The Absolutely Essential Book of BDSM and S&M Rules

By Phil G

Comprehensive research for this ebook was taken from 267 BDSM and sexual technique webpages, as well as numerous sex and S & M journals.

* Master decides what I wear when I am with him and that includes when we are in public and in private. I should feel uncomfortable when fully clothed when in private with my Master. The exceptions to this would be if we’re expecting company and/or if it’s cold.
* I will dress feminine at all times unless allowed not to. The exception would be if I need to dress differently for work or another public activity of some sort.
* Nothing loose! I will look sexy at all times. Wear make-up. I know how important giving pleasure to my Master is and looking sexy gives Master pleasure.
* I may never wear panties while in Master’s dwelling, except to take them off when entering and in preparation to go out. Of course the exception is when I’m given permission to.
* I wear dresses or skirts only unless granted permission otherwise. My schoolgirl outfit and other types of BDSM role play outfits should always be ready to wear and readily available.
* When alone with Master, if I want to put any clothing on, even a bra or panties, I will ask permission from my Master first.
Provided in this publication are a great many rules from decades of research.

This ebook is comprised of three ebooks which are normally sold separately. Your ebooks are presented in this order:

1) The Absolutely Essential Book of BDSM and S&M Rules
2) The Spanking Dictionary
3) Women’s Super Sex Secret

Publisher's Note: This book contains explicit sexual content and BDSM. All sexually active characters are at least 18 years of age.

• Language: English
• Publisher: GNP
• Release date: Feb 2, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301274512

Phil G

As a young man in the pre-internet age I experienced Dom/sub erotic fantasies that I now know were of aBDSM nature. Frankly because of these sexual fantasies I was concerned that I might have some emotional issues, or even be "unbalanced". Then one night I found a lady that wanted me to spank her! Wow! Then I found more ladies that liked the male to pursue a more intensely dominant sexual role with them. Clearly there were a lot more people out there having these Dominant/submissive fantasies than society was letting on! Then came the Internet and thankfully BDSM really came out of the closet.My personal experiences with BDSM dates back to the 70s and I have now written over 100 BDSM and sex manual books. I retained my BDSM related knowledge, experiences and fantasies and am grateful to be able to share them with you in what has progressively become a much bigger market.Here are some of my dozens of books:*BDSM Master/slave Contract*The Absolutely Essential Book of BDSM and S&M Rules*Things To Do During 3 Hours of Sex; A Step-by-step Guide*Dramatic Weight Loss Using BDSM*Playtime At The Dom Den; A Step-by-step Guide*The Absolutely Essential Guide to Great BDSM and S&M Sex*The Absolutely Essential Dominant/submissive Playtime Experience*The Absolutely Essential BDSM Sexual Experience*The Ultimate Collection of S&M and BDSM Rules For Female Submissives and Slaves*Master and submissive or slave BDSM Contract*Have Awesome BDSM Sex*Spanking Dictionary*Spanking Contract*BDSM Rules*Bed Arrest, the Punishment for BDSM EnthusiastsThank you for stopping by!

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The Absolutely Essential Book of BDSM and S&M Rules

This ebook and its contents are for entertainment purposes only. This is not a legally binding contract.  Warning - Even if a Spanking and/or BDSM contract is not considered legally binding in your country/locality, attempts may be made to include parts of it in law enforcement or other legal proceedings, should their involvement ever occur for some reason. Consent could be a defense to assault in many places (though not necessarily effective.) A legal argument might be attempted stating that by signing the contract you are agreeing to everything in it. Also, in areas of the world where some or all BDSM activities are illegal, contracts of any sort can be used to prosecute those involved. 

This ebook is sold and/or distributed with the understanding that the publisher and author is not engaged in rendering legal or other professional services. This ebook and its subject matter are for entertainment purposes only. In this publication there may be inadvertent inaccuracies including technical inaccuracies, typographical inaccuracies and other possible inaccuracies.  The writer and publisher of this publication expressly disclaim all liability for the use or interpretation by anybody of information contained in this publication.  The author, publisher and distributors of this publication hereby disclaim any and all liability for any loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulted from negligence, accident, or any other causes.  If legal advice or other expert assistance is required, the services of a competent professional person in a consultation capacity should be sought. Products, services and websites’ content vary with time. Please verify any published information.

Copyright © 2014 by Phil G. 

Smashwords Edition

Hardcopy ISBN-13: 978-1481930673

Hardcopy ISBN-10: 1481930672

All rights reserved.  No part of this work may be reproduced or transmitted in any form by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying and recording, or by any information storage or retrieval system, without permission in writing from its writer, except by reviewers, speakers and others who may quote brief passages.

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2) The Spanking Dictionary

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*The Absolutely Essential Guide to Great BDSM and S&M Sex

*The Absolutely Essential Dominant/submissive Playtime Experience

*The Absolutely Essential BDSM Sexual Experience

*The Ultimate Collection of S&M and BDSM Rules For Female Submissives and Slaves

*Master and submissive or slave BDSM Contract

*Have Awesome BDSM Sex

*Spanking Dictionary

*Spanking Contract

*BDSM Rules

*Bed Arrest, the Punishment for BDSM Enthusiasts

The Absolutely Essential Book of BDSM and S&M Rules

Table of Contents

Introduction

Master/submissive Signature Page

A. Rules Governing Time In and Time Out of this Contract

B. Master/submissive Dynamics

C. What I (the submissive, i.e. the girl) Will Wear

D. Rights of the girl (the submissive).

E. How I (the Submissive, i.e. the girl) Will Treat My Body

F. Kissing

G. Rules Affecting Me Sexually As a Submissive

H. Cunningilus of the submissive

I. Fellatio & Cock Worship

J. The Collar

K. Spankings

L. Foreplay

M. Miscellaneous Physical (including sexual) Orders I (the girl, i.e. the submissive) Will Obey

N. Anal Sex

O. Pussy unshaved, unshaven and if unshaved, it’s appearance

P. Play Rape

Q. Breast Bondage & Related

R. Punishments

S. Medical Play

T. Showering and Bathing

U. Massaging Master

V. Corner Time

W. Pulling Out Individual Pubic Hairs as Punishment

X. Unacceptable Behavior of the submissive which includes Jealousy, Pouting, Being Bitchy, Slovenly and Lazy

Y. Master Having Multiple Submissives

Z. Having Sex and playing with Others Besides Master

AA. Objectification

BB. Mummification (full plastic wrap)

CC. Blind Folds

DD. Pin Wheel Use

EE. Crossplaying 

FF. Orgasm Denial 

GG. Cock worship and Butt worship

HH. Maid Service

II. Gags

JJ. Strap-on Dildos & Vibrators

KK. Master Being Taken with a Dildo/vibrator

LL. Handcuffs, Chains and Shackles 

MM. Deepthroating

NN. Leather, Rubber or Latex Clothing

OO. Role Playing

PP. Cumming From Performing Fellatio on Master’s Cock

QQ. Birth Control

RR. Tattoos, Branding, Piercing

SS. None of the below activities are allowed without the consent of both parties, and on each occasion

Submissive/slave Signature & Date:

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Dominant Signature & Date:

________________________________________________

Witness (Optional) & Date

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Introduction

Please read the rules carefully as in many cases the default language of the contract is set up to not allow certain specific BDSM activities.

This contract and its collection of rules is based on the Dominant being male and the submissive being female.

The term "submissive in this book is used interchangeably with the terms sub and submissive".

The term "Dominant is used interchangeably with Master".

Dominants may wish to test their submissive on how well she remembers the rules.

Please note, these rules are not presented in order of their importance.

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Trust, care, mutual consent, safe sex practices, and general safety are absolute priorities. No matter what it’s suggested that you incorporate at least the following into your playtime and lifestyle:

*Don't tie things around someone’s neck, and no breath play, period!

*Create a Safe word for the submissive to say when (or if) things get too scary.

*Always be careful and take necessary safety precautions when engaging in BDSM activity. Keep proper medical facilities handy.

*Always insure that a bound person has