‘There’s no point looking to a man to make you happy’

I was born with a lazy eyelid, a condition I didn’t know was ‘ptosis’ until I started doing interviews and journalists told me. At my all-girls’ school, the mean girls were savage. My right eyelid would flicker because of a problem with the muscle and they’d say, ‘Why are you winking at me?’ I’m a woman’s woman and I