What happens when you – or the person you're dating – just can't commit to a relationship past the honeymoon stage? We're getting a look inside the mind of return guest Ryan Van Duzer about why he wants to flee once things get serious – even with people he thought were 'The One.' We're discussing the differences of being ready for love versus a relationship, the line of staying true to yourself vs self-sabotaging, and how to tell if someone has the capacity for something more long-term.Follow the Ryan @duzer and check out his adventures on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVcUzl95VwxrIEQnu9xI21gFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our Sponsors:* Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/* Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Go to badlandsranch.com/dateable to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee.* Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE* Check out Armoire and use my code DATEABLE for a great deal: http://www.armoire.style* Check out Blueland Cleaning Supplies: blueland.com/DATEABLE* Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast or use the code PODCAST* Go to badlandsfood.com/DATEABLE to get up to 50% off your regular-priced dog food order with a 90-day money-back guarantee with Badlands Ranch Pets.* Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLESupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy