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#249 Best of - Discipline, Punishment & Rewards with Alfie Kohn
#249 Best of - Discipline, Punishment & Rewards with Alfie Kohn
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Length:
18 minutes
Released:
Apr 20, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Topics discussed in this episode:
Punishment teaches power
Rewards, like punishments, can only get temporary compliance
The more you reward people for doing something, the more they tend to lose interest in whatever they had to do to get the reward
All rewards are sugar coated control
Intrinsic & extrinsic motivation
Talk less, ask more
Kids learn to make good decisions by making decisions, not by being obedient
You can get mindless obedience in the short term if the reward is juicy enough or the punishment is awful enough.
What you can never get is a child who is happy, more ethical, more compassionate, caring or more of an independent thinker.
Learn more about Alfie Kohn and his book Punished by RewardsPurchase a ticket to Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Punishment teaches power
Rewards, like punishments, can only get temporary compliance
The more you reward people for doing something, the more they tend to lose interest in whatever they had to do to get the reward
All rewards are sugar coated control
Intrinsic & extrinsic motivation
Talk less, ask more
Kids learn to make good decisions by making decisions, not by being obedient
You can get mindless obedience in the short term if the reward is juicy enough or the punishment is awful enough.
What you can never get is a child who is happy, more ethical, more compassionate, caring or more of an independent thinker.
Learn more about Alfie Kohn and his book Punished by RewardsPurchase a ticket to Tweens, Teens & Screens or find it in our Happy Families Membership. Because a happy family doesn't just happen!Find us on Facebook at Dr Justin Coulson's Happy FamiliesEmail us your questions and comments at podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Released:
Apr 20, 2021
Format:
Podcast episode
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