In this week’s episode, we talk about what it looks like to provide reassurance in the recovery process.  Sometimes we as wives will ask questions like - “Is everything okay?”, “what is going on?”, “are you okay?”.  Men in the recovery process might see this more as an invitation to “dump" or even an indictment when what she really needs is reassurance of his integrity, the recovery process and honoring her intuition that something feels off. Here are some of the things we cover: - how he can pivot from self-focused to wife-focused - consciously shifting from proving behavior to being engaged in the process - three key areas to cover when providing reassurance We are so glad YOU are here, thanks for joining us!       Applications drop today for the Women’s Retreat coming up this Spring - you can get on the list here to get all the details!   There will also be a men’s workshop in March and you can get all the details for that here. We have several new groups starting in February.  Click here for all the details. Info on the Empowered Boundaries MasterClass for women is here.  Would love for you to consider taking this with me, please add your name to the wait list so that you are the first to know when registration for the next round opens.  (The wait list just serves as a place for those with interest to get the first email.) Would love to connect with you on Instagram - @shelley_martinkus.  We offer 1:1 coaching, couples recovery coaching, support groups, MasterClasses and on-line courses - check out our websites: redemptiveliving.com and rlforwomen.com for the full scoop!  Click here to subscribe to Shelley’s {almost} monthly letter + announcements. Click here to subscribe to Jason’s list.  Questions for the Podcast? Email us with the subject line: Podcast.