ask the knot squad

We tapped our experts for answers to your most pressing questions.

STYLE

I’m not ready to commit to invitations, but I want to send out my save-the-dates. Do they have to match?

Not at all. It’s important to think about the big picture, but not if it stresses you out (and takes the fun out of planning). Lots of couples send out extra-fun save-the-dates that speak more to their personalities than set a style statement for what’s to come. Send photo save-the-dates using your engagement pictures, or if you’re having lots of guests from out of town, mail personalized luggage tags with your wedding info. If you have a special furry