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A 16-Year-Old Reflects on the Sex-Ed Classes She Took at 6 and 13

A journey from surprise to bashfulness to appreciation

In response to my recent article on a sex-education controversy, “Should Public Schools Teach 13-Year-Olds About Grinding?”, a 16-year-old girl offers her thoughts:

When I was six years old, my parents enrolled me in a two month sex-ed class at our Unitarian Universalist church. The class was fairly basic; on the first day, I recall sketching a crude outline of a man and a woman and then labeling their body parts. I felt vaguely subversive when I got to the male and female figures’

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