DON’T EXPECT TO be pampered in hospital. Nurses and midwives are trained to anticipate and prevent problems. They are also there to teach you a few skills - so ask questions about baby care and your recovery before you go home.
Ask for help when you need it. Remind the midwife or doctor about your wish list, such as breastfeeding, and leaving your baby with you, skin to skin, for as long as possible immediately after the birth, and whenever else you can do so.
ALL HOSPITALS SHOULD PROVIDE
■ A clean and safe environment for mothers and babies. ■ Staff who explain all procedures before they’re carried out (such as blood tests, drips, injections or giving oxygen to your baby). ■ Staff should ask your permission before any procedures can be carried out - this includes giving your baby a■ Ask for an alternative if you’re not comfortable with the procedure, for example you may prefer to top and tail instead of bathing your baby for the first time. ■ You deserve privacy, respect and confidentiality at all times. ■ You may receive (or refuse) visitors at set visiting hours. ■ Cultural, social and religious traditions should be respected.