NERD_0312 Structure….or Control: Which Do Children “Need”?

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NERD_0312 Structure….or Control: Which Do Children “Need”?

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Mar 6, 2024

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We've heard and read over and over again that children need "structure," but too often what that translates into in practice with young children is attempts to "control." Host Heather Bernt-Santy and Nerd Favorite Lisa Murphy are here to unpack the difference.

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Mar 6, 2024

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Each week host Heather Bernt-Santy and a member of the ECE Nerd Collective share and discuss a quote with a focus on effecting change in the early learning world.

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NERD_0312 Structure….or Control: Which Do Children “Need”?

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