also, that makes life fair for everyone. We all have the right to choose what we do with our lives once we leave home. From that point on, attitude becomes the main driving force.

The difference between the haves and the have-nots is attitude.

Attitude determines how we look at the tree of life. The privileged few focus on the top branches looking at the ripe and full fruits of success while the vast majority of people focus on the roots where there are no real rewards.

So philosophy and attitude are two of the three foundational building blocks to a person’s life. The last, and perhaps the most important foundational block, is strategy.

3)   Strategies are the specific, daily behaviours and actions that build a person’s life style. They either create the ghetto or the money street—the abusive marriage or the fairy-tale marriage.’

There are always at least two strategies available for every situation - a right one and a wrong one. Choose the right one and pluck the fruits of success. Choose the wrong one and well, you know what happens. Invariably most people choose the path of least resistance. Unless you