About this series
The Self has been a topic of exploration for centuries, and it has remained an enigma all this while. This book goes to its depth and opens the lid so that a layperson can understand its making and working.
Lawrence V. Fernandes builds on the concepts introduced in his ground-breaking first book, Stop Surviving Start Living with Freedom, to help you understand the mystery of your existence and know why you are the way you are.
This book comprises certain discoveries the author has made about the working of the human mind and its dynamic in his therapy career of 24 years as a Hypnotherapist and Neuro-Linguistic Programmer.
The word "SELF" has been part of our everyday communication. Here are a few examples:
I am angry with myself.
I hate myself.
I don't trust myself.
I don't understand myself.
I am proud of myself.
In the above sentences, it looks as if there are two people. "I hate myself" can be presented as "Tom hates Tim." Now the question is, who is "I," and who is "myself" that I hate in the above sentence? We can ask the same question in other sentences. The book deciphers who the Self is and its construct.
Besides the Self, the book covers related topics such as Self-talk, Self-sabotage and Self-image in a fresh and interesting way.
In fact, inside us, there are two systems running in parallel. One is our survival mechanism, which helps us to survive, discussed in the author's earlier book, Stop Surviving Start Living With Freedom. The other is our Self, imposing rules and limitations on us to protect us, to which we must adapt. Reading the book will help one understand the Self, a powerful system that governs us. If we don't comply, it can punish or, at times, even destroy us. Our own survival mechanism -- our operating system -- makes us comply with the demands of our Self. This book describes how we do it.
The Self may look complex, but the book provides a simple and easy way for readers to understand its making and functioning. It explores topics such as:
How does our Self come into existence?
What is it made up of?
How does the Self filter most of our decisions?
What is Self-image and how does it become a roadmap for us in life?
How do we pick up the dreams, wishes, and expectations of others and make them our own goals?
Why do we end up seeing ourselves through the eyes of others?
While the Self has an important purpose in keeping us safe, as individuals, we must comply with it. If we don't fulfill its demands, it can sabotage our progress and make us experience negative emotions. Our Self doesn't allow us to make decisions freely but routes them through the Self. Since the decision-making is in the hands of others, our destiny also gets governed by them. All this happens at an unconscious level beyond our awareness.
Reading this book will make you understand and become aware of your Self and survival mechanism, the dynamic between the two, and how it constricts your true potential from being realized. This awareness will allow you to exercise your free will in creating a life you consciously choose.
As they say, the solution is often found in the problem.
The solutions offered are at two levels— one at the level of our survival mechanism and the second on how to deal with our Self. When you understand the making of the Self and its agenda, this clarity defuses the issues you experience. The book provides step-by-step solutions on how to understand and deal with the Self.
Titles in the series (2)
- Stop Surviving Start Living With Freedom: Living With Freedom, #1
1
Human Survival Mechanism The whole of humanity can be classified into three categories. You are either a WANTED CHILD, PARTLY WANTED CHILD or an UNWANTED CHILD. Nature ensures that no one is free from this classification. You may be a president or ordinary citizen, rich or poor, CEO or worker, black or white, Asian or Hispanic, Hindu or Christian -- you will fall under one of these categories. Each category gives rise to unique survival traits (our unconscious personality traits), which one can easily decipher. Our body language, communication style, usage of words, and behaviors, expose our personality type. This book clearly shows how to identify a person's category through gathering information and observation. The author, Lawrence V. Fernandes, has discovered how a survival mechanism functions as our operating system. It inhibits us from living a life of freedom and joy; instead, it forces us to live unconsciously, out of compulsion. That is why we must understand its functioning. The mechanism comes pre-installed within us from birth. Much like an operating system of a computer/ mobile phone that controls its every function, our operating system governs our core beliefs, communication style, behaviors, thinking style, and more, from birth till we die. Its workings lie beyond our awareness. The survival mechanism that is supposed to help us survive also becomes our limitation and weakness. It engages us in a "fight/ flight/ freeze" mode, which is not a solution after a specific age but a self-destructive way of living. Unconsciously, it takes charge of us and puts us on autopilot, hindering our growth and progress while sucking us into self-sabotage patterns. Here are some of the features of the survival mechanism and how it governs our lives: Fear is its primary weapon, connected to all other emotions It has put us in a hypnotic trance; we live in its illusion It controls our body and our thinking process It manages how we gather and process information Decision-making gets routed through it It governs what we attract – The Law of Attraction It decides how we build our relationships Time is one of its main ingredients Karma and history are part of it It entangles us in the polarities of right/wrong, good/bad, etc. It traps us in prison and snatches our FREE WILL. Although humans are born with this survival mechanism, it is not the same for everyone. There are three variants of it that are uniquely different from each other. What's common is that their primary purpose is to help us survive. It does not matter where you are born and to whom you are born; the survival mechanism will get installed. In the formative years, it remains dormant, but it begins to show its traits as the child begins to reason. By reading this book, you will begin to understand:- How did your survival mechanism get installed? How does it limit your progress and freedom? How can you identify your core survival traits? How can you defuse your outdated survival mechanism and live freely? By decoding your survival mechanism, you will realize how you have been under its hypnotic spell since birth. The book will help you cast away your illusions, liberate yourself from its clutches, and help you to begin living life with freedom.
- The Self Decoded: Living With Freedom, #2
2
The Self has been a topic of exploration for centuries, and it has remained an enigma all this while. This book goes to its depth and opens the lid so that a layperson can understand its making and working. Lawrence V. Fernandes builds on the concepts introduced in his ground-breaking first book, Stop Surviving Start Living with Freedom, to help you understand the mystery of your existence and know why you are the way you are. This book comprises certain discoveries the author has made about the working of the human mind and its dynamic in his therapy career of 24 years as a Hypnotherapist and Neuro-Linguistic Programmer. The word "SELF" has been part of our everyday communication. Here are a few examples: I am angry with myself. I hate myself. I don't trust myself. I don't understand myself. I am proud of myself. In the above sentences, it looks as if there are two people. "I hate myself" can be presented as "Tom hates Tim." Now the question is, who is "I," and who is "myself" that I hate in the above sentence? We can ask the same question in other sentences. The book deciphers who the Self is and its construct. Besides the Self, the book covers related topics such as Self-talk, Self-sabotage and Self-image in a fresh and interesting way. In fact, inside us, there are two systems running in parallel. One is our survival mechanism, which helps us to survive, discussed in the author's earlier book, Stop Surviving Start Living With Freedom. The other is our Self, imposing rules and limitations on us to protect us, to which we must adapt. Reading the book will help one understand the Self, a powerful system that governs us. If we don't comply, it can punish or, at times, even destroy us. Our own survival mechanism -- our operating system -- makes us comply with the demands of our Self. This book describes how we do it. The Self may look complex, but the book provides a simple and easy way for readers to understand its making and functioning. It explores topics such as: How does our Self come into existence? What is it made up of? How does the Self filter most of our decisions? What is Self-image and how does it become a roadmap for us in life? How do we pick up the dreams, wishes, and expectations of others and make them our own goals? Why do we end up seeing ourselves through the eyes of others? While the Self has an important purpose in keeping us safe, as individuals, we must comply with it. If we don't fulfill its demands, it can sabotage our progress and make us experience negative emotions. Our Self doesn't allow us to make decisions freely but routes them through the Self. Since the decision-making is in the hands of others, our destiny also gets governed by them. All this happens at an unconscious level beyond our awareness. Reading this book will make you understand and become aware of your Self and survival mechanism, the dynamic between the two, and how it constricts your true potential from being realized. This awareness will allow you to exercise your free will in creating a life you consciously choose. As they say, the solution is often found in the problem. The solutions offered are at two levels— one at the level of our survival mechanism and the second on how to deal with our Self. When you understand the making of the Self and its agenda, this clarity defuses the issues you experience. The book provides step-by-step solutions on how to understand and deal with the Self.
Lawrence V. Fernandes
Lawrence V. Fernandes has been a practicing clinical Hypnotherapist and Neuro-Linguistic Programming since 1998. He was confounded by some of the unshakable beliefs of his clients until he made this discovery. In this book, he expounds on his observations of a human survival system affecting every humankind, which he believes hasn't been explored before.
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