Dear Sugar: I'm Addicted To Painkillers

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Dear Sugar: I'm Addicted To Painkillers

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13 minutes

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Jan 9, 2015

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The Sugars take a question from a new mother who is secretly addicted to painkillers, but afraid that she can't be the mom and wife she wants to be without them.

Released:

Jan 9, 2015

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