“When I go on dates, I am open to talking about my salary range and expectations up front,” says senior designer Felicia*, 32, who’s single and dating. “It’s not something I’d bring up during the early stages of dating, but I am clear on how much both of us should have in terms of spending power before getting married. Since I want to have kids, I’m also clear on how much I think we should both earn before starting a family.”
Dating a man who’s earning less than she does is not an instant deal-breaker, but it would factor into her decision about the longevity of the relationship. “I work hard and have seen my salary triple over the years, which has empowered me to spend on a lifestyle that I enjoy. Being in a relationship is about being on the same team, and I would want both of us to work towards a common goal with similar values and lifestyle preferences. Besides, living standards are getting more expensive, and if we have a family, the cost of living will continue to go up,” she says, declining to reveal details about her salary.
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