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31 | When Will It Ever Be Enough?

31 | When Will It Ever Be Enough?

FromAmbition Without Compromise


31 | When Will It Ever Be Enough?

FromAmbition Without Compromise

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Length:
32 minutes
Released:
Apr 10, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode

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In this episode, I'm tackling a question that is rattling around the corridors of the minds of us highest achievers: "When will it ever be enough?" It's a relentless echo that reverberates in the silence left by our latest triumphs, a whisper that lingers even as we scale the peaks of what I’m calling “Money Mountain” with the weight of the world on our shoulders.For those who've pushed themselves to the brink, who've crafted empires with their bare hands and sheer will, this episode is a soul-stirring examination of the unsustainable pace of success and the personal toll it exacts. We're pulling back the veil on the harsh truths behind burnout, the undercurrents of systemic pressures, and the personalization of collective dysfunctions that lead us to question our worth, our work, and our way forward.Join me as we explore the deeper questions that should be guiding our pursuit of fulfillment. We'll navigate through the false narratives of entrepreneurship, the courage to be beginners in the public eye, and the vulnerability required to ask for what we truly want. Tune in and transform the way you approach your goals and your life.MENTIONED13 | Re-Mothering Ourselves03 | What Are You Playing For? (CEO Series)GEMS DROPPED“In ​this ​quest ​to ​say, ​’Am ​I ​doing ​enough? ​​Is ​it ​enough? ​Have ​I ​ascertained ​enough? ​Have ​I ​done ​enough? ​Have ​I ​created ​enough?’ ​We're ​really ​searching ​for, ​’Will ​I ​ever ​be ​enough?’ That's ​the ​real ​question ​that ​runs ​beneath ​all ​of ​this, ​is, ​will ​I ​ever ​be ​enough?”“We're ​asking ​ourselves ​at ​the ​end ​of ​the ​day, ​why ​am ​I ​not ​enough? ​Why ​am ​I ​not ​rising ​to ​the ​occasion? ​Why ​is ​this ​wearing ​me ​out? ​Why ​am ​I ​having ​these ​emotional ​reactions ​and ​responses? ​Why ​am ​I ​being ​a ​fucking ​human ​being? ​We're ​punishing ​ourselves ​for ​our ​basic ​needs, ​and ​it's ​wrong. ​​It ​is ​wrong. ​It ​is ​misguided. ​It ​is ​misdirected. ​So ​I ​want ​you ​to ​turn ​that ​energy ​into ​some ​better ​questions. I ​think a ​better ​question is ​’Am ​I ​fulfilled, ​well, and whole?’““That ​moment ​where ​the ​decision ​is ​available ​to ​you, ​it ​can ​feel ​like ​you ​don't ​have ​a ​choice. ​And ​we ​always ​have ​a ​choice. ​We ​always ​have ​a ​choice.”“At ​a ​certain ​point, ​money ​no ​longer ​delivers. ​There's ​no ​return ​on ​that ​investment emotionally. Once ​you ​get ​past ​a ​certain ​level ​it ​caps ​out ​and ​you're ​not ​going ​to ​get ​any ​more ​enjoyment, ​fulfillment, ​happiness, ​even ​delight. ​All ​of ​that ​just ​falls ​flat. ​And ​so, ​well, ​what ​are ​you ​even ​playing ​for? ““There ​really ​is ​no ​enoughness that's ​going ​to ​truly ​satisfy ​you…the ​feeling ​that ​you're ​actually ​seeking ​to ​​meet, ​which ​is ​fulfillment. ​If ​fulfillment ​is ​what's ​lacking, ​​none ​of ​this ​other ​stuff ​even ​matters. ​And ​I ​think ​that ​that's ​what ​we ​end ​up ​getting ​ourselves ​to ​when ​we ​first ​start ​asking ​this ​question. ​What's ​enough? ​You're ​enough. ​What ​do ​you ​want? ​Who ​do ​you ​want ​to ​be? ​Who ​you ​desire ​to ​be? ​Start ​there.”STAY IN TOUCHCome and follow me on Instagram @moniquershields and I would love your feedback so send an email to ambition@moniquershields.com. 
Released:
Apr 10, 2024
Format:
Podcast episode

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“What do you truly want?” This is the central question Ambition Without Compromise seeks to dare high-achieving women of color to answer with more boldness, creativity, and radical honesty. Join Monique R. Shields - executive coach, entrepreneur, family woman, and champion of badass moguls in the making - for conversations that meet powerful women at the legacy-altering inflection points in their businesses and careers that cause them to reexamine everything they thought they knew. Monique and her guests will share their stories of how they’ve connected with their True Norths, how they survived their trials, and what becomes possible when a woman boldly claims her unique and uncompromised definition of success. Are you ready? (By the way, if you enjoy Being Boss with Emily Thompson, The Hello Seven Podcast by Rachel Rodgers, Side Hustle Pro with Nicaila Matthews Okome or Glambition Radio by Ali Brown, then you’re in the right place.)