Managing value clashes with parents of your children's friends

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Managing value clashes with parents of your children's friends

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Mar 15, 2024

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A big part of being a parent is supporting our children to make friends. So, what happens when our values are very different to those of the families of their new friends? How can you best manage those clashes? Also, what would you do if you went on a road trip with an old friend and it all went wrong?

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