It's not about the nail

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It's not about the nail

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Feb 5, 2024

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On this episode of The 10 Ninety Podcast Mason and Ryan talk about how people aren't looking for you to fix their problems when something bad happens. They talk about how sometimes its about being emotionally supportive.

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Feb 5, 2024

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Hosted by Mason Sawyer and Sam Josie. Discussing all of life's challenges and how we can overcome them.

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Episode 1: Mason and Sam introduce the 10/90 rule. Thank you to our sponsor Nets On Fire. by the10ninety
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Episode 5: A visit with Matt Quackenbush as he shares his expertise and insights as a trauma therapist. He is the owner and creator of the Finding Strength Podcast and the Finding Strength Method, a cutting edge therapeutic treatment approach. He and has... by the10ninety
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Episode 23: Ride in Paradise: Brad Behle sits down with Sam and Mason to discuss his book "Ride in Paradise." The book tells the story of Brad's brother Jason and his battle with prescription drugs which ended up taking his life. Brad is a great example of making something great... by the10ninety
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Episode 14: Sam and Mason discuss the childrens book; "The Empty Pot" and how it ties into the 10ninety message. by the10ninety
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Episode 19: Sam and Mason discuss The Parable of the Raft which they heard from Noah Rashetta's podcast: Secular Buddhism. Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go" -Hermann Hesse by the10ninety
47 min listen
Episode 8: Sam and Mason answer questions sent in by listeners. This episode is sponsored by Desert Pain Specialist of St. George Utah. As well as Synergy Dance Academy of West Jordan Utah. Thank you for your support. by the10ninety
44 min listen
Episode 2: Mason and Sam discuss the night of the car accident that took the lives of Mason's wife, son, daughter, brother, and nephew. Join us in focusing on how we need to open up more and talk about our obstacles. Thank you to our sponsor macronsbybreanna. by the10ninety
44 min listen
Episode 10: This week Mason and Sam interview Shawn Vierra as he shares his story of trauma and how he has been able to move forward. This episode is sponsored by Polished Audio. Thank you for your support. by the10ninety
52 min listen
Episode 3: Mason and Sam discuss the challenges Sam faced growing up with Dwarfism along with along with challenges he faces everyday as an adult with Dwarfism. Join us in continuing our discussion of overcoming obstacles by applying the 10/90... by the10ninety
41 min listen
Episode 4: Mason and Sam answer listener questions that have been sent in. Literally pulling the questions randomly out of a hat. They cover questions ranging from religion, conversations with Blue, Lebron vs Jordan, their most embarrassing moment, keeping... by the10ninety
43 min listen
Episode 13: Happy Halloween! Sam and Mason answer questions sent in by listeners. Questions ranging from religion, pizza, sams dwarfism and more. Thank you for all our supporters it has meant so much to us. by the10ninety
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Episode 18: Sam and Mason sit down with Porter Larsen who shares his powerful story of when he lost his brother Racer in a skydiving accident and then 10 years later loses his Dad to a brain aneursym. by the10ninety
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Episode 11: Mason and Sam visit with Alec McMorris as he shares his inspirational story of survival and rehab after being hit by a pickup truck in Parley’s Canyon. This episode is sponsored by McMorris Deck’s and Structures. Call 801-834-8098 for... by the10ninety
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Episode 12: Mason and Sam visit with Carrie McKee as she shares her challenging story of surviving breast cancer and a traumatic divorce. Her strength and attitude will inspire. This episode is sponsored by Joel Carter. Check out his amazing... by the10ninety
56 min listen
Episode 9: Sam and Mason sit down with Brooke Pando as she discusses the obstacle of having their daughter Londy suffer from Ehlers Danlos Syndrome type 6a. Their attitude and perserverance is inspiring. Thank you to our sponsors! by the10ninety
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Episode 7: Mason and Sam visit with Nick and Janessa Whatcott as they share their journey of losing their young son, Nixon, to cancer. Their story is inspirational. This month is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. Do something to brighten the life... by the10ninety
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Episode 20 (part 2): "Life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you respond to it." -Charles Swindoll Thank you Tim and Becky Graff. by the10ninety
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Episode 20 (part 1): Sam and Mason talk with Becky and Tim Graff, who lost their two daughters. McKinzley, "Kinzley" (age 7) and Elexia, "Ellie" (age 3) in a flash flood. Becky wrote a powerful book: "Swept Away" focusing on grief and acceptance. We appreciate Tim and... by the10ninety
57 min listen
Episode: 17: Sam and Mason answer questions sent in by listeners out of their peaky blinders hat. Topics include: dating, sam overcoming discrimination, Kortni's favorite quote, who will win the nba finals, tattoos, disabilites, types of therapy and more. by the10ninety
39 min listen
Episode 21: Sam and Mason talk about New Year resolutions after having a heavy episode with Tim and Becky Graff. The conversation steered more to God, what heaven is like, and what Jesus is like and of course, movies. Sam and Mason appreciate the fact that they... by the10ninety
51 min listen
Episode 6: Mason visits with Fred Yogo, who shares his life’s challenges of growing up in Kenya and then immigrating to the United States. “Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.” - Epictetus ... by the10ninety
50 min listen
Episode 15: Sam and Mason talk to Mitch Whetman as he discusses the tragedy of his sister taking her own life when she was sixteen years old. Suicide is a big issue especially in Utah. Talking about it more is something we believe may help and bring awareness to... by the10ninety
57 min listen
Race Sawyer AKA Deuces Wild: I invited my sister shannon, brother sage, sister carlie, and sis in law keshia (Races Wife) to my house on January 17th to celebreate races birthday. I told them I want to sit around and talk about race. I said I want to record it and upload it... by the10ninety
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Episode 22 (Puss n Boots): Sam and Mason talk about the new Puss in Boots movie that fits in well with the 10ninety message. This episode is dedicated to Dan Hesketh and his family. Dan lost his wife Elizabeth (44) Son Ashton (11) Daughter Kylie (10) in a terrible... by the10ninety
50 min listen
Brandon Vega: Ghetto Conscious (EATN): Sam and Mason sit down with Brandon Vega, the author of Ghetto Conscious and creator of the EATN project. Brandon shares his incredible story of growing up in a tough neighborhood (to say the least) in Florida and how he was able to break the... by the10ninety
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Episode 16: Cristie North sits down with Sam Josie and Mason Sawyer to discuss the tragic loss of her son Taylor who took his own life on January 6, 2017. Cristie shares some powerful words of wisdom in this episode focused on mental health and suicide... by the10ninety
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Wyatt Kline: Mothers Day Episode: We smiled back at death today. Had Wyatt Kline on our podcast an 18 year old senior from Roy High School in Northern Utah. Wyatt's mom took her own life when he was 15 years old. Wyatt was the one who found his mothers body. Wyatt has a 10ninety... by the10ninety
64 min listen
Zach Josie: Ironman Athlete: Zach Josie has a rare form of dwarfism and is currently training for another Ironman. Zach is a great example of facing obstacles, accepting his circumstances, and moving forward despite that physical competition is harder for him. His drive is... by the10ninety
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No Regrets: My honest opinion and my friendly advice is this: do it or do not do it-you will regret both. -Sören Kierkegaard by the10ninety
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Tim Drisdom: Tim Drisdom dicusses his experineces with Racism, what it was like playing for legendary coach Rick Majerus at the University of Utah were Tim was apart of 3 conference championships and had a trip to the sweet 16. Tim also discusses his experience... by the10ninety
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