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09: "But NVC is so unnatural."

09: "But NVC is so unnatural."

FromLove Each Other Better


09: "But NVC is so unnatural."

FromLove Each Other Better

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Length:
20 minutes
Released:
Apr 26, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

In this episode, I dive into a common critique of Nonviolent Communication (NVC): that it feels robotic, formal, inauthentic, and unnatural. Have you encountered this criticism before, or do you share these feelings yourself? Or maybe your partner has said this? NVC is a powerful framework for communication and conflict resolution, but some struggle with its structured approach, particularly the self-expression component involving observations, feelings, needs, and requests. Let's unpack this criticism and explore why it's SO worth embracing the initial awkwardness of NVC. Yes, NVC can feel awkward and unnatural initially, but consider the alternative: fruitless fights, simmering resentment, and unhappy relationships. NVC, with its radically heart-centered approach, offers a path to deeper connection, understanding, and mutual fulfillment. Join me as we explore how NVC can open hearts and transform relationships. Let's embrace the unfamiliar and discover how to love each other better. For personalized support in applying NVC to your relationship, explore my new Private Coaching Program for Couples at www.alimillercoaching.com/stopfighting. Email me Ali@AliMillerCoaching.com with any questions or feedback about this episode - I'd love to hear from you!
Released:
Apr 26, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (11)

Did you know that too much conflict and arguing is one of the top 3 reasons couples get divorced? According to Forbes, 58% of divorcing couples cited this as their #1 reason for splitting up. When I read this 2024 statistic, my first thought was: It doesn't have to be this way! Hi, I'm Ali Miller, and I created the Love Each Other Better Podcast to share relationship-saving tools and principles that will help you and your partner spend less time fighting and more time doing what you do best: loving each other. I'm a longtime Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and a Certified Coach specializing in couples communication and conflict resolution. I've worked with hundreds of couples over the past two decades, helping them work through their challenges and create thriving relationships. On the Love Each Other Better Podcast, I share transformational tools and inspiration from Nonviolent Communication to help couples find their happy again, tools I've only been sharing with my clients and students until now. I am overjoyed to be able to share them with you here on this podcast. Whether you're on the verge of divorce or just a tad bit dissatisfied in your relationship and know it can be so much better, you're in the right place if you want more fun, more ease, and more LOVE in your relationship. I'm so glad you're here.