Have you ever had big feelings show up out of the blue in response to a seemingly small event? In our discussion with Vernique Esther, we dig into uncovering the day to day manifestations of trauma (not the types of trauma we usually think of) that affect our ability to heal and thrive, and of course affect sex. Find Vernique Esther’s books, communities, and more on her website verniqueesther.com or connect with her on Instagram @verniqueesther Have you ever wanted to start a podcast? From September 13-30, 2021 the Podcast University courses will be on sale. Type in the membership code: ARIEL10 for a 10% discount. Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit ladiestalkinglove.com This podcast does not replace professional or medical advice. We will be talking about sex, so some content may not be suitable for children and could be triggering to some individuals. Everything discussed is for general information only and is not to be used to diagnose or treat any medical or psychological conditions. Music: MastaBlack_fK and https://envato.com/