Score More: 10 Critical Lessons For Guys About Sex and Dating

By Frank Talon

Have you ever wondered why some guys are more successful with women than you are? What is it that lets them go home with the hotties while you play video games alone at night? What do they do or have that you don't?

The secret is that men and women are at war when it comes to sex and dating and you need the right strategies and tactics to win. Otherwise you will be a casualty rather than the victor. And if you think men are stronger or have an advantage in this conflict between the sexes, think again! You are already at a disadvantage and didn't even know it!

This book takes ten of my most hard-learned lessons about sex, dating and how women think and gives you the tools you need to score more and better women than you do today. With these critical learnings you will be able to safely navigate the dangerous battlefield that the dating scene has become. More importantly, you will take home the hottie tonight, not her homely friend.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Frank Talon
• Release date: Jun 13, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301819409

Frank Talon

Frank Talon grew up in the SF Bay Area and works as an engineer there when he isn't enjoying his other passion, writing. After many years of beating his head against the wall of relationships, dating and sex he has taken all those lessons learned and written them down for your benefit.

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Score More: 10 Critical Lessons for Guys About Sex and Dating

by

Frank Talon

Copyright 2013 Frank Talon

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Foreword

I’m just a regularly guy like you. I wouldn’t say I am a rock star when it comes to women. I’m not incredibly good looking by any stretch of the imagination. I’m not rich or famous or in the public eye such that women are automatically drawn to me like a moth to a flame. No, I am pretty ordinary really and don’t have so much going for me that I can walk into a room and have women start following me around hoping to catch my attention.

But like you (at least most of you) reading this, I like to get laid. Whether women like it or not, call us all dogs, players, womanizers or some other pejorative term, we are all generally wired the same way and want the same thing: sex. I believe the criticism we get from women about our nature is misplaced at best and doesn’t recognize the fundamental truth that men are built to think about sex, want sex and ultimately find a way to get sex. Saying we are bad or single-minded because of how we are designed misses the point that we are what we are, just as women are what they are. Saying we are wrong for the way we act and feel is like saying a coffee maker is bad for not producing root beer. That’s not what it was designed to do! How can it be wrong for doing what it was built for rather than what some might want it to do instead?

Now of course there are some things men do that are not so good and the same can be said for women. I am not condoning such behaviors or letting men off the hook for things that can’t be explained by how they are built. Rape, pedophilia, physical abuse and the like are not things I would say are understandable or acceptable because of the way men are built. But wanting to bed down that gorgeous hottie across the room at a club on Friday night is as much a part of our DNA as breathing and we shouldn’t be reviled and criticized because it. Certainly no more than women should be put down for wanting to settle down, get married and have babies once they’ve sown their own wild oats as so many do. Why are men so vilified for wanting something that is so integral to their being?

It only takes a quick review of the typical season’s television line-up to see why men are seen this way. We are portrayed as fools, idiots and lazy incompetents in show after show with few exceptions. Women, on the other hand, are strong, smart and capable in comparison in these very same shows. And what about all those reality shows that celebrate the self-centered and shallow nature of the women that star in them? Brides that act like spoiled brats that deserve to be treated like a princess just because without lifting a finger or earning any of it through their own efforts. Young women fighting for the attention of some handsome guy on a show and meanwhile squabbling like children among themselves in their shared living quarters while being filmed. And perhaps most sad a show that seems to rejoice about young women that are dating while pregnant with the baby of some other man. One has to wonder how men are such terrible creatures to be looked down upon when one spends a few hours watching these reality shows. Reality truly is stranger than fiction.

Rather than complain about how things are, my philosophy is to work to change things where I can and make the best of things where I can’t. Life is far too short to shout at the wind about how men are treated unfairly and vilified for how we are born to be. I am sure women have an equal set of gripes about how they have been disadvantaged by their biology and frankly I don’t want to spend my life debating which of us is right or wrong. Instead, I want to get back to what is important to me and that is getting laid.

To that end I have put together a list of ten lessons I’ve learned throughout my life that I wish I had known when I started out as a young man in the dating world. The experience I had with women would have been a lot more pleasant and far less costly for me if someone had told me these things back then. And to that end, I want to share what I have learned with you in the hope you will benefit from the education I have received. It was definitely more the school of hard knocks than anything so my goal here is to save you a few of the beatings I’ve taken and put you on a path that will be more satisfying than the one you would otherwise probably stumble upon.

You may not agree with everything I say in the pages that follow. You may think they are counterintuitive or just plain wrong but these are the learnings I’ve had over my life and they have proven to be correct more often than not for me. In addition I’ve watched countless men walk into the spinning blades of love and relationships without these skills and knowledge and what you expect to happen always ended up happening: they were sliced to ribbons. Those men, on the other hand, that operated in a way more in line with my philosophies were not only more successful with women overall but rarely experienced the painful aspects of relationships that so many of us have. All I can say is give what I have to say a try. You might be surprised at just how well these strategies work despite the fact they sometimes seem to fly in the face of logic and reason. That’s what you get when you are dealing with women, boys!

So without any further delay, I wish you the best of luck and happy hunting using the lessons and learnings that follow.

Start Out Right!

Before we talk about how to land women as easily and cost-effectively as possible, it is important to recognize that in any journey you have to know where you are headed to have a good chance of reaching your destination. While some people are into the idea of just hitting the open road and letting it take them wherever it may, that sort of free-spirited approach isn’t a wise idea when it comes to dating. You could end up in a completely different place than you expected and possibly somewhere that is at the very least unpleasant, more costly than you expected and difficult to get out of. If you know where you are going, however, and stay on the road that will get you there with the least amount of unexpected detours, chances are you will be happier with the result. Being swept along with the wind sounds like fun when you see it in the movies but you may find yourself in the most crime-ridden part of an inner city slum rather than sipping a tropical drink on a white sand beach and watching the bikinis go by.

No, I am not really talking about driving a car. This example is a metaphor for where you want to end up when it comes to relationships. As with most things, being clear about what your objective is will keep you headed in the right direction. Letting the strong rushing current of the dating scene, cultural expectations and your hormones carry you away is a good way to end up in a place you didn’t expect or want to be. Never underestimate the pressure you will get from the women you date, your family and friends and society as a whole to fit in and date, get married, have kids and all the other things that go with it. Before you know it, there will be a ring on your finger, a woman with her hand in your wallet and a couple of kids clinging to your ankles. At that point, it is too late. You are in the slum, my friend, and the beach is nowhere in sight. Even worse, you are standing there defenseless in the street wearing a big sign on your back that says Rob me, please! The bikinis in the sand are just a fading fantasy and your future is going to be more about buying a nice family house, saving for college educations and trying to choose the best minivan to carry your kids and their friends to soccer practice. You don’t even like soccer!

Now there is nothing wrong with getting married and having a family if that is truly what you want to do. Many people enjoy that kind of life and all that it brings with it. But let’s be frank, most people who are married and have kids, if they were truthful about it, would probably say they wouldn’t do it again if they could travel back in time knowing what they know now. The majority would have spent a few more years, perhaps even the rest of their