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A guide to lady friends

Jilly Cooper recently gave me a precious insight into her writing process.

‘Trust in the unexpected, ’ she said cheerily. I scribbled it on a Post-it note and stuck it to my computer screen, hoping it might temporarily grant me even one per cent of her literary prowess as I embarked on my own first book. Jilly’s message could apply to almost every aspect of my subject: female friendship.

From our earliest days in the playground, our connections with other girls consume our waking thoughts. We spend

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